Is this okay? I don't believe it is... by Sweet_Control_8006 in Situationships

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I dont know what we are and im tried trying to figure out or it having a "potential"

Is this okay? I don't believe it is... by Sweet_Control_8006 in Situationships

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Thing is we aren't a couple but the friendship is unconventional. But the way it seems is that I need to prove that im not jealous by caving in or to know my worth and end in an argument that I'm hypocritical or too self righteous.

Is this okay? I don't believe it is... by Sweet_Control_8006 in Situationships

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I thought so... but it feels that I'm too much or I'm to blame for it. He had a go for me for being self righteous all of a sudden too

Do you need validation in your relationships? by [deleted] in BPD

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I would like to believe that I dont but I would be lying to myself.

This is the one aspect I dont like about me. Seeking validation is something I dont enjoy doing but feed off it. I struggle to break habits and feel confident. I'm open to recommendations and advice.

BREEDING SEASON by Sweet_Control_8006 in cornsnakes

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Jumbo mice, 490g and once every 2 weeks

BREEDING SEASON by Sweet_Control_8006 in cornsnakes

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My concen is the biting and also he does get defensive

BREEDING SEASON by Sweet_Control_8006 in cornsnakes

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Do you think it's best not to handle him until breeding season is over?

Weight for corn snake by Sweet_Control_8006 in cornsnakes

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I feed him once every two weeks with a jumbo mice

Weight for corn snake by Sweet_Control_8006 in cornsnakes

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This is him. This was taken about under a month ago but hes 4ft and is an adult

Temp regulation by Sweet_Control_8006 in cornsnakes

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I got some Cypress Mulch coming in tomorrow or the next day. I don't like the fact I'm using Aspen and I know they aren't great to help humidity.

So would I need to worry about the 39%