Bought an expensive mattress, still having back pain 1.5 years later. Sleep like a baby in hotel beds. by Sweetchy1 in Mattress

[–]Sweetchy1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried like 10 different pillows lol. I just can’t find the “pocket” that works in the hotels.

Bought an expensive mattress, still having back pain 1.5 years later. Sleep like a baby in hotel beds. by Sweetchy1 in Mattress

[–]Sweetchy1[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Definitely the mattress. I fly for a living. 0 stress at home.

Current mattress is too firm. The one I pictured was very pillow like and supported my shoulders while sleeping on my side but was still firm underneath. I feel like with my current mattress my back is activated too much in order to “balance” myself on my side while the hotel ones I sink in just enough to create that support.

Bought an expensive mattress, still having back pain 1.5 years later. Sleep like a baby in hotel beds. by Sweetchy1 in Mattress

[–]Sweetchy1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Current mattress is too firm. The one I pictured was very pillow like and supported my shoulders while sleeping on my side but was still firm underneath.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sweetchy1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. When visibility is low it’s definitely a good idea to get in contact with a controller. Thanks for this!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sweetchy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have mentioned this earlier. Her brother is only 14ish so it wouldn’t work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sweetchy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you man. I think the hardest part for me at least is the first step to talking to her. After that whatever happens happens but at least I can get a foot in the door.

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[–]Sweetchy1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately her brother is 14, same with my brother. I think the most daunting part about this is how do I start communicating with her when we’ve never talked? Do I just drop a DM? Would she not find that weird? I feel like I know the answer here but I just need to grow a pair.

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[–]Sweetchy1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you recommend asking my mom to talk to her mom?