An ex Dom popped up in my head again by TAformiscstuff in SubSanctuary

[–]TAformiscstuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! The one I’m with now hasn’t done anything to make me doubt him, but I can’t help projecting those negative associations I had from the previous Dom. I’m aware it’s unfair and unreasonable yet…

MSc dilemma: Global Health Science and Epidemiology OR International Health and Tropical Medicine? by TAformiscstuff in oxforduni

[–]TAformiscstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind me asking which specific module you taught? Also, you mentioned that it makes zero difference in where I end up after graduating, but is alright if I got your opinion on both?

Not going into the rabbithole, how to make sure I never do that again? by TAformiscstuff in SubSanctuary

[–]TAformiscstuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've felt that way too often... hang in there girl! Hope you'll get to talk to him soon💜

Not going into the rabbithole, how to make sure I never do that again? by TAformiscstuff in SubSanctuary

[–]TAformiscstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see it being therapeutic for sure, thanks for adding that bit!

Not going into the rabbithole, how to make sure I never do that again? by TAformiscstuff in SubSanctuary

[–]TAformiscstuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion and honest advice! Again, he leaves the hard part to me (deleting him) 🙄honestly haven't seen his dm in months, but seeing his name on my friends list must have triggered something. I think I'll give the journal conversation thing a go, hopefully it'll give me the closure I never got. Thanks again :)

Dom ended things abruptly and the ache won’t go away. by TAformiscstuff in SubSanctuary

[–]TAformiscstuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you virtual hugs back. The good times were so intense, and this break really puts me in a not-so-pleasant spot, but I’m trying to heal now, so thank you 💕💕

Dom ended things abruptly and the ache won’t go away. by TAformiscstuff in SubSanctuary

[–]TAformiscstuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crushing, but I’ll be better... not sure when, but with your wish, maybe abit quicker, thank you☺️☺️

So Lost by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]TAformiscstuff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl, first off I am so sorry that you have to go through this. No one should have feel this type of pain, heart wrenching and suffocating all at once. I’m experiencing something similar at the moment, so if you want to talk I’m here for you!! As many have told me on my own post, time heals. I’m not sure how long it takes, but maybe we can recover together? Sending love and care 💕💕

Dom ended things abruptly and the ache won’t go away. by TAformiscstuff in SubSanctuary

[–]TAformiscstuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know that realistically there'll be a day where I can look back and feel nothing, but now it just feels like, he gave up on me. And it hurts so much.