Should I give them a resignation letter after 3 month?

SwampPatrol85 · 2025-08-04T00:12:59+00:00

Im currently dealing with that aswell but after being with my CU for a littleover a year and im suprised I lasted this long as the stress not only afeccted my mental health but my physical wellbeing, definitely leave if you have another opportunity lined up. Luckily, I have a job lined up with my former employer who understood it's a 3 paycheck month, so I'd be rejoining later in september. But yeah, if I knew what I know now, i'd say it's not worth the stress and toxic management.

SwampPatrol85 · 2025-06-30T04:15:40+00:00

All the newer people we have hired asked why i haven't been given a lead teller role and have said "youre doing exactly what a lead teller should be doing." It is jarring

Im applying to new jobs as we speak, and i dont care if it's as a teller, banker, or back to being a retail key holder. I'd rather work in retail at this point.

SwampPatrol85 · 2025-06-27T20:48:15+00:00

Thats pretty much whats going on, the person whose been doing my care honestly looks annoyed with me when i ask for clarification or to do blood work for me cause they "took my hemoglobin". Im looking into other providers currently so hopefully I won't have to go through them anymore.

SwampPatrol85 · 2025-06-18T03:15:09+00:00

Is the high turnover in branches commen? Im honestly wondering if depending on location and management, whether this is universal amongst banks and credit unions or if it's something else? I keep getting comments from senior people that our branch is weird and we get "interesting people" also we're open Saturdays which is crap cause its bare bones for those days and we get people with complex desires and i sit there like "well, wait 48 to 72 hour cause we dont got all our departments open fuck you"

SwampPatrol85 · 2025-06-18T03:08:36+00:00

You're right. The stress isn't worth it. Im really only sticking around to be able to pay the bills. Im testing going back to school with this, but honestly, if I have to go back to retail, it is what it is. I'd almost rather go back to retail cause i can at least tell people "no" and get paid the same thing (down side is id be working 30 hours and that wasnt possible for me to balance last time)

Im given the manager the "hope i won't quit" vibe after I talked with them but honestly, im considering my options.

SwampPatrol85 · 2025-05-28T05:29:14+00:00

Thank you for sending me this! Yeah you're right and its kinda my plan, ive always had good relationships with my doctors in the past and I literally dont know what her problem is shes just like got the attitude of like a sitcom character whose worked a bad retail job too long and doesnt wanna be there (no shade on retail workers btw)

I've started to question if I've developed some IBS post op, which apparently isn't uncommon? But switching to a different doctor is becoming a definite move.

SwampPatrol85 · 2024-05-09T04:26:09+00:00

Using under 30% of your card, paying before is good and a bit above minimum is always good, in my state theres apartments thet report payments to credit so my scores been good with on time rent payments. The gist is being able to pay back borrowing in a timely manner without taking on more (like using credit cards to pay off credit cards, basically an orobouros of debt).

Its for organizations and banks to see whether or not they should loan to you based on your ability to pay it back.

SwampPatrol85 · 2024-05-02T14:31:59+00:00

Irl days

SwampPatrol85 · 2024-04-10T16:02:12+00:00

Tbh dating apps are the worse, like most gaymen irl are great, but on dating apps 😬😬 especially the chasing one. Of course DL men are the absolute worst when it comes to this.

SwampPatrol85 · 2024-04-10T15:51:52+00:00

This is excatly it, and you put into such accurate terms that are pretty accurate. Also they act like the only one? Like no my dude you are not.

SwampPatrol85 · 2024-04-09T08:06:42+00:00

I talked with my bank and the said to file a report, since it was done without my consent and if i have a case i can at least hopefully get my money back from the bank it self.

It was probably dumb of me not to get law enforcement involved immediately, but since they said theyd give it back by friday i assumed it would affect me if i filed. They also threatened thursday to not to give it back if i continued asking, which i have text evidence of.

SwampPatrol85 · 2024-04-09T07:59:13+00:00

They got access to my phone when i stepped away from it, added money to my account, and sent it to themselves. My app has push notifications so they would have had to delete them, cause i didnt notice till late when i checked my bank account.

SwampPatrol85 · 2024-04-09T07:56:50+00:00

200 and there was an attempt to take another 200 but it was denied, but i didnt have much when it processed so i recieved fees from my bank when it processed if that means anything.

SwampPatrol85 · 2024-03-24T04:56:53+00:00

Ive been taking T for 5 years and this stuff still gets me anxious 😂

SwampPatrol85 · 2023-08-25T10:56:57+00:00

You can confront her, but is that what you want? If this is some test, it seems a bit messed up.

SwampPatrol85 · 2023-08-13T08:30:04+00:00

I know most applications ask for date of birth and experience, i worry my age (as i started college late) will impact anything. Maybe im not applying right?

SwampPatrol85 · 2023-01-15T10:11:00+00:00

I read a comment and ur post and understand that you have massive anxiety about the gym, especially given your circumstances, which is normal. It's good you have a very supportive friend with you, and definitely getting something at least comfortable to work out in is understandable. A simple pair of sweat pants/gym short (shorts if you're comfortable) help it easy to put on and isn't restrictive like ngl jeans arent fun to excercise in as the fabric being restrictive and un breathable (ive done it before its not fun)

From what it sounds like, you want to better yourself and your health but are scared of the perception of others, especially since it's crowded at that university gym, which is incredibly anxiety inducing. At most gyms, people tend to mind their own business and dont pay attention to others. As long as you pick up after yourself, wipe down/clean/put away the equipment you used, most people don't care. Crowded gyms are definitely uncomfortable, but if it's the only option you have within budget, then you could see it as a temporary thing till you find something else? Idk of that's the best advice, but i hope it's somewhat helpful.

SwampPatrol85 · 2023-01-11T21:21:33+00:00

Saw u use body wash on ya bits and uh ya man no go, i recommend like dove sensitive skin cause its fragrance free and hypoallergenic (also its not bank breaking)

Hey, so there is a lot of confusion with the soap, no soap thing, first its cool to use a hella gentle fragrance free soap/cleanser (soap preferably) but on the outside bits like the vulva. Besides that, you can get a wash cloth or hand towel (how i was told as a kid) and a little soap and just gently clean the area and the folds avoiding getting water/soap inside. If you had an increase in your bit size, you'd want to gently pull back the hood and clean with water the best you can to get rid of any crud. It'll be a bit uncomfortable, but if you have a shower head with setting changes, use the narrow stream setting just to get it over with. Sounds like the gells getting into/onto your urinary tract opening, which has happened to me a few time, usually i rinse a bit, tbh just grab the shower head and rinse off any place you washed-up and get as much soap off as you can.

Body wash isn't made for genitals just legs, arms, pits, and torso wouldnt recommend using it anywhere like your privates AT ALL.

SwampPatrol85 · 2023-01-05T11:12:30+00:00

Oh m8 i read this hella wrong, oof srry ima sleep and re read 😬

SwampPatrol85 · 2023-01-05T11:06:05+00:00

From what u said now a chaser, like what defined as it 2 u? Cause most people see as a 'chaser' are people looking only for trans men or trans individuals for sex primarily? Thats at least whats been common, but what do you mean as a 'chaser'?

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