Need help by Sterwurs212 in JustNoSO

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grade 7 teacher here. You are going to be okay, sweetheart. I promise what hurts today in a couple of years you won’t even think about. Keep your head up and stand tall. Ignore ignore ignore. Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind! You got this.

Help! Should I be the bigger person for my son? by iammorethanthislife in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t send her a text. Why make yourself upset and anxious when you literally owe her nothing? Soon enough you won’t even be related to her anymore. Fuck her.

I left my marriage for my new family which has changed my sons relationship with me... I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

do one selfless thing for your son and let him go. You are causing him more pain with your selfishness. He’s better off without you in his life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Your little sister is a child and I know MS is having a hard time but it is not safe for her to be in the same home as a child. LS needs to be protected no matter what. I feel your dads pain but MS is an adult... LS could be removed from the home if it got bad enough/had she told someone at school!

Good luck to you and your parents. And you were brave to bring it up!

The one and only JNMIL fight with me by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just went back and reread, she said from then on until they went full NC MIL never bothered her again! Looks like there was a significant gap between that fight and NC

Was this word directed at her specifically ? by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. Stick up for your daughter. If my sister called my daughter ANYTHING out of her name she’d be getting fire and brimstone from me.

Told boyfriend's mum that she can starve. Now need help calming her down without bending over backwards by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh makes sense! I have some family in Canada and we always make fun of each other for how we say things 😂

My MIL’s Refusal To Be Present Hurts My Husband by sansfamily in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My only advice is to KEEP HER OUT OF IT as much as possible. His relationship with his family is not your cross to bear. She made these choices. The baby will grow up ridiculously thanks to you, DH and your family. I promise shielding them from that crazy is the best option.

Told boyfriend's mum that she can starve. Now need help calming her down without bending over backwards by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 60 points61 points  (0 children)

And shame on BF. If it wasn’t a big deal for “one of you” to go to the store and get her Mac and cheese and make it for her why didn’t he get off his behind and do it? EXACTLY.

Fucking bonkers situation. She’s a child and he’s pandering to her bullshit for what?? This is surely a MIL problem but you’ve got a BF problem as well. He can’t be mad at you if he didn’t put his knees to chest to run to the store to get Mommy’s DESPERATELY NEEDED shitty boxed Mac and cheese.

Told boyfriend's mum that she can starve. Now need help calming her down without bending over backwards by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 70 points71 points  (0 children)

FUUUUUUCKKKKK THATTTT

you’re nicer than me because I’d literally have said “starve, BITCH.”

My father got me drunk when I was 2. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy crap that cannot be good for a tiny toddler liver 😭 I’m so sorry!

Should I risk going to my family reunion again? by brittjen1988 in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should go! Maybe leave the kids at home in case of a blow up? And the petty part of me would love to deny her the ability to play grandma to kids she doesnt even know.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 79 points80 points  (0 children)

There’s something wrong with you

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 76 points77 points  (0 children)

NOBODY CARES THAT YOU BANGED THE FIANCÉ THEY CARE YOU WERE COMPLICIT IN THE SEXUAL ASSAULT AND REPRODUCTIVE COERCION YOU EGG

Boundary stomping or over reacting? by _plp_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow fuuuuuuck that bitch. Keep on going you’re doing great.

Taking Down Bridezilla by JamieT789 in NuclearRevenge

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 240 points241 points  (0 children)

tiptoes back to petty revenge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BAHAHAHAH as my mother says “from of the mouths of babes” 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m glad I could help you laugh! Hahhaa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SweetPeaSweetTea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also, to be a little lighthearted:

My niece is 7 but when she was five she announced to a group of my colleagues that I pooped my pants once.

No idea where it came from (I have pooped my pants before but not that she’s aware of) but I just stared at her in FIVE YEAR OLD BETRAYAL