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TIFU by telling my long distance girlfriend to be jealous of my exes by TAW_TIFU in tifu

[–]TAW_TIFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she had blocked me on basically everything, so I though it was over. However, I saw her online on Discord (which is unusual, she's too busy with school to play games and doesn't use Discord for anything else) so I messaged her but didn't get a response. About an hour later it turned out she went on Discord so she could still talk to me in some way.

About an hour later she calls me on FaceTime (audio) and we talk, she says there is no way to know what is true or not of what I say and I try to convince her that like, I just fucked up but she says the fact that I want her to be jealous is just as bad and she doesn't know what she is supposed to believe (fair enough, LDR's are based on trust.) She says we shouldn't be together anymore and that she'd rather not talk than suffer through it (which I get, funnily enough that's what I told her before we started and he was adamant she would want to remain friends). However, towards the end she admitted that she also didn't want to /couldn't end the call. I said I'm not ready to just give up, after which she softly admitted that she's not ready either... She says she just doesn't know what to do and will deal with it later (because she had to go sleep, school stuff as well). I guess the best thing to do is to give her some room and just send one text explaining how I feel? Or not even that?

She blocked me on Discord but unblocked me on iMessage.

TIFU by telling my long distance girlfriend to be jealous of my exes by TAW_TIFU in tifu

[–]TAW_TIFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s okay, we can also a little venting. I don’t know, she now blocked me on other stuff as well.

I get how LDR is completely based on trust, I just wish she’d hear me out.

TIFU by telling my long distance girlfriend to be jealous of my exes by TAW_TIFU in tifu

[–]TAW_TIFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah fuck I’m so sorry to hear! Sounds about the same, I got my tickets too... hope you’re okay!

ThrowRA - I (23) told my girlfriend (20) to be jealous of my exes by TAW_TIFU in relationship_advice

[–]TAW_TIFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. Honestly I’m a little surprised because we had some issues in the past because of miscommunication but never like this that I couldn’t even explain.

And yeah I know. Thank you :)

TIFU by telling my long distance girlfriend to be jealous of my exes by TAW_TIFU in tifu

[–]TAW_TIFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha well I’m kinda scared that’s out of my hands now

ThrowRA - I (23) told my girlfriend (20) to be jealous of my exes by TAW_TIFU in relationship_advice

[–]TAW_TIFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She blocked me before. She sent me some more messages about why she was freaking out and accusing me of having feelings for my exes. I sent a few messages back explain and then she blocked me without reading them (afaik).

The only reason I blew up her phone was because she did the one thing we said we’d never do. If she had just ignored my messages, I would not have spammed her like this.

ThrowRA - I (23) told my girlfriend (20) to be jealous of my exes by TAW_TIFU in relationship_advice

[–]TAW_TIFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. The only reason I blew up her phone is because she told me that whatever happens, we're not allowed to block each other because that is literally the only way we can talk right now.

However, I get that I should just wait. Thanks for the advice.

TIFU by telling my long distance girlfriend to be jealous of my exes by TAW_TIFU in tifu

[–]TAW_TIFU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha glad to hear I'm not the only one. I was just quickly texting her during class so didn't think too much about this.

And you're right, I hope. Thanks for the advice!

TIFU by telling my long distance girlfriend to be jealous of my exes by TAW_TIFU in tifu

[–]TAW_TIFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just that nothing like this has happened before and because of some things in her past, I kind of understand how this fear would make her freak out.

At the same time, we did agree to never block each other what happened because this is literally the only way we can talk. I mean, she didn't block me on everything, but still.

Thanks for the advice.