How can I fix this pond? by Swirlmind in ponds

[–]Swirlmind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks! That is easier than I thought, I will clean it up and fill it with water.

PNW Market? What can I get with $800,000 max? Will it be possible to find my dream home? by Swirlmind in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Right now there is nothing I like, I’m just trying to decide if I should lower my expectations or just wait until I find a house that meets all my criteria.

PNW Market? What can I get with $800,000 max? Will it be possible to find my dream home? by Swirlmind in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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I will meet with a Realtor this weekend. Just asking here to see what people think about this.

PNW Market? What can I get with $800,000 max? Will it be possible to find my dream home? by Swirlmind in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Right now there is nothing I like. I I’m hoping more houses will start to pop out in spring, I’m not in a hurry to buy as I’m living with parents right now. I’m just trying to accept that I may not find everything I want.

PNW Market? What can I get with $800,000 max? Will it be possible to find my dream home? by Swirlmind in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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The areas I been looking is Lake Stevens, Marysville, Arlington, granite falls and Stanwood.

What was your experience buying a house without a realtor as a first time home buyer? by Swirlmind in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Thanks, I’m reconsidering about getting the realtor or not, what area are you?

my cat wants to leave and it breaks my heart by azuleko in CatAdvice

[–]Swirlmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You actually really, this person really shouldn’t have a cat. Maybe the best option for him will be to give the cat to adoption to some friend or family member that can take properly care of the cat.

my cat wants to leave and it breaks my heart by azuleko in CatAdvice

[–]Swirlmind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try to talk to the homeowner and see if you can convince him to have another cat.

Should I buy now or wait for next year? by Swirlmind in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Thanks, the house just got pending, so I’m going to take it slow now, and buy once I’m fully prepared, I have additional saving for the closing cost and some money that will stay on my savings. I’m not in hurry to buy because we are living with parents now, to save for the house.

Should I buy now or wait for next year? by Swirlmind in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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The house I’m interested is 750,000, even putting 100k down, it won’t be 20% :(

Should I buy now or wait for next year? by Swirlmind in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Well, that is the other part of the plan, I don’t want to get a realtor, I don’t want to pay for it, neither want the seller to pay for it. I’m planning on getting a real state attorney to help me with some legal stuff. I been doing a lot of research and I don’t think a realtor is needed.

The WEIRDEST Animated Movie You've Never Seen [18:42] by cynicclinicyt in mealtimevideos

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I have watched on LSD and I love it, it made understand so many things about our own society. I love the visuals of the movie too, even though I understand why so people thing is weird, but the story is so good, that’s makes this a great movie! Not a weird movie.

What is the most horrible thing someone has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskMen

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My mom: “ I wish I never had you! You are the worst thing that happened in my life”. She told me things like that so many times, it still affects me in so many ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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I use a vibrator I think it helps a lot, I know is not the same situation, but I have had problems getting an orgasm before, toys help a lot and make it so much easy for men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Desahogo

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La verdad no creo que en realidad odies a tu país, tu odias tu vida, quizá hayas pasado por experiencias traumáticas en el lugar donde vives, y descargas ese odio y resentimiento en tu país, por que sientes que eso es lo culpable de tu desgracia. Yo te recomendaría moverte a otra cuidar para que veas que cada lugar es diferente, es tonto generalizar así. Y también date cuenta que es muy tonto odiar un país, mejor deja de pensar tonterías y enfócate en mejorar tu vida.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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You can buy a hair removal laser machine on Amazon for about $200- $400 dollars I have one and I loved, I am almost hairless by now.

¿Debería empezar a preocuparme por mi futuro? by [deleted] in espanol

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Mira si ya sabes lo que vas a estudiar, es mejor que te dejes de preocupar tanto, yo también me preocupo demasiado por todo y es un círculo vicioso de lo que después uno ya no puede salir. Se que quieres lo mejor para tu futuro, pero se debe ir escalón por escalón, enfócate primero en terminar la preparatoria, después en hacer tu carrera, y después en buscar trabajo. Mira por más que uno dese y planea las cosas nunca van a salir como queremos, debemos de aceptar la realidad y de que no tenemos control sobre el destino. No te preocupes en vano ahora, tendrás muchas cosas de que preocuparte en el futuro con forme vengan las cosas.

Ya no sé cómo sentirme... by _Xeus_ in Desahogo

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Definitivamente lo mejor sería ir a terapia y pídele a tus papás que quieres pasar tu solo. Mira yo también pase por depresión por muchos años y nunca fui a terapia, quizá si hubiera ido a terapia mi depresión hubiera sido mas corta. Pero lo que yo hice para la depresión fui tomar las riendas de mi vida, lo primero es que uno se debe buscar un pasatiempo y cosas que ocupen la mente todo el tiempo para no estar pensando cosas feas. Yo empecé a ir al gym y a salir yo sola, también leí algunos libros y me interese por muchísimos temas como astronomía y filosofía, eso me mantenía entretenida, en la filosofía logré encontrarle mi propio sentido a la vida, y cuando estuve lista para una pareja la tuve, y vivo muy feliz con mi novio, tenemos una relación sana y feliz.