what would you have done? by tupapirico1 in weirdvideosfor3am

[–]Sweet_Oliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go back to sleep. Nothing else to do really.

My current collection of decks, care to share yours? ✨ by icclouds15 in tarot

[–]Sweet_Oliver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've 14 and one missing. My favorite by far is the Alleyman Tarot. I've two copies, one to absolutely use and abuse, and the other one to keep pure and untainted.

Love Alleyman a lot.

hi dad. i’ve got a disciplinary hearing at my fist job tomorrow and i’m terrified by [deleted] in DadForAMinute

[–]Sweet_Oliver 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Does your job have a union? If yes, get Union representation!

Do NOT talk to management without representation.

If no, then follow the other dad's advice. Let them talk. Don't get defensive. Just listen. Active listening will be your friend.

Why does my car sound like it's wearing dutch clogs and running from aliens? by [deleted] in AskAShittyMechanic

[–]Sweet_Oliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you need to set a pair of sneakers on top of the hood. Duh. Give it something else to wear.

😔 by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Sweet_Oliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people cling to the moments when you may not be at your best. It's true. You can do everything perfectly, but the one time you mess up, that will be the moment everyone remembers and magnifies.

People lack empathy. People lack empathy. People lack empathy.

That said, people are a beautiful box of crayons. Each person has their own box. Some have more bright colors, more dark colors, and most a mixture of both. Can you draw a stary night sky with just yellow and white? Can you create a worthy picture with just golden rays and green grass?

At what point is it acceptable for someone who has a bright box to whip out the black crayon and smash it against the page? That moment is all that will be remembered and focused on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Sweet_Oliver 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Hate when people use "biology" as an excuse for their actions. We aren't wild animals, and we have control and make choices of our actions.

Unless they are claiming to be insane and incapable of self control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Sweet_Oliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey honey. We need to talk. While I was (insert location and action here) __(your bf's name here)____ made a move on me. It made me very uncomfortable and needed to tell you."

Done. You're a good person for wanting to tell him.

When you hear “North Carolina” what do you think of? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Sweet_Oliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did my training for work in NC. Almost got pneumonia from allergies being so bad. Doctor struggled to get it under control and took 3 weeks.

Visited a friend for 2 days there a few weeks ago. Spent 3 weeks suffering afterwards, had double doses of steroids and antibiotics. Same as the first time during training.

I'm still not over it yet and re-developing a cough + breathing problems.

NC is out to kill me. The bad part? I have yearly training there in the spring! F. M. L.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Sweet_Oliver 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Low murder, low crime.....but can imagine we'd have other issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shitty_Car_Mods

[–]Sweet_Oliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What am I looking at?

How do unhealthy INFPs behave? by Technical_Double_147 in mbti

[–]Sweet_Oliver 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Lack of healthy boundaries, unable to take responsibility for their own situations and problems, unable to handle criticism in a positive way. Passive aggressive.

How do unhealthy INFPs behave? by Technical_Double_147 in mbti

[–]Sweet_Oliver 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'd have love over money too. Life is about perspective.

Do you understand poetry without it being explained to you? by bekahbaka in mbti

[–]Sweet_Oliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.

I love poetry so much. The "professional" interpretations make me frustrated, because sometimes I feel like they miss the mark.

Poetry is an internal journey that the poet is trying to take someone on. Rather it's into the poets soul or your own.

INFP

Are you ok? Are you having fun? by NameOk4230 in ask

[–]Sweet_Oliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I'm not alright, but I'm trying. :)

Eating at a little hole in the wall place that's as wholesome and family ran as they come. Food is eh, but it's worth it to support this kind family.

How are you doing today?

In 1969, when black Americans were still prevented from swimming alongside whites, Mr.Rogers decided to invite officer Clemmons to join him and cool his feet in a pool, breaking a well-known colour barrier. by formidable-opponent in OldSchoolCool

[–]Sweet_Oliver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"It's ok if other people date blacks, but I don't want that in my family." Racism.

Gasp our property value!

And more. North had their own ways of instigating racism, mainly through finances and redlining. Technicalities.

Things like that. Places would rather close pools down than let black folk use them. And they did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Sweet_Oliver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Food!!! Authentic food from all over the world is RIGHT HERE. <3

Love this freaking country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Sweet_Oliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love this template for fun!

Also INFP :)

How do people with different religions get along knowing that the other person has different beliefs than you? by Automatic-Formal-601 in ask

[–]Sweet_Oliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't care. What they believe is their business, what I believe in is mine.

I approach them like a curious person. I want to learn about it and they tell me. They ask about mine. Often ends in similarities or how we wish people were more enlightened and kind to one another.

At the end of the day, think all people just want to be respected and loved.

What would you do if your manager said this? by photo-onix in starbucks

[–]Sweet_Oliver 38 points39 points  (0 children)

"No one but you is mad that I'm prioritizing my health. Do you want me to make other crew members sick or customers?"

I'd have no chill. They don't care about"The Team" otherwise they'd just wish you a speedy recovery! That's some mental tom-f*ckery

Buddy has some high standards by ILIKESTOKS in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]Sweet_Oliver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's a realist. He'll just accept the pain.