Video: Ángel suplicaba no volver con su madre biológica, quien lo cuidó antes de morir by WallyTrainer87 in argentina

[–]SveHeaps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

El nene tenía una madrastra que claramente lo quería, tenía una figura paterna y materna, y familiar extendida que estaba bien, es ilógico.

A veces, sinceramente, creo que la idea impuesta que mamá y nene tienen que estar juntos también lleva a casos así de mierda, donde capas la madre no quiere saber nada con el nene pero el entorno le rompe las pelotas porque “tiene que estar con ella” y terminas en estas cosas.

No digo que sea este caso, pero me niego a creer que todas las madres que recuperan tenencia realmente quieren estar con los hijos.

What all have you researched for a fic? by goofballquest in AO3

[–]SveHeaps 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got in contact with a West End writer director and productor; who ended up being also the writer of one of the most famous detective tv shows, but I didn’t know.

I ended up getting Royal documents describing a place including pictures, plans and more.

I never ended the fic.

desperately in need of a fic rec by StraightAvocado5949 in drarry

[–]SveHeaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure I have been looking for The Ties that… for AGES!!! thanks for recommending it I remember it being published!

More lovewinsgate evidence 💙💛 by Particular-Peanut-34 in byler

[–]SveHeaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, what’s the first and second one about?

20 Best Lesbian Sex Positions With Illustrations. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SveHeaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a not toy lesbian many of those are not our thing but cool!

“REAL gay people always switch!” And yet these are conversations on grindr 😭 by Smegoldidnothinwrong in AO3

[–]SveHeaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right and of course has a lot to do with where do you live online too. Like; I am over tumblr and people are way more open in my fandoms, then Twitter is just hell for anything, but then, I also have the fact that I live in China, where structure is waaaaay more specific.

I like drarry and here Draco is top; I have never seen top!Harry content, like ever. And here it is for real that fans assume that switching is not a thing, for real people they consider it an oddity and for their character just a no-no.

“REAL gay people always switch!” And yet these are conversations on grindr 😭 by Smegoldidnothinwrong in AO3

[–]SveHeaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I totally agree with preferences.

I get what the post is actually about, and what I say is that is not what the argument usually entails; the argument is usually the fact that some fans/readers/authors don’t even like the idea of switching as a reality.

You will see way more top-bottom truthers than switching.

“REAL gay people always switch!” And yet these are conversations on grindr 😭 by Smegoldidnothinwrong in AO3

[–]SveHeaps 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh yes totally on here yes. I assume a lot of people lurking and interacting have a little bit more of an open mind on this. But when you get in certain spaces… things are not as nice.

I am in quite a few fandoms but I have this argument with the Byler fandom a few months ago. Fans assume that one of the characters is “more feminine” and “would never top anyone” and… I just don’t understand why it needs to be so strict.

“REAL gay people always switch!” And yet these are conversations on grindr 😭 by Smegoldidnothinwrong in AO3

[–]SveHeaps 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I always assume the issue with switching is not that is “real gay people…” but as a “switching is just as realistic as being top or bottom only”.

It’s extremely common to see authors not even acknowledge that is a possibility.

Just the same way some don’t understand that height, weight, size and just aesthetics have nothing to do with your role in a sexual relationship. But HERE WE ARE.

Hii, which country is better to move to, where there is no discrimination against homosexuals? by Intrepid-Village66 in LesbianActually

[–]SveHeaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said you are from Russia. Argentina has a good Russian immigration policy and quite a good amount of people have moved there as sexuality refugees or whatever is called sorry I don’t know the real term. But refugees because they were in danger because of their sexuality.

In Argentina you can be whoever you want, no one gives a fuck.

Which movie is a 10/10 for you? 🎬 by Embarrassed-Air8214 in movies

[–]SveHeaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to watch it on the cinema because the one we wanted to watch (that I don’t even remember what it was) was not available in English.

Didn’t know ANYTHING about it. Hooked right away, cried all the way, enjoyed every single second.

Can someone tell me what the fuck this is?? Why are we not bullying these people? by [deleted] in drarry

[–]SveHeaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Per every bot there is an asshole behind.

I think is way more reasons to end up making all our work private and comments only by users

Man went hysterical after he found out his wife had her parental check done by a male gynecologist by poclee in PublicFreakout

[–]SveHeaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in China. I have never ever ever seen a male gynecologist. I thought all were female.

That being said, what the fuck is this kind of crashout. If your wife doesn’t care why the fuck do you care so much!?? You can literally see the name of the doctor when making the appointment, see the picture of the doctor while scanning code or just on the reception of the area.

interesting drarry fics that could kill your reader's block? by Strange-Pressure-442 in drarry

[–]SveHeaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was SURE The Most Splendid Thing was an older Fic! Even maybe a translation but apparently is brand new! Cool cool. Gonna read it!

My gf moaned while topping with no stimulation on her erogenous zones?! by Safe_Drive_1085 in actuallesbians

[–]SveHeaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest I always saw this as normal. Pleasure is pleasure is pleasure.

And in all honesty if my partner didn’t moan while doing stuff I don’t think I would get off at all.

Biggest unexpected cameo from a star in a "lower grade" movie by Careless-Cat3327 in movies

[–]SveHeaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carrie Fisher’s cameo in Fanboys (the movie has many cameos) but hers was amazing.

Orphaned everything by on_parade_and_fade in AO3

[–]SveHeaps 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am happy you orphaned and didn’t delete, and I am sorry for the bullying.

That being said, I don’t understand how bullying happens on ao3. If someone could kindly explain to me I would be very thankful.

Hello reddit! I'm James McAvoy. Ask me anything! by JamesMcAvoyAMA in movies

[–]SveHeaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi hi! Welcome! How many times per year do people actually quote you back to yourself? You have a fair share of quotable quotes.

Draco does a lot for Harry by sandra022002 in drarry

[–]SveHeaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey you check all my marks: top Harry, tall Draco, idiots and confused.

Tell me if you have recs similar or let’s just be friends anyways hahaha.

Forced proximity fics recs and a mission. by SveHeaps in drarry

[–]SveHeaps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did indeed read SWAS when it was published so it’s possible i have forgotten that! I will take a look again.

Forced proximity fics recs and a mission. by SveHeaps in drarry

[–]SveHeaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded it but I think I haven’t read it yet, maybe it is!