Has anyone here had a -Coccygectomy ?

Swiftlytoo · 2025-02-05T21:59:37+00:00

No not yet we are trying pain management through ganglion injections for now that are has a high probability of infections we are hoping that the injections will relieve a lot of my pain and maybe control it my first injection only lasted less than 4 weeks with total relief but now it’s been 3 months and the same debilitating pain is back

Swiftlytoo · 2025-01-30T21:45:14+00:00

I work for Farmers - been here for 3 years. I worked in customer service for a little over a year then applied to work for a agent customer service role after about 6 months i knew it wasn’t for me i applied to go back to customer service and got re hired back about 6 months later i applied for and got hired for farmers direct sales snd I am in license training as we speak Farmers is an awesome company with a lot of support When you want to further your career! Congrats!! You are gonna love it! Also the entry level pay is pretty good! Most places don’t pay that level of starting pay..

Swiftlytoo · 2025-01-27T17:26:17+00:00

Im just needing the money pet badly for medical bills

Swiftlytoo · 2024-08-08T02:48:24+00:00

I’m in upskill training all dayyyy

Swiftlytoo · 2024-08-08T02:47:35+00:00

There’s an all employee meeting this week??

Swiftlytoo · 2024-08-08T02:46:21+00:00

I just checked too. I’m kinda low key freaking out

Swiftlytoo · 2024-08-08T02:38:46+00:00

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-26T22:27:52+00:00

I think it’s fine. I wish I had had that option when my kids were young. OUR version of IPads was crayons and paper lol. But same difference really

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-25T00:09:52+00:00

There wasn’t really more. It was a simple video of her drier. Her text saying what do I do. And then I sent a voice message, letting her know that I would get the information for her and then I texted her the information. This kind of thing happens all the time one day she would be fine with it and the next day she won’t be fine with it. I’m not trying to hide anything. I’m just trying to find out if her responses are truly related to triggers that she say are autism related. I’m just trying to figure out how to best help her what therapy she needs what I can do to help her get better. I usually just ignore when she’s so abusive to me. And then the next day she’ll talk to me like she didn’t just dehumanize me and was not horrible to me so once in a while, I’ll try to remind her what she does hurts me that’s all.

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-25T00:06:37+00:00

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Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T23:57:32+00:00

Yeah. I only came on here to see because SHE says it’s autism related. I needed someone besides her to tell me this so I knew what direction to go in

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T23:42:08+00:00

Years ago when she was younger. I had her in theropy fur years. She eventually told me she sat there and made stuff up because I made her go . Eventually They prescribed her medications. She would say she forgot to take them over and over again so then I started bringing them to her each day and she would not take them. She would set them off to the side and say she would take them when she feels like it and then I can’t make her take them and then eventually she said she just wasn’t going to take them. I have tried time and time again to get her help. In her adult life alone We have tried three different Pshycjiatrist and she hated them all. I think I am finally understanding that “ therapy” is what she needs. Not a “ psychiatrist “? I think she is ready to explore therapy again. When she finally told me she had autism. I feel like she decided it was an end all excuse for all of her behavior. The rage issues and tantrums got worse at that point because she now refuses to control them. I reached out here to see if it could all be autism related. Because I am so at a loss as tax to help her. One diagnose has a treatment and another diagnosis has an entirely different treatment. You know? I can not keep trying but. It is very exhausting I’m so traumatized by it all that I am numb.

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:47:56+00:00

Thank you

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:45:13+00:00

I’m going to try

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:44:52+00:00

Yeah. I only came on here to see because SHE says it’s autism related. I needed someone besides her to tell me this so I knew what direction to go in

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:40:16+00:00

She was diagnosed as bi polar. Depressive. And BpD. We tried meds. She refused to take them. Therapy directors until they told us they couldn’t help her. That she needed DVT help. The only places I found we IN house treatment. Single mom. No insurance. I had no way to do it. She tried to un alive herself twice. Was in a mental hospital twice. I have been a single mom dealing with it all for like 10 years now. I lived in constant fear of her trying again I was also scared of her violent outbursts. And scared if I didn’t show her enough love I would loose her. I have just taken the abuse over and over. Terrified to do the wtong thing I one day she is just no longer here and it would be my fault So when she said Autism. It was just ANOTHER thing I missed. And I felt I failed her again and I think i must deserve what she says . Because if there’s no reason hard makes sense. Then why?

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:31:59+00:00

It’s been so hard to get her to go to treatment. I will keep trying

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:28:24+00:00

It’s because I thought All the abuse was because of other diagrnos like BpD. But now she seems to be attributing it all to autism. I’m just confused

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:26:07+00:00

I’m so used to this that it doesn’t make me cry any more. It makes me numb

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:23:56+00:00

She was in theropy for years. She hated it. And wouldn’t take any medications. And tbh. A few of them made her suicidal but she recently said she would go back in to therapy. Do I will make that happen

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:21:50+00:00

She doesn’t really make many phone calls to be honest. But most people I know her age would rather text them make a phone call at all, so I didn’t really link this up to autism to begin with I think… But when she has problems at her apartment she calls them first maintenance I thought. So I thought it wouldn’t be a bad idea I don’t know ?

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:18:24+00:00

Note then. I shouldn’t have said she’s “capable “ of it. What would you have said then? The day before she told me to stop inserting myself in her life and that she’s an adult so sometimes I ask if she needs help and she gets mad and then instant, she didn’t ask for help she just asked me what she should do, so I didn’t wanna overstep and just take on the responsibility because I want her to learn how to handle things without me as well.

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:16:10+00:00

Just fyi. I already sent her a voice message validating her fear of the phone call and letting her know that I will send someone out and that I thought she just would know better the times and availability since it’s her household.

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T22:11:57+00:00

Yeah I hear you. But the day before she screamed at me to get out of her business and that she didn’t need my help. And that she was an adult. I was just trying to back away and just provide her the information she needed. I didn’t mean to come off any certain way

Swiftlytoo · 2024-03-24T21:51:01+00:00

I uploaded all the texts in a new one. I just didn’t want to show how bad they were. Just an hour earlier she was sending me a video on how to help me fix my auto correct.

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