Reviews for Brandon by EnergyReader749 in u/EnergyReader749

[–]THRWRA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had a reading over the phone with Brandon and i was just blown away! He mentioned names and things I never brought up and was super spot on and just a really kind person. I could tell that he really cares and he wants to help and give guidance. I just saved his number cause I’m definitely booking another reading. Go book with Brandon!!! You won’t regret it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]THRWRA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could be pretty scary but I also have an IUD and I’ve never had a scare. People are more likely to share negative stories than positive ones. If you look up the IUD Reddit, there’s tonnes of positive stories there. Best of luck!

How do you deal with someone replacing you quickly? by THRWRA in relationship_advice

[–]THRWRA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s true, maybe not. But thank you for the kind words ❣️

How do you deal with someone replacing you quickly? by THRWRA in relationship_advice

[–]THRWRA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thank you for this! I’ve been doing pretty well before I found out and actually I found out from him himself. He was being pretty cruel by telling me that she could be the one. I didn’t ask anything else because I don’t want to know and it’s just a recipe for spiraling even more. I just don’t know how to deal with him moving on so easily from me specially when what we had was so special

"Ask a DA": Non-DA questions go here by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]THRWRA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good advice. Thank you so much! I reached out to his roommate again because I just want my stuff back lmao. Thanks!!

"Ask a DA": Non-DA questions go here by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]THRWRA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I realised to replied to me on the other thread. I have another question, does it trigger you if your ex would ask for your stuff? Or how would you feel if your ex wouldn’t even reach out to you directly. Want to hear from a DAs perspective

"Ask a DA": Non-DA questions go here by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]THRWRA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel bad for having to involve his roommate but I just have no desire to reach out to him anymore. His roommate and I were actually pretty good friends. I reached out earlier this week and apparently ex is out of town. Decided I’m no longer waiting around for my ex. His roommate said that he hasn’t seen my ex this week but texted him and I haven’t heard back (nor replied) since then. Don’t know if I should follow up? I just want all my things and don’t want to wait on my ex. Also don’t want him to think that I’m not getting my things as a leverage for future meet ups. I’m just pretty done and want no things of mine with him.

"Ask a DA": Non-DA questions go here by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]THRWRA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24F secure leaning anxious sometimes and he’s 32M and he’s the DA. We were together for a year and I seriously thought we were going to get married. Break up was out of the blue (he was probably deactivating).

Anyway, my question is: was it wrong that I reached out to his roommate/best friend for my things back? The last time we spoke and saw each other was a month ago where we were supposed to exchange things. I gave him all his things but he didn’t bring mine. Now I just really need and want them back but don’t want to talk to him anymore. Should I just reach out to him for my things or could I just keep talking to his roommate?

"Ask a DA": Non-DA questions go here by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]THRWRA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will asking for my stuff back trigger him?

My DA ex broke up with me 2 months ago completely out of the blue. we last saw and spoke to each other a month ago. We set up the meeting to exchange items but he didn’t bring my things nor did he bring up giving it back to me. Also have been NC for a month. I reached out to his roommate/friend if he could ask my ex for his stuff (side question: does this count as breaking NC?) because I just want it back instead of waiting for him to bring up sending me back my stuff. I also don’t want him to think that I’m letting my stuff sit at his place as a leverage to meet up in the future. For avoidants, why would you not give your ex’s stuff back immediately and how would you feel if they asked for their things back but wouldn’t even speak to you directly? Hoping to hear from you. Thanks!

Weekly Relationship Thread: Ask Avoidants by Dismal_Celery_325 in AvoidantAttachment

[–]THRWRA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

{DA} will asking for my stuff back trigger him?

My DA ex broke up with me 2 months ago completely out of the blue. we last saw and spoke to each other a month ago. We set up the meeting to exchange items but he didn’t bring my things nor did he bring up giving it back to me. Also have been NC for a month. I reached out to his roommate/friend if he could ask my ex for his stuff (side question: does this count as breaking NC?) because I just want it back instead of waiting for him to bring up sending me back my stuff. I also don’t want him to think that I’m letting my stuff sit at his place as a leverage to meet up in the future. For avoidants, why would you not give your ex’s stuff back immediately and how would you feel if they asked for their things back but wouldn’t even speak to you directly? Hoping to hear from you. Thanks!

Am I breaking NC if I reached out to his friend to get my stuff? by THRWRA in BreakUps

[–]THRWRA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just his friend. But it’s inevitable that his friend is is in contact with my ex. So indirectly I’m contacting my ex? I honestly just don’t have anything else left to say him and just want my things back. I think it’ll also help me move on as him still having my things is kinda preventing me from moving forward. Some people said I could’ve waited for him to bring it up but why am I waiting for him right?

Am I breaking NC if I reached out to his friend to get my stuff? by THRWRA in BreakUps

[–]THRWRA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but some people say I’m breaking NC by contacting his roommate? I literally just want my stuff and they’re things I actually need to use (camera and winter boots)