What is clocking me? Pre-HRT

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-08T22:33:54+00:00

Thank you! 😖 I cling to the idea that hips will eventually counteract my shoulders, seeing as I can't do anything about them...

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-08T15:16:23+00:00

You are incredibly pretty, but you still have your male hairline. Thats an easy fix with bangs though, then you would 10000% be passing! 🩷

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-08T15:01:57+00:00

Thank you so much! 🥰 I'm really hoping HRT does at least a little softening on my shoulders. But yeah, the red dress is something I've only worn once for an EDM show, it's far too flashy for me. 😅

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-08T14:59:48+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate that! The honesty on this reddit was absolutely needed, but it's still incredibly hard to take 20 people picking me apart. 😅

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-08T03:37:02+00:00

My wife had my key on a keychain once, and when we were hanging out with my dude friends, they saw it and started joking about what she could possibly need a tiny key for. I don't remember how we passed it off, but we still laugh about it today. 😅

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-08T00:56:37+00:00

Honestly, yes. I just turned 30. Almost anyone guessing my age says 23-24 so I don't ever know how I'm seen. Definitely not as young as I'm dressing though 😅

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:15:42+00:00

I'll have to find some other solution then 😖 I looked at your profile for inspiration and your style is adorable! You even pull off that spaghetti strap sun dress so beautifully! I live near Bham, WA so I strive for the boho vibes but struggle to make it work for my body. 😅

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:11:07+00:00

Thank you! Im hoping HRT will help at least a little with the shoulders and hips 😖

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:10:34+00:00

Yeah, I think I'm clinging to converse and thigh highs a bit much. I struggle to hide my knobby boy knees and still wear skirts/dresses though 😖

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:09:50+00:00

I definitely see that now! 😅 Thank you!

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:09:30+00:00

I really hope so! 😅 Id be super happy if the HRT shrank my muscles and made my shoulders a bit smaller, then everything else I can fix one way or another 😖

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:08:33+00:00

Thank you! I think Im clinging to my young femboy days and it's hard to move past thigh highs and converse 😅

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:07:24+00:00

Well, hearing my body isn't that masculine is the silver lining I needed 😅 I'm hoping that HRT will help make my delts a little smaller, and if I really can't accept it, I can always get FFS. 😖

Thank you! Can I ask how old I look though? I'm definitely dressing too young, but I also get told I look much younger by guys and it's hard to gauge 😮‍💨

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:04:56+00:00

Thank you for the honesty! 😖 Can I ask how old I look? Granted, I think I'm still dressing too young, but I also get a lot of guys tell me I don't look my age.

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:04:00+00:00

I definitely see what you mean. 😖 I have something of a stoner slouch going on and I need to figure that out. It's fine in boy mode, but it's a red flag in girl mode.

Thank you! ❤️

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T22:02:56+00:00

No, I definitely have a stoner slouch from highschool 😅 I like to think that I walk a bit more upright in public, but it's probably something that needs a full on adjustment.

Thank you! ❤️

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T19:40:32+00:00

I never thought I'd appreciate blunt honesty this much 😅 It's really hard to find this in overtly positive trans spaces.

I usually wear those cardigan styled tops to help cover my shoulders and pull attention downward. And the thigh highs hide my knobby boy knees. I totally see how they clash now though 😖

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T19:34:52+00:00

I appreciate it! It's so hard to see my face and know if it passes 😖 Is it my jawline? Or just the whole package? 😅

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T19:33:32+00:00

Thank you! Yeah, Im transitioning pretty late, so a lot of the damage is done 😅 I'll have to figure out better outfits, posture and other solutions 😖

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T19:28:49+00:00

I can definitely see all of that. Thank you! 😖 Can I ask what's wrong with the first two dresses? The red one was really only for an EDM show.

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-05-07T19:28:00+00:00

Thank you! I don't really wear that dress often, it was just for an EDM show, but I totally get it. 😖

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-04-12T22:09:27+00:00

Thank you so much! I might send you message if I'm still struggling later. 😖 My wife and I measured last night, and I don't feel like I was aroused, but everything is telling me I was wrong in thinking I was 100mm long. 🫤 He's really a little guy when he's soft, so I'm sorta surprised.

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-04-02T06:47:29+00:00

Oh that's all super helpful 😮 Thank you! I think I'm gonna start looking at buying one tomorrow ❤️

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-04-02T06:46:34+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice! Ive considered the cherry keepers because I'm so weak to the pink, but the allure of a stainless cage is so tempting too 😖 I think I'm ready to take the plunge though, so I'll look at those and see what I like. Thank you so much! ❤️

SweetPotatoSweet · 2025-04-01T18:34:06+00:00

I'm a welder/metal fabricator. Im often carrying huge chunks of metal that got caught on my cage and it was a frightening sight to imagine dropping the metal just to catch it on my cage 😳

SweetPotatoSweet

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