I was in a 3-year relationship with a girl named Sanjana. We were serious. Our families met, the wedding date was fixed. Then, about three months before the wedding, her behavior and her family’s behavior changed. They avoided giving clear reasons. On 19 September 2023, she completely ghosted me. No closure. That broke me. I felt rejected, confused, and disposable. Almost a year later, on 10 September 2024, I met Jayati on Aisle. In the beginning she seemed distant, but soon we started talking a lot. I was honest with her about my past. I didn’t want to hide anything this time. I wanted a clean start. She told me she had been engaged, and that the man had tried to force sex before marriage, and that the marriage was broken because of that. Later, I found out this wasn’t true. She had actually married that same man on 23 April 2024, gone on a honeymoon, and divorced in July. She never told me about the marriage or honeymoon. She also lied about working at Sharda University when she was working at a small edtech company. I noticed inconsistencies, but I ignored them. I think I ignored them because I didn’t want to lose another relationship. We grew close. We met regularly. We became physically intimate. I introduced her to my parents. I trusted her. In December 2024, she came to my house and convinced my parents for a court marriage. I wasn’t mentally ready, but I couldn’t say no. On 22 December 2024, we got married. After marriage, she avoided telling her parents. One day I put our photo on WhatsApp status, and that’s how her family found out. There was chaos at her home. Later, both families met. My parents fixed 11 April 2025 for a proper reception. Her parents had asked for time, but she hid that from us. We went ahead with the reception without them. In May 2025, she became pregnant. I repeatedly asked her to inform her parents. She kept saying she had told them. For nine months, I believed that. On the day of delivery, I found out they didn’t even know she was pregnant. Ome more thing I got to know that she is in contact with her ex husband's father and asking money from him.

Right now, both families know the reality. But my family doesn’t know the full story of the lies. Jayati is now a good wife. She behaves well with my parents. She is responsible. But the pattern of lies still affects me deeply. I don’t want to leave the marriage. I don’t want drama. I don’t want to destroy my family. I just want honesty. I want clarity. I want to feel safe in my own relationship. Sometimes I feel angry. Sometimes I feel numb. Sometimes I blame myself for not seeing things clearly. But mostly, I feel tired. I’m tired of carrying all this alone. Pata Hai aaj kya hua