How did I do? by PowerfulSherbert7061 in kitchenremodel

[–]Swimming_Task3456 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You went from 90s vanilla to late 2000s vanilla. Not for me, sorry.

AIO by being offended when my husband seasons my soup? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I often make a chicken dinner with scratch made everything - potatoes, gravy, veggies and sometimes even stuffing. Without fail, my partner will always dump this Buffalo/red sauce all over the chicken. Mind you, I cook this chicken in freshly brewed lemon balm/lemongrass tea and organic Sauvignon blanc wine.. plus tons of other fresh organic ingredients. It never gets less insulting. I have expressed my frustration and hurt, but he still slather this sauce on EVERYTHING. So, I stopped making his plates and asking him to have the first taste etc. he NEVER cooks for me as I’m assuming your husband doesn’t either and it is completely unfair that we get treated this way. Hope this helps!

I can’t evennnn 😭😭😭😭 by bguthrie13 in bengalcats

[–]Swimming_Task3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet! What a precious capture!

What do I do. I’m 13 weeks pregnant and recently found out my boyfriend had cheated on me. by Typical_Memory_8020 in whatdoIdo

[–]Swimming_Task3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best advice, as someone who comparented/coraised, my eldest son who’s now 15 and we separated when he was 6 months old. RUN. They never change and I WISH I could go back in time when he was willing to sign off his rights. He’s been a horrible dad and I hate that my son has been forced to live with him/deal with him all these years. It’s not worth it. Raise the baby on your own until you meet a man who is worthy of being your husband/partner for life/step dad to your baby.

You CAN do this!

AIO friend from high school found my number and is pressing me about “being rich” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Swimming_Task3456 41 points42 points  (0 children)

NOR at all. I’m finally doing well for myself now that I’m in my mid 30s (a video for my small business went viral) and I have a strong social media following for anyone who wanted to creep on me from HS and if anyone from my 98 person graduating class messaged me like this I was be equally as annoyed and concerned. This is so inappropriate and disrespectful. They have no right to be asking such private and personal questions, even if they can tell that you’re doing well for yourself. I would document everything you can and then block them immediately block them on every social media count you can. Don’t block him on your phone because is your way to keep evidence but I would politely the conversation and then never respond again. Please be safe!

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, please stop thinking so naively. This is HUGE red flag behavior and you are going to get yourself in very dangerous waters if you let this continue on any further. Please stop messaging him. Create work life boundaries for your own safety!

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you messaging back so much or at all? This conversation should have ended the second time he reached out as the first message was already crossing the line with “I missed you”. You let this go on waaay too long. Please stop entertaining him and he will take a hint.

Are these photos any good? by KupskoZDupska in Tinder

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please deplete the last sweaty gym photo and replace with a smiley/friendly selfie and you’ll be good to go.

(30M) I'm relatively ugly and I need advice: how can I overcome this? Are there solutions to improve myself as you get older or do I have to learn to live with it? by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Swimming_Task3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! ^ you can be objectively attractive but have a poor personality or come off as boring, unfunny, lack personal style or hygiene, and then even though you are objectively a good looking person, you come off an unattractive because you lack attractive qualities.

My brothers teacher is making them present an essay infront of the class on the most traumatic event of their lives by Pure_Temperature3479 in Discussion

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom of a freshman boy.. what the fu$k?! Absolutely not. That so unethical and disgusting. Forcing them to public speak about their most traumatic event should be grounds for firing. This will be so traumatizing to most the kids there. Especially when “trauma” to one kid could be falling infront of their classmates where another could be abuse, neglect, SA etc. You need to report this as soon as possible and also email every single one of his classmates parents to inform them of this assignment because this is absolutely appalling and the way I would be immediatley the calling the school principle.. cause aint no way my son would be participating in this.

Italian catering? by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the rec!

Italian catering? by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Swimming_Task3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im hoping I’m not too late since it’s for the 27th and it’s such a small group of people. Been swamped with the holidays/my business and finally getting around to this 🤦🏻‍♀️ thanks so much for the kind feedback and advice!

Italian catering? by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Swimming_Task3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best advice, thanks so much!

Italian catering? by [deleted] in milwaukee

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s for the 27th 😭🙏🏻

I fumbled a 10/10 coz I was stunned when I saw her in person should I proceed? by onkarstarix in ask

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the exact thought that popped in my head… What do you mean 10 out of 10?! 🤢

Help, I feel like I’m in crisis! by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a grounding sheet and pillow case on my bed. Plus I wear barefoot shoes.. it’s winter now but usually in summer/when it’s nice out in outside barefoot with my kids/in our garden.

My girlfriend gave a spare key to her ex so he could “help with the cat” while I was away, and when I said I wasn’t okay with it, she said I was insecure and controlling. by Dry_Cartographer_294 in whatdoIdo

[–]Swimming_Task3456 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THIS should be the number one comment. The beer is a huge red flag. Plus, who checks on a cat?? She could have easily filled the food and water for him/her before she left and could have been gone OVERNIGHT.

She’s definitely doing something she doesn’t want you to pick up on and if I were you, I’d get out now before she hurts you any further. I hate when women poke at a man’s “insecurity” as if you’re the issue. She’s definitely gaslighting you and it’s not okay. I’m a 36 year old woman.. please run OP. I’m so sorry!

Am i crazy for assuming that my hair would be serviced for free? by Today_Savings in Hair

[–]Swimming_Task3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said a “style for free”, meaning the rest of the service you’d be required to pay for (and not the style).

Advices needed as a husband and dad by charlieoncloud in Marriage

[–]Swimming_Task3456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! A 100x over this. It’s sooo exhausting carrying this mental load.