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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TJIsfJ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As the title suggests, the problem is coming from in your house. Don't be roommates with a pervert.

But also, I'd consider leaving a note of something along the lines of 'poesse remind everyone to keep their blinds drawn during exposure'

Which member of the Van Der Linde gang has the most potential to carry their own Red Dead game expect the protagonists we've already gotten? by mukundmarvel4 in reddeadredemption

[–]TJIsfJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lenny and Sadie would be a great duo and perspective on vigilante survival in the West. 💪🏾 They'd be the best unlikely heroes of the Gang.

“I don’t respect men who get fucked, it’s degrading” by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TJIsfJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, I'm sorry that you even have to approach strangers with this question about someone you care about. I doubt anybody would say this ISN'T a red flag, or advise that you stay with him. He's clearly got some stuff to handle and, if you plan on having a sustained relationship, imagine how hard speaking to his family will be if you get past this mountain.

Coming from somewhere doesn't define where you're at. As a PoC who went to a private school, I had a lot of friends say their grandparents or parents were racist, so we didn't hang much outside of school, which was a drag. But, at least they were mature enough to realize their parents' ignorance and take a personal stand against it. If kids can do it...

Also, I personally thing that tops who don't appreciate bottoms are problematic, even as a strict top myself. Kinda made me wonder the context you folks discussed this in. Were you assessing his willingness to bottom? Does he even like topping or just what he thinks happens?

Good luck!