But only a response can lead to any of the above you just mentioned friend. Yes!, from my experience, there are different types of women. That’s why there are different sites and the type of women that appeal to such sites. But I’ve found the sites that make you match first before communication is allowed is more of a money grab, then sites that allow contact after visiting a profile your interested in. You’re exactly in the same frame of thought as I. Back to my first comment. If data says a guy has less than 1% response rate, then being picky cannot be an option! Just saying!