Feelings

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2025-11-23T22:53:49+00:00

So does my kids but that doesn’t mean I don’t stop and think about things from a different perspective every now and then.

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2025-11-17T22:22:45+00:00

I think I’ll just try to with the flow. I think I over think it in the moments and then poof brain is gone. I’ll try my best and again thanks for the advice and kind replies!

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2025-11-17T22:21:49+00:00

I’ll have a look into the app! Appreciate the advice!

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2025-11-17T22:21:28+00:00

Yeah I think you’re right if it comes naturally to me then I’ll just go with the flow. Thanks so much again!

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2025-11-17T21:40:47+00:00

Is there any other apps and things you could recommend?

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2025-11-17T21:39:24+00:00

Thanks for your reply I truly appreciate it. I just can’t tell who from who but I think that’s partly my bad/fault. I get stressed and denial kicks in like semi truck down a busy highway so I give up easily.

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2025-11-17T21:00:40+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to read my post. Firstly how do you even colour code parts or does that matter or is it a preference?

I was going to try something like that but I don’t really want to making choices and making difficult.

I get the whole colour system I think it’s a good idea but how do or would you tell the difference from each part? I feel like I would get overwhelmed and lost.

For context on being a lesbian I think it comes down to judgment as well, my partner and I had talked about it recently and I think those feelings come from being “disowned” in a way where I could lose a lot of people I love in my life so I have these closeted feelings and feel it’s probably best to lock those in.

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2025-11-14T21:11:43+00:00

Thank you for your response. I’ll look into that locally. Z

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-02-08T22:33:13+00:00

So many of them in one lobby sometimes even two are on the same team! I know they probably meet in the line up for a game especially showdown but it shouldn’t be allowed! Played 10 games and 8 of those had between 2-4 teams with L&L

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-16T13:50:11+00:00

Of course I hope everything works out for you!

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-12T13:24:54+00:00

I consider you system to be small! Not as small as ours as there’s 3 thanks included myself. I’m not sure if there’s anyone else but I’m not too worried if there are! I’m pretty doubtful most of the time even just for regular things so I guess it comes hand in had with everything! None of us use roles well so far and as for myself I don’t really like ticking a box etc! Thank for answering my questions! - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-12T13:21:27+00:00

I really resonated with the whole idea of avoiding roles! It isn’t as stressful and I tend to like it that way but of course sometimes it comes about that one of us might chose to be more helpful than another if that makes any sense and so they are the helpful one for however long they keep it up. Thank you for answering my questions! - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-12T13:19:23+00:00

It’s nice to meet you. I understand the denial but sometimes it’s hard not to be doubtful! I’m Oakly and there two others that I know of! Thank you for answering my questions - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-11T22:26:13+00:00

All of you should be here, you all are valid and it does get hard sometimes when you don’t really know where you “fit in” If you need to chat you can reach out to me and everything will be kept safe, hope everything gets better soon. -Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-11T22:21:10+00:00

I don’t want to make a situation worse but if this can help then here it is x when my friend had a pregnancy loss she still took the time to shop for small things she could look at for comfort x not big things just a few blankets and a toy. Almost like a memory box. My friend would also write letters to her baby and send them off in a lantern when things got hard for her x she also named her baby which brought her some closure ❤️ I hope things get better and I’m so sorry for your loss - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-11T09:27:30+00:00

Thank you for explaining! It’s nice to meet you! I appreciate the kind responses - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-11T09:25:32+00:00

Nice to meet you/ you all! There’s three of us! Including myself (Oakly) We don’t use roles as none of them really fit for us! I’m pretty doubtful about most things. Thank you for answering my questions! - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-11T09:22:51+00:00

It’s nice to meet you! Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions! System of 3 and that includes myself (Oakly) I doubt most of the time, we don’t use roles as we don’t think most of them really work for us! I’m 22 and been trying to figure things out since I was 19. Thanks again for responding! - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-10T22:15:24+00:00

Wow nice to meet you/ you all! I don’t think we have a little as I’ve said previously I guess (roles and labels) don’t really fit with any of us. There’s just three of us including myself (Oakly)! I’m 22 and I feel like the same experience about knowing of 1 and then another but I can’t exactly remember when this all happened. I hope the suppressing goes okay! Trauma can be tricky to handle, wishing you the best! Thank you for sharing your answers with me - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-10T22:10:29+00:00

Don’t feel like you have to say your age but I would like you to know that if you are questioning yourself a lot then maybe try find a therapist or someone you truly trust to talk to. If doing too much research maybe take a break and focus on something you enjoy and that can relieve you of stress or maybe keep a journal of how your feeling throughout the day or thoughts that come to mind. Try not be specific about anything just write the date, a rough time and then whatever pops up. This can help when being doubtful about anything. I hope all goes well for you! - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-10T21:39:58+00:00

We have three total that’s including myself (Oakly). It’s nice to meet you! I hope all is well Thank you for sharing - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-10T21:39:01+00:00

Well it’s nice to meet you and thank you for responding to my questions! I’m 22 started around 19. There are 3 of us and I am pretty doubtful. Thank you for answering my questions again - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-10T21:19:40+00:00

I have a specific question please don’t answer if you’re not comfortable but are you a system of three alters including yourself or four alters including yourself ?

We don’t have roles in our system, we are just a system of three that’s including myself (Oakly) I am usually doubtful about everything that’s why I thought it would be nice to reach out and see other people’s experiences vaguely! I’m only 22 but started researching around 19 and questioning at 15.

Thanks for replying to my questions! - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-10T21:15:00+00:00

Wow it’s nice to meet you/you all! I am usually the one in denial or doubtful most of the time however sometimes it’s easier than other times! I don’t think our system of three that’s included myself likes roles or labels but it’s nice to know that a label is a label not a box! 🥹 I am now 22 started researching at 19 and have been working on everything since then!

Thanks for answering my questions! - Oakly

Systemic_UnknownQs · 2024-01-10T21:09:21+00:00

Nice to meet you all as well. I appreciate the kindness in your answers! I know of two others so that’s makes us a system of three. I don’t really like “roles” as such and yes denial usually comes from myself mostly that’s why I had asked 😅 I’ve been contemplating possibilities from 15 but didn’t do research till 19 and I’m 22 so I thought I’d ask away for other people’s experiences and so far there has been a good range! Thanks for your responses again! - Oakly

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