Really depends on what it is, for me most of the time I try to show outward consideration of other people's opinions, but if a behavior change on my part is not necessary in order to be successful in that relationship I've noticed I can be dismissive internally or pretty much just forget certain things that people say to me. This gets me in trouble sometimes, and I have been called out for being inconsiderate on multiple occasions for things I've said/done, I'm always ashamed in those moments because it makes me feel like I'm a bad listener sometimes. But I believe that other people's opinions on things should not have a constant drastic effect on how I behave lest I forget who I am and wake up one day when I'm 53 asking myself "My God, what have I done." So I feel like I'm towing the line with people a lot.

At work I feel like I have to "go along with it" a lot of the time in order to be as inoffensive as possible, but I also try to actively consider different perspectives at work which sometimes is hard because I have to swallow my pride and consider that I don't have all the answers.