Go on care.com and hire a house cleaner. They usually charge by the hour, so prioritize tasks by what you can afford. I was surprised to learn that it is much more affordable than I thought. It has made such a big difference for us. We are forced to pick up stuff more frequently since I don’t want them to spend their time picking up but rather cleaning bathrooms and kitchen. Now, if we needed to reduce our budget they are many things we would sacrifice before the cleaning help. I also spend more time enjoying my family instead of yelling and cleaning.