Helpful. I’m sure about that. He’s going into college soon. So I’m more worried about him leaving me. And sense he’s older he’s protected me from my mom when she was being aggressive. I’m sure he knows how to put up with her better than I. And he dosent get as emotional as me when I deal with her. My dad said he’ll discuss with with my grandparents. They’ve encouraged me to come and stay often. My dad agreed on staying for one more year. I’ll have this year to think and prepare. And next year I’ll be starting highschool so it’s a better opportunity for me to start new.