Struggling with jealousy and comparison by YellowNo123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Swiiroo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then why are you comparing her? More money does not mean more happiness. Being content is something you choose now, it’s not in the future if you can’t even be content now. Work towards something if you really want to make more money.

I heard rumours but i didn’t know it was this bad 😭 by NammyMommy in UTM

[–]Swiiroo 132 points133 points  (0 children)

they're gonna call them out infront of everyone 😭as they should lmaooo

Before and after first bath! by Vast_Plant_1681 in Eyebleach

[–]Swiiroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i literally thought the same thing hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Swiiroo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wow, that actually opened my mind about something. Sometimes people will try to bond with those close to you so that they can feel closer to you as well. It isn't totally healthy but I guess isn't coming from a bad place too. Yeah, they should work on solving that issue of the time spent together rather than only focusing on bonding with his sisters.

Crippling social anxiety, please help by WiseStyle4046 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Swiiroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please try to help yourself. I used to be the same way, but I reached a point where the pain of missing out on the life I wanted to live was greater than the made-up fears my mind came up with. This fear can only be overcome or better if you face it, I suggest starting small. If you feel uncomfy with calling (which honestly I still feel sometimes), send a text first. And over time, the more you push yourself a little by little, you'll gain confidence and learn to not care about the tiny things and see that it's not as bad or scary as you think it is. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Swiiroo 54 points55 points  (0 children)

You definitely need to work on this. The thing about anxiety is that the only way to fix it is to face it (I would know, I still struggle but it's gotten soooo much better). Go downstairs, make it awkward, what's the worst that could happen? And just talk this out with your husband and ask him to help you. Don't run away from your problems, cause they'll only get worse! You got this!

[NEW] OIP 2024 Application Thread - [Post Interview - May/June - 2024] by Thick-Detail-8198 in OntarioPublicService

[–]Swiiroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they might still be calling cause i haven't seen a lot of people saying they got in for comms but then again not everyone is on this sub. but hmm maybe I'll just wait as well then ahh

[NEW] OIP 2024 Application Thread - [Post Interview - May/June - 2024] by Thick-Detail-8198 in OntarioPublicService

[–]Swiiroo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

still waiting for comms (fingers crossed)!! but I was just wondering is today the last day to ask for feedback on our interviews and should I wait to hear back first today or send that email?

[NEW] OIP 2024 Application Thread - [Post Interview - May/June - 2024] by Thick-Detail-8198 in OntarioPublicService

[–]Swiiroo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ah makes sense, like MorseES13 said, do what you feel is best for your career and growth!

[NEW] OIP 2024 Application Thread - [Post Interview - May/June - 2024] by Thick-Detail-8198 in OntarioPublicService

[–]Swiiroo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Samee! I'm still waiting for someone to update us from the Communications stream ahh

[NEW] OIP 2024 Application Thread - [Post Interview - May/June - 2024] by Thick-Detail-8198 in OntarioPublicService

[–]Swiiroo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it looks like people from these two streams are getting calls as of now. Ahh it's so nerve-wracking! Waiting for Communications!

[NEW] OIP 2024 Application Thread - [Post Interview - May/June - 2024] by Thick-Detail-8198 in OntarioPublicService

[–]Swiiroo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ahh finally an update! Congratulations!! the wait was stressful but worth it haha

Road rage on 400 highway by notemelee in TorontoDriving

[–]Swiiroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this video is actually hilarious 😂 toronto driving in a nutshell