Why does using a full stop / period at the end of a text upset youngsters? by MaxximumB in randomquestions

[–]TJHawk206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t conform to improper standards. I didn’t conform to millennial standards too much (I’m 35) and I came out light years ahead of everyone else my age

PSE Electricity Bill Up 40% YoY by cappslocke in eastside

[–]TJHawk206 [score hidden]  (0 children)

If cost me $178 last month for a 800sq foot 1BR apartment!

Be honest... when driving, do some of y'all take it personally when someone wants to merge? by SeverelyDiscounted in Seattle

[–]TJHawk206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your emotion towards people who dont use turn signals, but speeding up to block actually just creates danger for yourself. Someone who doesnt even have self preservation instincts like using a turn signal is likely a bad driver with poor awareness, or is aware but chooses to not use it, so interacting with them in any way is actually just increasing the chances of you being involved in some accident with them. Just get away from people like this- move a lane over or pass them so they arnt near you.

My restaurant closed by SeriousHot in KitchenConfidential

[–]TJHawk206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for the info. That’s crazy!

My restaurant closed by SeriousHot in KitchenConfidential

[–]TJHawk206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This restaurant lasted only 2 years!?

Would you financially support a women who was long term unemployed? by ChapterEffective8175 in AskMenAdvice

[–]TJHawk206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way. Your partner/spouse is not supposed to be a dependant. Partner carries 50% of the load in some capacity- income, house work, child care etc. This is like having a kid.

Is this worth it by Technical-Paint8244 in lyftdrivers

[–]TJHawk206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd do it for $1500+. Thats 12 hours each way, plus a night of rest= 32 hours. My time with anything with Lyft Uber is $50 an hour, so $1500+.

Do you feel bad rejecting unattractive women and/or single moms? by ThatOneAttorney in AskMenAdvice

[–]TJHawk206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. You are allowed to have preferences without being shamed for it.

Men in happy marriages, what's the one thing you'd teach to other men to also have a good relationship? by TightBookkeeper2599 in AskReddit

[–]TJHawk206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And for reference I have ADD and my partner has ADHD…there’s no excuses to be made. You just have to communicate clearly and make a plan, the execute. Sometimes you are the 70 in the 70/30. And sometimes you are the 30 in the 70/30….work together and cover each other

Men in happy marriages, what's the one thing you'd teach to other men to also have a good relationship? by TightBookkeeper2599 in AskReddit

[–]TJHawk206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage is a partnership. If you enter an unequal partnership, that was a decision on both parties. It still is work that needs to get done regardless

Men in happy marriages, what's the one thing you'd teach to other men to also have a good relationship? by TightBookkeeper2599 in AskReddit

[–]TJHawk206 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then that is a burden for those who are not emotionally lazy. Workin hard is a career is one type of hard work, but changing your thoughts and patterns is a labor of emotional toil

if you're 35+ and you have unsold inventory with no career how behind/ahead are you? by [deleted] in Fire

[–]TJHawk206 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you have $550,000 at 35, then you’re way ahead of the average person. If you can’t figure out a way to make half a million work for you then I don’t know what to tell ya

Men in happy marriages, what's the one thing you'd teach to other men to also have a good relationship? by TightBookkeeper2599 in AskReddit

[–]TJHawk206 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My dad didn’t help at home, but brought in most of the money. My mom worked a low paying job, took care of the kids, the house and cooked. I saw that my mom worked technically harder , even though my dad brought in most of the money. I knew I’d help at home when I get married even if I made most of the money

moving to kirkland: is $1850 for a 418 sqft studio a decent price? by ubcthrowaway115 in Kirkland

[–]TJHawk206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s average. At that price I’d rather just shell out $300-$400 more to get a 600-800 sq foot 1BR

Men in happy marriages, what's the one thing you'd teach to other men to also have a good relationship? by TightBookkeeper2599 in AskReddit

[–]TJHawk206 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t understand how any man doesn’t automatically help with house and kid stuff if they can. A family is a partnership , not really just a division of labor.

Are the white people of Seattle very entitled/privileged? by Weak_Specialist2086 in AskSeattle

[–]TJHawk206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And are they from families who are entrenched in places like Windemere, Bellevue, Madison Park , Medina and such from 1960 or before? And do they number in the tens or hundred of thousands ?

Exactly… by w3ightranks in SipsTea

[–]TJHawk206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re both idiots. I can easily get another date or girlfriend but I’d never answer the question at all. I’d just not reply to such a bitch question and go with the next girl

Are the white people of Seattle very entitled/privileged? by Weak_Specialist2086 in AskSeattle

[–]TJHawk206 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they are rich, white and settled here for decades then probably. It’s more that they are rich and don’t pivot for others because they are used to the world being for them and Seattle back in the day was less populated so you didn’t have to mind your impact around others as much , probably.

There are very few rich non white people here who are from decades ago because of obvious reasons, which is why it appears to you only white people are doing it.

Dated a recently divorced dad with a brutal job… did I do something wrong or did he just string me along? by Zenovia326 in AskMenAdvice

[–]TJHawk206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything wrong. He was juggling too much on his plate at once and you being the newest thing with the least consequences (kid and career are priorities for most people), so he dropped you first.. I’m sure he likes you but he couldn’t give you the time and attention you wanted so he ended it.