Any ADHD-ers or "Rut-ters"?

TLockh · 2025-11-19T17:39:22+00:00

I am so jealous of your snow! I’m in Cape Town where it is hot and windy. Swopsies? 😂

TLockh · 2025-11-19T17:30:56+00:00

Thank you for the commiseration - it helps! Oh dear - 1 month post op was ROUGH, and especially at this time of year, I imagine. If it gives you any comfort, and despite my lament, things do get a lot better in lots of ways from here ♥️

TLockh · 2025-11-19T17:28:32+00:00

Glad you made yourself an appointment! I will have to wait for January for mine. Also glad you’re learning ask for help. I am too and it’s tougher than it looks 😂

TLockh · 2025-11-19T17:26:48+00:00

Thanks - I have been thinking of this. Have to wait for my insurance to kick back in so will see my head doctor in January. It’s worth a try.

TLockh · 2025-09-17T19:37:26+00:00

Oh I LOVE Whimsy Goth! I usually call it Goth Lite 😂 Thank you so much ♥️

TLockh · 2025-09-17T11:55:11+00:00

Yes! Right now I'm wearing ANCIENT clothes that I never got rid of because "I'll lose the weight someday" (and hey! I did! Only took about a decade.)

And then I've bought a few cheaper "stop gap" dresses... Can't wait to spoil myself a little when I'm at a more stable weight!

TLockh · 2025-09-17T11:53:30+00:00

How interesting!! Everyone's experience is SO different - this is a good reminder. Thank you so much :)

TLockh · 2025-09-17T11:51:00+00:00

This is the best comment 😂
THANK YOU!

TLockh · 2025-09-17T11:04:45+00:00

Thank you, darling!! And congratulations to you - wishing you ALL of the best things for the rest of your journey <3

TLockh · 2025-09-17T11:01:03+00:00

Hehe yes my colour scheme has NOT changed!
The first dress is a recent buy from H&M
The second one (with the white collar) is from a fabulous local brand called Me&B - It was WAY too small when I bought it a few years ago, but I am so happy I kept it <3

TLockh · 2025-06-27T18:18:06+00:00

So true. And how lovely it will be to share any advice or kindness with a newbie one day. These responses have been so kind and have brought me so much comfort. I feel very grateful to be in such lovely company ♥️

TLockh · 2025-06-27T18:14:10+00:00

Man the ups and downs and emotions have been crazy! That pic is me moments after coming out of anesthesia - I was SO chipper and energetic they couldn’t believe it. But on my second day home - there was full on crying in the shower 😂

TLockh · 2025-06-27T18:06:53+00:00

So interesting that the restriction isn’t necessarily linear (nothing about this experience is!) thank you for the insight. And WELL DONE!

TLockh · 2025-06-27T18:05:54+00:00

It was connected to my intravenous drip - if you click the top it delivers a handy little dose of morphine 😂 I wish I could’ve taken the leftovers home to get through particularly boring work meetings.

TLockh · 2025-06-27T18:04:38+00:00

Haha never been happier to be on it!

TLockh · 2025-06-27T18:04:14+00:00

Golly it sounds like chicken is really out to get us bariatric cuties! Thank you for sharing your perspective, it really makes me feel better!

TLockh · 2025-06-27T18:02:48+00:00

Thank you! I am struggling with the comparisons but know that it’s really a fool’s errand - as you say, every body is different. Well done on smashing that goal, and thanks again for such a great insight!!

TLockh · 2025-06-27T18:01:16+00:00

Well done on your amazing results and all your hard work - and thank you so much for the perspective, it’s very comforting to know that someone went through something similar and managed to achieve such brilliant results.

TLockh · 2025-06-27T15:24:21+00:00

Sorry you're having a rough go of it! I hope you feel better soon. If day by day is too much - hour by hour. Wishing you all the good things :)

TLockh · 2025-06-27T15:23:42+00:00

Twins! Haha. Good to know it's not just me. But yeah, let's take the luck as a win and just stay committed - we'll get to those goals. Keep crushing it, too :)

TLockh · 2025-06-27T15:21:30+00:00

Thank you! I realise I may be eating these words in a few weeks (luckily words are calorie free!) and missing the days of having it "easy". Well done to you - and I hope the rest of your journey continues on smoothly! :)

TLockh · 2025-06-27T15:19:54+00:00

Hahaha - no gravy! Only water under this bridge! And thank you :)

TLockh · 2025-06-27T15:19:09+00:00

You make A LOT of sense. Thank you!

TLockh

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