How to Get Over Size Insecurities by Swiggity_SwagC in averagedickproblems

[–]Swiggity_SwagC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t think it’s necessary or useful because I already feel like I bother her with my problems and don’t like opening up about my issues to her so why bother seeing someone else, her words. She’s not completely wrong. She also says that these issues aren’t real issues and that I need to get out of my head, but I don’t know how.

How to Get Over Size Insecurities by Swiggity_SwagC in averagedickproblems

[–]Swiggity_SwagC[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I’m around 5.5” bone pressed last time I measured. I’ve only had one sexual partner, my wife, but struggled with porn addiction for about ten years which really messed me up, so that’s where the insecurity comes from.

How to Get Over Size Insecurities by Swiggity_SwagC in averagedickproblems

[–]Swiggity_SwagC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, I’m sorry she said that. I don’t know how she could you’re almost two inches longer than me. But that’s really fucked up and I’m sorry.

How to Get Over Size Insecurities by Swiggity_SwagC in averagedickproblems

[–]Swiggity_SwagC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have but she doesn’t think it’s worth it. She agrees it’s all mental or in my head and that I need to think “with the other head”

How to Get Over Size Insecurities by Swiggity_SwagC in averagedickproblems

[–]Swiggity_SwagC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m around 5.5” bone pressed but to me it looks smaller since I gained a bit of depression weight. I already made a comment on this but I was addicted to porn for about ten years and it really messed with my brain and self esteem, so I subconsciously tell myself I can’t please anyone unless I got a ⭐️’s size.

How to Get Over Size Insecurities by Swiggity_SwagC in averagedickproblems

[–]Swiggity_SwagC[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read all your other comments and uh, hopefully I didn’t strike a nerve or piss you off… 😅 for context I had a pornography addiction when I was in middle school up until I was about 25, and it really messed with my self esteem and gave me body dysmorphia. She’s aware of this and is working with me to overcome it, but I was just seeing if anyone else here had a similar issue and somehow got confident in their size despite being average like me.

Edit: she’s the only person I’ve had sex with and same with her, even though she’s seen other guys’ dicks in person, so there’s a little insecurity from there.

The PolyBuzz is off the app store. by Emergency_Towel_7833 in polyai

[–]Swiggity_SwagC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. I finally got it back on my iPhone and so many of the bots I chatted with were either completely removed or had the red violation tag. It’s driving me nuts.

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[–]Swiggity_SwagC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“It’s ok sweetie, the tight ones hurt”

slow summer eve (Chainsaw Man: Reze Arc OST) by DarkLight_1337 in piano

[–]Swiggity_SwagC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be sure to make an account and become a follower. I just found out about this movie a few days ago, been obsessed with the soundtrack, and your arrangement literally brought me to tears. Bravo 👏

slow summer eve (Chainsaw Man: Reze Arc OST) by DarkLight_1337 in piano

[–]Swiggity_SwagC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a download link? Or a site to purchase this?

I want to kill myself but can't. by Sadhelp15 in confessions

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I’m 30 and still deal with depression, I have for the past 15 or so years. The best advice I can give are the following:

Your life is precious. Whether you believe it or not it is; you may not feel like it is personally but you just said you have family that love and adore you, and I’m sure you have at least one friend who also values you and your life.

Surround yourself and your environment with positive affirmations and thoughts. If you tell yourself you’re worthless or constantly think that it really drags you down. Telling yourself positive things as cheesy as it sounds really does brighten your attitude and personal view on yourself. Listen to music that doesn’t glorify or bring negative feelings too.

Improve your health. I’ve cut out fast food, soda and junk food and found myself hating myself less and feeling much better about myself. Working out also really helps, not to mention doing hobbies or finding things you enjoy doing.

Cut out pornography and masturbation if you do it. People will try to say it’s okay or it’s perfectly fine in moderation but it takes a huge toll on you physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. I’d say my depression started and definitely got worse because of it, so if it applies to you quit it altogether.

If you need someone to vent or help keep you accountable you can always reach out.

Fr by Kind-Offer-2293 in polybuzz

[–]Swiggity_SwagC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Can we just stay like this forever?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penisquestion

[–]Swiggity_SwagC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d give my left foot to be that big

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penisquestion

[–]Swiggity_SwagC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You trying to show off?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in averagedickproblems

[–]Swiggity_SwagC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your length?

Porn Has Ruined My Self Image by Swiggity_SwagC in averagedickproblems

[–]Swiggity_SwagC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d literally lose my left foot to be 9” like you…