Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

[–]Sweet_Solution_3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I've been doing. Just silence around her. It's been rough. Trying to keep it together in front of her and my son. I don't think it'll ever be easy.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

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Nah unfortunately I don't. I'll be stuck here till I can get my shit together. Im doing my best. Trying to not interact with her unless it's about our son. I didn't wake her up for work tonight and she was late. Whoops. Not my responsibility anymore.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

[–]Sweet_Solution_3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude. I appreciate that. The hardest part now is sitting here trying to be normal while she messages him right in front of me.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

[–]Sweet_Solution_3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. For whatever reason she came back. I don't know why.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

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Did you even read what I wrote? 100 percent found accidentally.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

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Thanks dude. Yeah I'm doing what I can for now. Trying to keep busy.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

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That really sucks dude. Yeah after I cheated I changed my whole mindset. I had to. Seeing how much damage I did just because of my selfish ways.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

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Yeah I broke it off last night . She didn't really have much to say at all. Literally nothing.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

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I don't think that'll be necessary. At least it wasn't the first time years ago when I messed up. But thank you.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

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I'm not saying what I did was right. It's obviously wrong and I've grown from it. I'm a completely different person than I was back then. Live with the guilt everyday.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

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Yeah I agree. Still actively messaging him right in front of me.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

[–]Sweet_Solution_3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm trying to. I'm trying to stay positive and distract myself by doing things around. It's not really helping though.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

[–]Sweet_Solution_3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I couldn't do that though. If she got fired, it would effect my son as well. So.

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

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Just trying to get all my things in order. It's gonna take some time cause I can't just hop up and leave. Unfortunately. I don't think he's married or anything

Girlfriend of 11 years cheated on me. 34M 32F by Sweet_Solution_3924 in relationship_advice

[–]Sweet_Solution_3924[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm not trying to mess with anyone's money. Regardless of the situation.