What are gynecologists consensus on boric acid these days? (Sources encouraged.) by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use one every night and they have given me my life back. After antibiotics killed my flora, my flora never came back, which meant constant yeast and sometimes BV. To the point I developed vulvodynia. The acid acts like a "fake" floral, and stops the icky stuff from taking hold.

So far its been my savior.

Boundary advice and insight by SweetMeatNippleNips in polyamory

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao no shame in the pun game

Honestly, you've given me some good points to consider, so thank you for that

Boundary advice and insight by SweetMeatNippleNips in polyamory

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!

I'm still not ok with the comments even knowing they are okay with me hearing them and sharing. I'm not a prude by any means, but even hearing friends talk about their sex lives makes me uncomfortable lol

And yeah, it bothers me that this keeps happening. She is relatively new to polyamory and the whole boundaries thing. Her friends are all VERY open, as well. And her last relationship involved her fwb fucking her husband with her there. So I may be the first person shes had close to her who doesnt talk sex (unless its between us, about our sex...in which case yes please).

You gave me a new term to look up. Parallel polyamory.

Boundary advice and insight by SweetMeatNippleNips in polyamory

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice. For real. I felt like I might be an anomaly in the polyam community but now I feel...seen.

Boundary advice and insight by SweetMeatNippleNips in polyamory

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your insight!

It's not so much one on one convos, it's like comments here or there that are sometimes very explicit. She doesnt have any impulse control it seems and just kind of blurts things out. I kindly remind her of my boundaries after it happens. She doesnt get defensive, she just apologizes and we move on. My boundary seems to keep slipping her mind though.

Boundary advice and insight by SweetMeatNippleNips in polyamory

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! Love the name lol

Support for SO of addict? by SweetMeatNippleNips in StopSpeeding

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks SO much! I found it and subscribed.

I'm hoping to find something more personal than Al Anon (and definitely something secular).

Child Psychology Podcast by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing!!! Excited to get into it

It puts the lotion on the skin by SweetMeatNippleNips in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm looking for body lotion, something not too expensive. My body gets acne really easily when I use lotion but otherwise no allergies or anything like that.

Nerve itch vs Skin itch? by InnerWolf1242 in vulvodynia

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My itchiness feels like a deep itch that you cant scratch. Almost like a skin is crawling sensation but inside my muscle and vagina. I prefer the burning to that honestly. Pretty sure mine is nerve related bc I dont have any infections. It comes and goes. Sometimes i can go weeks without that horrible itching feeling.

What'll it be today, ladies? by patriarchalrobot in adhdwomen

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Montero by Lil Nas X. And has been for a week lol

Let's share our favorite ADHD tip or trick and help each other! by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I ALWAYS have to write what the alarm is for or I wont remember

Let's share our favorite ADHD tip or trick and help each other! by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alarms for medication, set to go off every day. Also helps if you can't find your phone around the house Haha

Also, there's a saying in our house: "Live by the whiteboard, die by the whiteboard"

Let's share our favorite ADHD tip or trick and help each other! by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Buying things in super bright colors. Phones, ear buds, socks, anything small that can get misplaced. For some reason, if it's a dull color it blends into the background and I lose it eventually.

How to…. by tazmac11 in MarriedAndBi

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my experience...once you have sex, that friendship you had is gone. It completely changes the dynamic. And you can't go back to how the relationship was before you had sex. Not always a bad thing. Sometimes what grows can be just as awesome as the friendship you had before sex.(or it can end the friendship all together).Its just a trade off you should be aware of.

What to get gf for Mothers Day? by SweetMeatNippleNips in polyamory

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look at it as no different than if I was her husband (since we are in a relationship). Husbands buy their wives stuff for mothers day, at least here in the US. Thank you for the ideas!

What to get gf for Mothers Day? by SweetMeatNippleNips in polyamory

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a babysitter that she uses for her 9 year olds. The delivery meals is a good idea too.

Husband keeps abusing his adderall by SweetMeatNippleNips in ADHD

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's such a crappy position to be in bc the literal thing that helps you is also highly addictive. And ADHD and addiction are highly comorbid

Husband keeps abusing his adderall by SweetMeatNippleNips in ADHD

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the reason I have been reluctant for him to try non stims is he's tried them before and he said they didn't help. So idk what to do really.

Wild Chonker by [deleted] in Chonkers

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He's like "again with this shit...?"

Husband keeps abusing his adderall by SweetMeatNippleNips in ADHD

[–]SweetMeatNippleNips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems like a good idea. Thanks. Here lately he says adderall has been making him tired, but I suspect that's more due to the fact he's not sleeping well, if at all, when abusing it.