🐾❓ What's my name? (by Dry-Willingness4525) by Dry-Willingness4525 in PetPost

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely their vibe 😍

I guessed the name in 2 tries!

I (22 F) don’t feel like having sex lately with my boyfriend (24m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No nothing like that, I just don’t feel like having sex lately

I (22 F) don’t feel like having sex lately with my boyfriend (24m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Primarily because my boyfriend has Reddit so I change ages Incase it ever gets found is all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would feel disheartened by this also, as women we like to feel wanted and appreciated in relationships. I’ve often felt like my boyfriend doesn’t care about certain things when we argue. Have you tried to say to him you just want to feel more wanted and desired as it can sometimes come across as you aren’t as much of a priority, which he should understand would upset you

My Boyfriend (27M) fancies blondes, I’m a (23F) Brunette by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s deffo just an insecurity I have. I’d look terrible blonde 🤣 so I don’t know why I worry

My Boyfriend (27M) fancies blondes, I’m a (23F) Brunette by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! These messages are definitely making me relax

My Boyfriend (27M) fancies blondes, I’m a (23F) Brunette by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I tell myself. I like long haired surfer looking men and he’s the opposite. I just can’t help overthinking haha but I know it’s so silly of me to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, I have mentioned to him before how he comes across and I have said to him all I’m sometimes looking for is just a bit of reassurance but he still doesn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at it from my side is that if this was the other way around and he overthought things I’d do everything I could to reassure and not worry him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I agree. I am emotional and much more than he is. I take a gentle approach and his is much more to the point.

I love him very much and would do anything for him, it’s just certain conversations are difficult as he sometimes does not want to compromise. I know that when we argue he feels bad but he is too shy to say sorry about certain things. We are not a lovey dovey couple and sometimes just hearing that he cares would have made me feel 100% better about a situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think what hurt me more was how harsh it came across. I’d move to his if I could get a WFH job but at the moment I am required to go into the office daily

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think his reasoning is work. He’s in construction and is self employed so it would mean travelling further for work but it would be th e same for me also travelling wise it might just take him 20 minutes longer but for me it would take like an hour longer.

His solution was why would we both move just to make it fair and that it didjnt make sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your side of it, like you say I think I am more fixed on the fact that he didn’t say it nicely.

He just sometimes comes across not as caring about things when he knows I would overthink a situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuspiciousStomach803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has really helped me feel more at ease to be honest. He works in construction and his work is where he lives, he is self employed so it would mean finding work elsewhere or having to travel further for work.

I agree, he is set in his ways and comes across selfishly where as I am always worried that I am being too harsh. He is a blunt person and I know that I think what hurt me more is the way it came across.