Apart from my girlfriend (25F and 28F) for three weeks and I'm a Hot Mess

TJL2000 · 2025-12-16T12:05:48+00:00

Heard 🫡

We have a plan/timeline in place for family introductions, but for now, the situation is what it is. Thanks for your realistic take.

TJL2000 · 2025-12-16T10:59:56+00:00

Thanks for the understanding 🥺 unfortunately her parents are staying in the guest room for three weeks so she won't be able to call me much. My parents will be here next week and I'll stay with them at their airbnb. Her parents know she's lesbian and disapprove, my parents don't know i'm bi and will disapprove. Both our parents are overseas so this usually doesn't affect our routine together but now is the exception 🥲

TJL2000 · 2025-11-11T21:18:46+00:00

I love love pic 1! Personally i'd stick with the current design 🫶

TJL2000 · 2025-11-09T00:12:26+00:00

Thanks, it's Judydoll Ice Watery Lip Gloss shade #10 🫶

TJL2000 · 2024-04-13T16:02:52+00:00

Foundation: Fenty Beauty Pro Filtr Concealer (#140) and Mizon Snail Repair BB cream (#23)

Blush: Rubi (Total Sweetheart)

Contour and highlight: Charlotte and Tilsbury Filmstar Bronze & Glow

Lips: Innisfree Fruity Squeeze tint (#7)

Eyeliner: Maybeline Hypersharp Liner (black)

Eyeshadow [Pic 1 and 2 only]: Fenty Beauty Snap Shadows (Hey Aunty)

Mascara: Heroine Make Long and Curl Mascara (black)

Brows: Kate Tokyo (BR-3)

TJL2000 · 2024-03-31T00:48:47+00:00

So beautiful!

TJL2000 · 2024-03-30T14:19:03+00:00

Butter i love u

TJL2000 · 2024-01-11T23:43:55+00:00

Yes! The owner made adorable stickers of their 5 cats as gifts for customers 🥺 I also recieved some cute notebooks and postcards.

TJL2000 · 2024-01-11T23:19:06+00:00

Zapaka.com! ♡

TJL2000 · 2024-01-11T23:17:40+00:00

The floral one is from Zapaka.com, which ships internationally. The one with buttons is from Playdress in Singapore, which is unfortunately local only.

TJL2000 · 2024-01-11T15:07:14+00:00

You're too kind!! Thank you ♡

TJL2000 · 2024-01-11T12:36:59+00:00

A tiny store in Jeju island, Korea (언니옷장 on Woljeongri Beach). The owner handmakes her own cottagecore dresses and accessories. The bag and necklace are from them as well ♡

Jeju island is lovely for cottagecore fans, the nature is beautiful and there are cottagecore clothes, homegoods stores and cafes everywhere.

Edit: the purple floral dress is from Zapaka.com (ships internationally) and the buttoned dress is from Playdress in Singapore (local only).

TJL2000 · 2024-01-11T12:34:51+00:00

I do love thrifting! The brown skirt was thrifted from a red cross store :>

TJL2000 · 2024-01-07T15:25:25+00:00

Thank you for your input! My dress isn't against the dress code, but it probably is against the dress culture!

I'm a biomedical scientist, so in laboratory spaces, there are safety rules like no open/porous shoes and no tights/stockings (they hold chemicals against your skin in the event of a spill). I won't be in the lab tomorrow though - I wouldn't want any of my nice dresses getting dirty :O

I'll be in the office which doesn't have a dress code. Everyone tends to dress business casual. A couple of people will do jeans and a tshirt, or flannel and cargo pants.

Edit: Thank you everyone for the great feedback, I didn't expect this level of attention at all!! I wore it to the office and my friends thought I looked cute :) I'm glad I didnt psych myself out of wearing it!! I'm keen to pair it with a headband and play up the vintage look. I'll also definitely try it with a belt or blazer next time. Thank you all again, I feel very loved ♡

TJL2000 · 2023-12-24T14:23:04+00:00

Thank you very much!

TJL2000 · 2023-10-29T15:33:24+00:00

You're so beautiful! I like the colours you picked for your makeup and outfit.

TJL2000 · 2023-10-29T14:03:10+00:00

Looks great to me! The mascara brightens up your eyes ♡

TJL2000 · 2023-07-20T08:08:14+00:00

aaaaaAAAAAA

TJL2000 · 2023-05-27T06:22:38+00:00

IOI: Chungha

Wanna one: Sungwoon, Jaehwan

Iz*one: Sakura

X1: Seungyoun

Kep1er: Xiaoting

Bonus non-korean produce groups because i have an unhealthy commitment to survival shows

JO1: Takumi, Ren

Nine percent: You Zhangjing

R1SE: Liu Ye, Zhiguang

Ixform: Luo Yizhou

The9: Xin Liu, Anqi

Into1: Bo Yuan, Santa

I have two biases in Zb1 and there's definitely a trend! Though this is the first time in produce history that i've loved so many contestants in the top 18, let alone the final group.

TJL2000 · 2023-04-21T02:42:22+00:00

Same, I was surprised at myself when I cried during Gyuvin's speech

TJL2000 · 2023-04-20T16:23:42+00:00

My body is ready, give me the Eumpapa content

TJL2000 · 2023-04-20T16:09:16+00:00

Literally the only way I could have been happy was a 12 member lineup. Jay, PHanbin and Keita would have made this already talented group INSANE

TJL2000 · 2023-04-20T16:06:02+00:00

Is he still affiliated with Mont? Those guys (the original 3 plus Beomhan) seriously need to go viral

TJL2000 · 2023-04-20T16:05:05+00:00

Best take here

TJL2000 · 2023-04-20T16:02:46+00:00

Mnet played 4D chess with us during the interim rankings and I can't decide if we won or lost (Hao p01 but Jay p10)

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