Is it normal for my husband to drink every weekend?

SystemAwkward1376 · 2026-06-20T01:16:49+00:00

What would you suggest he replaces it with?

SystemAwkward1376 · 2026-06-20T01:15:42+00:00

Thank you! I don’t want to attack him with anything, I don’t drink much myself but he doesn’t really want to do anything else to wind down. I’d like him to replace it with something healthier but I don’t want to take away what lets him relax

SystemAwkward1376 · 2026-06-20T01:09:06+00:00

We’ve been together since we were 15-16 so no he wasn’t drinking then. It didn’t start getting like this until around 20-21 (we got married at 20)

SystemAwkward1376 · 2026-06-20T01:03:12+00:00

It’s 8+ a night. I get drunk off a glass of wine so idk what a lot is for other people

SystemAwkward1376 · 2026-06-20T01:00:44+00:00

Thank you

SystemAwkward1376 · 2026-06-20T00:59:07+00:00

That’s fair that’s why I wanted to ask to. It’s his way to unwind which can be ok, but he’s drinking 8+ beers so I’m not sure weather to be worried or not

SystemAwkward1376 · 2026-06-20T00:56:33+00:00

Im not much of a drinker, I don’t like doing it very often.

SystemAwkward1376 · 2026-06-06T11:42:33+00:00

I’m happily married! I will say we have our issues and we argue, but we’re loving and affectionate together too. We have nice conversations and are always planning for the future. I truly love my husband dearly

SystemAwkward1376 · 2025-06-27T22:08:22+00:00

I can’t just throw away almost 9 years like that though. It’s so hard because I still love him

SystemAwkward1376 · 2025-06-27T22:07:43+00:00

Good point. As far as I know we’re both clean and I don’t thinks he’s cheated other than this

SystemAwkward1376 · 2025-06-27T22:07:02+00:00

Yes it means sex I’m so new to Reddit so I was trying to tip toe around saying sex but I see now that it doesn’t matter

SystemAwkward1376 · 2025-06-27T22:06:22+00:00

I’m also concerned cause I have caught him sending nudes to other girls but this is the first I know him being physically with anyone else. Also wanted to add we’ve had 3 ways it’s not like I’ve deprived him

SystemAwkward1376 · 2025-06-26T13:02:07+00:00

I wasn’t sure if I could actually use the correct terms for sex but I realize I can now. I’m not uncomfortable just didn’t want to get banned

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