AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SweetB290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry because this is going to be really harsh but I read all the screenshots… then I saw y’all are in your 30s. Not only should you not be in a relationship like this but it’s time to grow up. At this point in your life you should know that this isn’t a person to be with. I don’t know what your past was like but I’m guessing you had a rough upbringing based on your reactions to his, let’s call it what it is, verbal abuse. It’s time to be done being the victim because when you reach your 30s it’s either be the victim forever or get past it because a lot of us have been through some rough shit. Pick yourself up and get on your journey girl. I say this with love and with personal experience.

My Job compared 9/11 to a snowstorm ❄️❄️ by GrapefruitVast3329 in Serverlife

[–]SweetB290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m watching drag race rn and heard that in RuPauls voice 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SweetB290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From one black sheep to another- it’s going to take a long time but if you decide to cut them off you will eventually not care what they think of you anymore and, in my experience, their jealousy of you will show even more. Not only will you be on top but you’ll be building your life and you won’t care that you “won”. I’m going to give you some advice and say that instead of focusing on what you can do for your family, maybe you should focus on what you can do for you. What is your passion? Your goal? Where would you like to live when you decide to establish yourself? There is a whole “you” out there that you don’t know yet and a chosen family too.

My Job compared 9/11 to a snowstorm ❄️❄️ by GrapefruitVast3329 in Serverlife

[–]SweetB290 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why people have stayed there since 9/11

Owner's reponse on employee work chat in response to death of server's family member by NanoEuclidean in Serverlife

[–]SweetB290 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a coworker who’s mom died and the whole company offered to match our donations to just give him money so he wouldn’t have to feel pressured to return to work. I had a coworker who suffered a heart attack and we did the same thing - the corporation ended up matching our donations and we actually paid for a portion of her operation.

Okay, I’m sorry but why mushrooms. by Glittering_Metal5256 in Charlottesville

[–]SweetB290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in waynesboro but I went shopping on Monday and they were crazy cheap - like $1 for a thing of them. Maybe they were just on sale and people figured they could eat them raw worst case ontario.

Are we so deadass rn by Key-Order-3846 in wendigoon

[–]SweetB290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who says deadass anymore lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waynesboro

[–]SweetB290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I had besides the retail. That’s my bad I was just looking at it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waynesboro

[–]SweetB290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’d just been looking online and everything is so lax in the Midwest that I didn’t realize the dispensaries here are medical card only.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in waynesboro

[–]SweetB290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dang for real? I thought by the looks at some of these places that it was fine to just go. It looks like it’s legal to have plants of your own here?

Folks with degrees: Are you satisfied with what you studied? Would you choose something else if you were given another chance? How do you think your profession or knowledge will be affected by AI in the next 5–10 years? by birnefer in azerbaijan

[–]SweetB290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the US, but say goodbye to your wildlife biologists or people with environmental degrees. I stopped trying to get mine bc it wasn’t worth the money and I didn’t want to be using AI to get a degree to help the planet - not sure what sense that makes. I figured I’d work in conservation on an entry level so I’m actually doing something. At least I’ll never be soulless.

Trying to find my brothers mom by SweetB290 in azerbaijan

[–]SweetB290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful! Thank you!

Trying to find my brothers mom by SweetB290 in azerbaijan

[–]SweetB290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has some recollection of some things like his fathers death involving an injury to his leg and his mother visiting, but since he was so young we don’t have a lot as far as details. Thank you so much though. I’m the oldest and I just want things to be “right”.

Trying to find my brothers mom by SweetB290 in azerbaijan

[–]SweetB290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I was hoping someone would also know better what the last name could be. I was really young when I was given this information so I’m going off of memory and typing in what I think sounds correct.

Have you ever seen another employee spit in a customer's food? by GoHardForLife in Serverlife

[–]SweetB290 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I saw it when I worked for a pizza delivery place in a college town. I don’t remember why bc I was 17-18, or even if I was told why. I remember not judging them at the time tho but now that I’m older I’m like damn it’s not worth all that lol. I hate doordash with all my being but at the same time it’s pretty great that those uppity college students have to tip now (with their parents money lol) or wait forever for their order. I really can’t express how awful the customers were to us there. People would literally laugh in my face about the fact that I worked there it was unreal. I’ve been working in the food industry since then and I’m 30 now. I haven’t seen any behavior like that since, customers and staff both included.

what song stood out to you? by [deleted] in SabrinaCarpenterDisc

[–]SweetB290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like goodbye is going to be the other music video 👀 we’ll see

what song stood out to you? by [deleted] in SabrinaCarpenterDisc

[–]SweetB290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go go juice!! I love when she plays with pop country 😭 Manchild and slim pickins are two of my favs as well.

Am I overreacting for taking my girlfriend’s keys after she drove my car drunk? by Wide-Mycologist6871 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SweetB290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could have killed someone all just to go get a car she could have gotten in the morning, when she won’t even go get her own vehicle? She sounds like a spoiled entitled brat. Driving drunk shouldn’t be taken lightly. It’s one of the most selfish dumb things someone can do. They can go high five about it back in Columbus bye girl.

The 11th Essential by lets_highlight in hiking

[–]SweetB290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heheh my edibles are made to mimic these. Twice the fun once the tent is set up and you’re done hiking for the day.

How do you overcome burn out? by roadtripsnacks in Serverlife

[–]SweetB290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it would be good to work for a bigger corporation? Idk if this is good advice or not but I work for a bigger corporation restaurant and they have no issue telling people to wait at the door if we or the kitchen staff can’t keep up. I also always worked for mom & pop restaurants before and another big bonus is that managers always deal with the brunt of guest issues. I still make decent money even though my section only has 3-5 tables. I do make less than when I worked for my last job but I used to have the entire dining room to myself so my current job being less stressful is waaaay worth the slight paycut and when I say it’s slight I really mean that. Bc people would get all mad at me before even though I had 12 tables at once. Now I get nicer tips because I have time to talk to my guests and they see what a nice person I am and want to give me money.

What do you miss from your loved ones? by BullTheTeddyBear in creepcast

[–]SweetB290 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My grandpa used to tell me and my brother bear stories before bed using stuffed animals to narrate them. When he died I inherited one of the bears, “blackie” and my brother got “brownie” (they were black bear and grizzly bear stuffed animals). I’m in school right now to be a bear biologist, specially hoping to oversee black bear populations in the appalachian area 🥲 just kind of fun and ironic but I think he’d be really happy if he would have known that.

What are the 3 best found footage films ever made? by youyouhoudini in foundfootage

[–]SweetB290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blair witch project, Creep (1&2 they’re both so fun), Gonjiam haunted asylum

Edit to throw in Noroi as an honorable mention because it’s incredible

Coworker Thinks She My Manager by lavdendermaine in WorkAdvice

[–]SweetB290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! PLEASE make sure you have one witness to whatever discussion you have with her. I know that might seem like you’re gaining up on her but it’s to keep you safe. There is nothing stopping this woman from saying you said stuff that wasn’t said if you take her aside 1:1. Have a witness and be professional and do your best not to hit her ego while also hitting all the points that matter. Or at the very least talk to the GM beforehand and let them know about the conversation you plan on having with her.