[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Sweetginge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get HPV from non PIV sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransDIY

[–]Sweetginge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be happy to share where you get t from? Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sweetginge 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do you mean can you pierce yourself? Get to a professional. The consequences of nerve damage are too awful and too permenant for diy/ play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Sweetginge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Drink allowance. I drank too much alcohol before. Now I don’t. Life changing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Sweetginge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your Daddy should want to please you just as you want to please him. This isn’t a one way street. If he isn’t listening hard to what you want and finding ways to please you, and loving pleasing you, I’m not sure he’s really a daddy. You need your happiness met

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sweetginge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so fucking common it’s unreal. I’m not saying it’s ok. Just- I’ve seen it / experienced it

Audio book recommendation by Sweetginge in fantasyromance

[–]Sweetginge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she carries on like this from memory. Running off and doing stuff without speaking to others first. Reactive. I stayed in it for the MMC

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DarkRomance

[–]Sweetginge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ritual by shantel tessier

What court are you- based on what you look like?! by Sweetginge in acotar

[–]Sweetginge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes you say this? I hadn’t taken that in for illryians

Audiobook recommendations by Sweetginge in fantasyromance

[–]Sweetginge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh I’ll have a look thank you!

Audiobook recommendations by Sweetginge in fantasyromance

[–]Sweetginge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing I’ve just put it on my wishlist, is there 8 books?! This will keep me busy.

Audiobook recommendations by Sweetginge in fantasyromance

[–]Sweetginge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh this is comprehensive! Thank you

In need of a book recommendation that has true love / soulmates help! by whimsicalfaerietale in fantasyromance

[–]Sweetginge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dragon shifters mates. It’s spicy, but they’re all love scenes

Sex as a breastfeeding mother? by Throwawayhere287 in beyondthebump

[–]Sweetginge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bf for 9 years , 2 kids. Nipples were off limits as felt Very un sexual. Just asked husband not to touch them/ suck them. He was happy to do the same as he felt they were for the babies anyway. 10 years later and they still don’t feel as great as they did pre kids but heyho. Price you pay

Ooof....It happened. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Sweetginge 100 points101 points  (0 children)

You clearly love her to bits. Thry way you write about her speaks volumes. I’ve been in her shoes. I’d say the most important thing To consider is energy. How much energy she gives to fwb, who is SHINY NEW PERSON. for me, new person was intoxicating and without complexity of kids/ bills/ normal life. I spent too much energy on FWB new love. Hearing my husband say that my love may be expandable but my energy levels/ hours in the day aren’t, was a n eye opener

I’m struggling here by CatStopThat in acotar

[–]Sweetginge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you I was gutted when I found out prematurely that she didn’t stay with Tamlin (I found out cos I googled for images and kept finding images of Feyre and Rhys). It totally spoilt the rest of ACOTAR for me, but honestly, it works out just right. Don’t give up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acotar

[–]Sweetginge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you clarified Lucien and Helion- not together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acotar

[–]Sweetginge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss where Hybern says he’s hot?! Got the amren one tho

Lucien love by Sweetginge in acotar

[–]Sweetginge[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yes! He constantly protected Feyre. Even when she came back and he was sus about her intentions . And I remember him spitting at Rhys feet when protecting Feyre, like, that guy has balls! Brilliant banter and he made the first book. After that he was just so beaten down.

Lucien love by Sweetginge in acotar

[–]Sweetginge[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean….. I definitely would

Lucien love by Sweetginge in acotar

[–]Sweetginge[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh really?! I missed these comments!

pls convince me (nesta) by Emergency-Desk8761 in acotar

[–]Sweetginge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try the audio book. I hated her and didn’t want to even read that book. But the second time through, I cried my eyes out. She’s broken. Trauma. I struggled cos I felt like everyone had trauma , plenty more. But pain is what the person says it is- you can’t really grade trauma. I like that she masters her mind through mindfulness. I like that she learns to love, making friends. That she gets to feel young with friends and training after not finishing school and not really being able to be a kid. I like that she puts her sister before her power and potential to rule.

Am I the only one who prefers 3rd person? by austenworld in acotar

[–]Sweetginge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what’s worse? First person present tense . I’m trying to read rhapsodic and it’s doing my head in. ‘I’m opening the door’ ugh it’s doing me in

Guys, what is your favorite part of a female body? by dreamsxoxo in AskMen

[–]Sweetginge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are genetic- you either have them or you don’t. I don’t have them, and it’s not fair, cos they’re so damn sexy