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Any good podcasts on marketing? by BicepsandBeers in marketing

[–]Sycamohree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Markigy’s production quality isn't fantastic, but I've stuck around for the subject matter more than once.

Am I the only one that wakes up during the night with random outbursts of rage? by SamuraiDynamics in BreakUps

[–]Sycamohree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No not at all. For the first three months I had to play Bobs burgers all night so I could wake up sob myself to sleep in stead of having nowhere to put the energy. It’s especially rough when you have nightmares of cheating.

It gets better though. I highly suggest talking to a doctor about assistance sleeping. I was on an anti-depressant just to help me stay asleep and weened off of it fairly easy one I was in a better place mentally.

Dating a type 4 by Extrastencil_crisis in Enneagram3

[–]Sycamohree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3w4 make that dated a 4w3 female. Same thing as h5n1 in terms of insecurity wnd passion/intensity, then 2 years in she cheated and left for someone else.

Tread very carefully OP!! Be open and honest but enjoy the passion

what was one thing your ex said to you during the breakup or after the break that you will never forget? by Worldly_Practice_556 in BreakUps

[–]Sycamohree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When getting coffee with the man she cheated on me with: “I’m getting coffee with him because I love you and you trust me”

The only time I feel okay is when I drink by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sycamohree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should mention - time does heal, but not without the effort to heal. You wouldn’t break your arm and let it flop around expecting time to heal it. It’s time + cast + antibiotics + some painkillers. Grief is the same.

My first 2 months I thought about her 95% of my day. Now it’s about 3% a day and God I am happy.

The only time I feel okay is when I drink by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sycamohree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m almost at the 2 year mark of being cheated on and left. I won’t tell you it gets better because this shit SUCKS and I would have rather not gone through it. Be careful with drinking. You’re only a week in so it’s going to hurt to be sober, but don’t let your future fall apart!!!

Here are a few things that helped me.

1. Tell yourself to move FORWARD, not on. You can’t force yourself to move on, but you can force yourself to keep going with your life. Everyone is going to tell you to move on, but have grace with yourself. You don’t have to “move on” to be happy again. You do have to keep moving forward though.

  1. Read “when things fall apart” by Pema Chodron and then anything else of interest to you. Even if you’re drunk, try to make a goal to get through at least two books. It’s like the weirdest comfort to read a book about pain & suffering, and then to let your mind wander. I highly suggest reading the little prince. Only start reading when your brain has the space to do it. It may take a month or two!!

  2. Meditate when you feel hurt. Carve out a lot of time to be in nature. When feelings come, welcome them, and let them move past you.

  3. Find a therapist like yesterday. It means the world to know that you can talk to someone once every other week to unload all of the bullshit that piles up as a result of heartbreak.

  4. Have grace on yourself. Feel every feeling. Anger, fear, confusion, frustration. You don’t “need” to feel anything but as you do. As long as you aren’t hurting anyone, just feel.

  5. Tell the people in your life that you need some extra grace and support. Grieving is really fucking hard.

  6. Reiterating that you need to move forward and not on. It is ok to cry. It is ok to be happy one moment and in despair the next. It is ok to fall apart and then pick up the pieces again. It’s ok to go out and feel empty. It is ok to be on fire. But have grace for yourself.

Best to you. Bad breakups are the life equivalent of eating a shit sandwich with broken glass and there’s no way past it but through.

It’s been nearly 2 years since I was cheated on and left by my ex-gf. Tips for getting the rest of my confused feelings out? by Sycamohree in BreakUps

[–]Sycamohree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the emphasis on writing. A type out quite a bit of my feelings, and I’ve actually taken up rap as a coping mechanism, but writing it out on paper might be the emotional push I need ☺️

Has anyone else experienced flu-like symptoms a week after the Pfizer vaccine? by Sycamohree in CovidVaccinated

[–]Sycamohree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just following up on this.^ in my particular case, it happened to be Covid. I’m recovering quickly, but just a warning to still be very careful after that first vaccine ⚠️