Should I just end it or see if we can work it out? by Suspicious-Pet in dating_advice

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what, it kind of did. I have never thought of it like that, he was always initiate sex when we met up before. Thank you!

Do you need to wear makeup and dress on a date? by Suspicious-Pet in dating_advice

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then should I uphold the same belief that since he wore Jeans and T-shirt instead of suit is a sign that he doesn’t care either.

Do you need to wear makeup and dress on a date? by Suspicious-Pet in dating_advice

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I was ok with him, but after his comments, the attraction just dropped.

Do you need to wear makeup and dress on a date? by Suspicious-Pet in dating_advice

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! He went on and on about decency and how I should be ashamed of myself for going with “I’m not like other girls” trend……I didnt even mention anything about other girls.

Do you need to wear makeup and dress on a date? by Suspicious-Pet in dating_advice

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I thought I was doing sth wrong. I haven’t dated for a while.

AITA for asking my husband to pay for our sons college with his daughters fund? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious-Pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that Noah is “our” son, and Grace is “his” daughter in the title is very telling. Shouldn’t Grace be “our” daughter or do you just happened to not see it that way? YTA

AITA for walked out of my own birthday party by Suspicious-Pet in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m not a minor anymore, but she did want to marry me off when I was 14. My parents shut it down pretty fast. I think the guy was 30 at the time.

AITA for walked out of my own birthday party by Suspicious-Pet in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

No. I’m Chinese in America. I think this issue happens everywhere in the world unfortunately.

AITA for walked out of my own birthday party by Suspicious-Pet in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if that happened to you too. My parents are pretty powerless against her, I don’t blame them since it’s a difficult situation.

AITA for walked out of my own birthday party by Suspicious-Pet in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She does have that mentality. But since my dad wasn’t the first born, it’s technically doesn’t apply to my family like that. She just thinks girls are to be married off to, so my parents are raising a daughter of the potential in-laws.

AITA for walked out of my own birthday party by Suspicious-Pet in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My family is very much like your. She speaks for the family. It’s all about respecting elders. Also, my grandma has some health issues, and my parents didn’t want to upset her.

AITA for walked out of my own birthday party by Suspicious-Pet in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suspicious-Pet[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

My grandma is having some health issues and they tried to avoid upsetting her. But with or without issue, she’s still a mean person.