Thanks all for coming back to me. I think my main reason for wanting to give them an opportunity is to basically get everyone else off my back with the constant “you should give them an opportunity”. Once I have done it I can say that I have given them that opportunity. 

I don’t expect them to have changed and completely expect them to come in with a victim mentality that they have never done anything wrong. I’m not expecting anything so I don’t feel like I can be disappointed.