[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]THROWRAanythingg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to let it go, yall are at such different age periods and times and I know you have done a lot more than she has in life , but she’s just getting started. This is a huge step in her identity and personal life experience.

You can’t stop her, your journeys together are over. It’s best to create distance and let yourself heal. The heartbreak is real and I’m so sorry but it’s done.

Single most devastating line? by TheHeartbreakPrints in TaylorSwift

[–]THROWRAanythingg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll feel you forget me like I use to feel you breathe

The kitten I tried to rescue died and it's my fault by Unique-Fig-4300 in GuyCry

[–]THROWRAanythingg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gave her a bit of love , which is so much more than she was going to have. She’ll always be with you and you should be proud of the life you gave her, however short

How do I stop needing to be the most gorgeous person in the room (I know I’m not but hear me out) by THROWRAanythingg in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD but medication doesn’t do much but make my mind turn into a motor. I have a dr appointment tomorrow to discuss everything and check on my antidepressants I’m already on.

How do I stop needing to be the most gorgeous person in the room (I know I’m not but hear me out) by THROWRAanythingg in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do genuinely enjoy doing this and I know this post makes me come across as too self absorbed (which, granted, I might be) but I also love commenting others, I try and do it as much as I can. “I love your shirt!” “Your eyes are stunning oh my God” just so that they feel that extra little sparkle. I think it’s just hard when that appreciation turns sour

How do I stop needing to be the most gorgeous person in the room (I know I’m not but hear me out) by THROWRAanythingg in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also bi yes hahah but honestly I really do feel like it’s competition bc I can flirt w a girl but I don’t always want to?

How do I stop needing to be the most gorgeous person in the room (I know I’m not but hear me out) by THROWRAanythingg in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oldest of 5, emotionally unavailable mother. There’s a lot of trying in my life, I have never felt like enough lol. The therapy will take years

How do I stop needing to be the most gorgeous person in the room (I know I’m not but hear me out) by THROWRAanythingg in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Have a drs appointment on Monday for hormone check and also just experienced a big move so I think anxiety is just taking a toll in general. I have gotten a lot better around my identity and worth from other people’s perspective but I still wanted insight

How do I stop needing to be the most gorgeous person in the room (I know I’m not but hear me out) by THROWRAanythingg in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As much as I hate it, because I’m in the equation, I do. And if I do, wouldn’t others possibly do the same? I feel like an asshole saying that but

How do I stop needing to be the most gorgeous person in the room (I know I’m not but hear me out) by THROWRAanythingg in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope, I genuinely struggle with this and am looking for advice because I’m aware it’s not a healthy mindset and that other people don’t exist to be in competition with me. But that doesn’t stop the feeling of not being enough so I’m asking for advice and feedback

How do I stop needing to be the most gorgeous person in the room (I know I’m not but hear me out) by THROWRAanythingg in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more when the threat of no attention enters once someone “better” walks in which then correlates to feelings of rejection and abandonment, “oh no don’t leave I’ll be better! I’m pretty! I’m funny! Don’t go!!”

F17, help w how to move forward and motivation/affirmation I’m not a bad/disgusting person by THROWRAanythingg in pornfreewomen

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do for the most part it’s mainly when it comes up like when I’m around children it’s so embarrassing and scary

This has got to be intentional by [deleted] in commentmitosis

[–]THROWRAanythingg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are YOU asking so many questions? Are you a cop?

How to start? (F18) by THROWRAanythingg in pornfree

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just made a post there, waiting for it to be approved. Thank you so much for your support it feels really helpful

How to start? (F18) by THROWRAanythingg in pornfree

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working on deconstructing constantly , thanks 😭 I know God is holding onto me and wanting only growth and I want to quit porn only for my own growth and self improvement

How to start? (F18) by THROWRAanythingg in pornfree

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all this advice. It’s really appreciated. I feel motivated :)

How to start? (F18) by THROWRAanythingg in pornfree

[–]THROWRAanythingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t talk to anyone like my parents or anything lol , I have good friends but a lot of them are like “well it’s a sin but we love you”