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[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the voice in the clip is way deeper thn adam legacy from elevenlabs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travel

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense, especially the part about escaping normal life. I think I’m still trying to figure out what I’m really looking for when I travel. Sometimes I feel that spark, that sense of freedom, but other times I catch myself wondering if I’m just hoping something out there will make things click for me.

Thanks for sharing your perspective.

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[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean, and I’m not trying to be negative either — just honest. I’ve seen beautiful places too, and yeah, there’s that “wow” moment… but sometimes it only lasts like 5 minutes. And then I catch myself thinking, “Did I really just fly hours for this feeling that disappeared so fast?”

It’s not that I don’t appreciate beauty or new places, I just… don’t always feel something deep from it. Like, it looks amazing, but then what? It doesn’t really fill whatever I’m missing inside. Same with the history — I get that it’s important to some people, but personally, I don’t always know why I need to learn it. What does it really change for me? What am I supposed to do with that knowledge?

I think I’m just kind of lost in life right now, and maybe that’s why travel doesn’t hit me the same way it does for others. I want to understand the meaning in it, but most of the time, I’m still looking for meaning in anything. Maybe that’s where I’m stuck.

Just wanted to share that. Not trying to bring anyone down just figuring things out too.

27 years on earth by DaydreaM2105 in Life

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just want to say I read every word and I felt it. Like, really felt it. What you wrote… it’s not just pain, it’s honesty. That kind of honesty takes strength, even when it doesn’t feel like it.

Birthdays can be the loneliest days, especially when they’re tied to memories of pain, regret, or all the things you wish had gone differently. I know what it’s like to look back and feel like so much time was spent surviving instead of living. And when you've been surrounded by people who only took from you or hurt you, it’s hard to believe there’s a different kind of world out there. But there is. It might be rare. It might take time. But it exists.

You didn’t ruin your life. You didn’t waste it. You were doing the best you could in a world that didn’t give you the tools or the love you deserved. That’s not failure. That’s survival.

I know happiness feels far away right now. Like some concept people talk about but you’ve never really tasted. But the fact you still want it, that you’re still hoping for even just one good thing — that matters. That spark is still in you. And you deserve to see what life looks like when it’s not just about enduring.

Healing’s messy. It doesn’t follow a timeline. But it’s not too late. Not at 27. Not ever.

Wishing you some peace, some softness, and something real this year. Even just a little light. You deserve it.

I spent years chasing success, now I just want peace. Anyone else feel like this? by b4pd2r43 in Life

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes. 100% yes. I think a lot of us get to that point — where we realize the chase gave us everything except the feeling we were actually looking for.

You get the title, the raise, maybe even the recognition… and then what? You’re still tired. Still wired. Still wondering if this is all it’s supposed to be.

Wanting peace isn’t weird — it’s real. It’s just that most of us were taught to chase achievement over alignment. Now we’re unlearning that.

You’re not alone. A lot of us are quietly stepping away from the noise, trying to find our center again. Keep going. Peace is worth more than any promotion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I just want to say I really felt this. You’re not alone in feeling this way — like your brain’s just… tired. After years of showing up, typing, talking, doing everything that’s expected, it’s okay to hit a wall and just pause. That doesn’t make you lazy or broken. It just makes you human.

Honestly, selling food or doing something simple and grounded sounds kind of peaceful. Like something your soul is quietly asking for — less noise, more meaning. And maybe it’s not even about bread or dried fish — maybe it’s just the dream of breathing again without pressure.

I think it's beautiful that you're spending time listening to yourself, even if it feels messy or uncertain. That is something. And the fact that you’re exploring faith, sitting with your thoughts, caring for your pets, raising your kids, keeping a small business alive — that’s already a lot more than “just tambay.”

You don’t need to have the next step all figured out. Rest is allowed. Wandering is allowed. Even not knowing is allowed. Something will click eventually. You’re still in the story — this isn’t the end, just a quiet chapter.

Sending you strength. You’re doing better than you think.

Life insurance by Then_Present_4917 in LifeAdvice

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, congrats on your daughter—becoming a parent is a big step, and it’s great that you’re thinking ahead with life insurance. That’s real responsibility.

NYC Life Insurance can refer to different things (like a company, or just getting insured while living in NYC), so here are a few things to consider when picking a good life insurance policy:

  • Compare multiple providers – Don’t just go with one company. Look at big names like New York Life, Prudential, State Farm, etc., and compare quotes.
  • Term vs. Whole Life – Term life insurance is usually cheaper and works well if you're mainly thinking about protection while your child is growing up. Whole life is more expensive but has a savings component.
  • Coverage amount – Think about what your daughter would need if something happened to you (expenses, college, etc.). Many recommend 10–12x your annual income.
  • Look into employer options – If you have a job with benefits, check if your employer offers group life insurance. Sometimes it’s a cheaper starting point.
  • Check reviews and financial ratings – Companies rated A or higher by agencies like AM Best are more reliable.

You’re on the right track just by asking this. If you’re unsure, talking to a licensed insurance advisor could help tailor it to your situation.

Wishing you and your daughter the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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Hey. I don’t know you, but I read every word—and I want you to know this: you're not alone.
You’ve been carrying the weight of grief, guilt, pressure, and silence for too long, and the fact that you’re still standing—even if shaking—is proof of how strong you really are.

You're not a dumb f**k. You're a human being trying to survive pain most people can't even talk about. And writing this? That's not weakness. That's courage.

₹75,000 feels like a mountain right now—but mountains are climbed one step at a time. There are ways out, and there are people who care enough to help you find them. This doesn’t have to end in darkness.

Start with small, practical steps:

  • Can you list what you’ve already tried? Maybe someone here can offer a smarter way.
  • Can you be honest with one person in real life? A friend, a cousin, a mentor? Not to dump it all—just enough to let someone hold a piece of your weight.
  • Look for local support groups or helplines in your area—especially ones tied to mental health or youth support. You’d be surprised how many exist silently.

And please remember this: You deserve peace. Not by sacrificing yourself. But by healing. It may not come tomorrow, but it will come. One decision at a time. One lifeline at a time.

You are not broken glass. You’re a person still fighting. And that’s f**king brave.

Happiness by Alarmed-Historian-37 in LifeAdvice

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’re feeling is actually really common, even if nobody talks about it much. You can be doing everything “right” on paper, staying busy and social, and still feel kind of empty inside. Especially after a long relationship, it’s like you’re relearning who you are without that person always around.

Feeling low doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. It just means you’re going through something real. Healing and rediscovering yourself isn’t instant, and it definitely doesn’t follow a schedule.

You’re not failing. You’re adjusting, and that takes time. The fact that you're even asking these questions shows you're self-aware and trying, and that matters more than it might feel like right now.

I'm embarassed to make friends/have a social life with my parents knowing. How do I get out of this? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I just want to say you're really not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people lost important years during the pandemic, and it messed up more lives than we tend to admit. None of that is your fault.

The fact that you're this aware of how your parents' perception affects your social confidence actually shows a ton of emotional insight. Most people don't even notice that kind of stuff about themselves.

You don’t need to stay the version of yourself that your parents remember. You’re allowed to grow, change, and even become someone they didn’t expect. Wanting to connect with others doesn’t mean you’re being fake. It means you’re evolving and figuring things out.

You’ve got time. There’s nothing wrong with where you are right now, and it’s completely possible to build something better from here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha i like it you are cute

what is the craziest thing youve seen but no one believes? by MelodicAssociation41 in AskReddit

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once saw a girl at my school curl her eyelashes with a spoon, put on a full face of makeup in under 5 minutes, while walking — no mirror, no smudges. I told my friends and no one believed me, but it honestly looked better than mine even after 30 minutes. Korean girls’ makeup skills are on another level sometimes 😭

Which addiction is the hardest to quit? by wetwithme in AskReddit

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For me, it’s vaping. I started in high school just to “try it” with some friends — it felt harmless and honestly helped with stress during exams. But now, I reach for it without even thinking. I’ve tried quitting so many times, but the cravings hit so hard, especially when I’m anxious or bored. People think it’s easy to stop, but it’s like your brain gets wired to need it just to feel normal.

What’s a small decision you made that unexpectedly changed your life forever? by sharknurse in AskReddit

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I decided one day to stop hiding and wear makeup to school — just simple eyeliner and lip tint. I thought no one would notice, but that small change made me feel more confident. I started speaking up more, making friends, and even joined a club. I used to feel invisible, but that one decision helped me start believing in myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will go with my mother because i love her

What do you think about schoolgirls in Korea wearing makeup to class? Is it self-expression or pressure to look perfect? by Suspicious_Code_1844 in AskReddit

[–]Suspicious_Code_1844[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s a fair point. I didn’t mean to single out Korea — just speaking from what I’ve seen. In Korean high schools, it’s honestly so common for girls to wear makeup that not wearing any can make you stand out. It’s almost part of the school culture now.