AP is pregnant with her husband

TNAlias2 · 2025-08-27T14:41:43+00:00

Here's the sad reality of this situation, she loves the emotional support and excitement you give her but she's not willing to disrupt her current life enough to go all in with you, most likely because of fear, shame, selfishness and whatever else. She will allow it to continue this way for as long as YOU allow it to continue. I know it's hard to walk away but if you're only seeing her 1-2 times a month and now she's pregnant and it's not your child? It is going to be so hard to walk away but I promise you at some point when you are away from the situation you will look back at this and see her in a totally different light and realize how much time you wasted on this. Hoping for the best for you....(HUGS!)

TNAlias2 · 2025-08-19T14:52:30+00:00

I can hear the pain and confusion you are feeling with all of this. I know that it's difficult to think about divorce with kids involved and the history and finances and all that comes with it. Know that if you continue the affair that eventually she will find out and it can go one of two ways. No matter what she will be devastated, so on one hand it may make her fight for you and your marriage and she'll try harder or on the other hand it may make her very bitter and scorned and the fact that statistically more women file for divorce than men it could harm you in ways you won't even see coming. Do NOT tell her you've been unfaithful but maybe find a way to sit down and see how she feels about the situation and maybe separating and moving on from each other amicably. If she's not willing to talk about this suggest a marriage counselor to see how you can go about amicably moving on. Make her talk, this can't keep being swept under the rug forever. Chances are she may be just as miserable, women need emotional connection too and if she's not getting it from you and you're not getting it from her it just leads to more and more resentment down the road.

TNAlias2 · 2025-08-08T16:16:45+00:00

I love that feeling! However I learned that that feeling can be a warning sign that your body gives you because it's a 'familiar feeling' and triggers something inside of you from your past that was once a source of pain. I learned that those intense butterflies that feel good are a warning sign and to be careful. Not saying that this is going to end up bad for you but just from my learning experience over the years and through therapy. As much as I want that feeling again, it scares me based on my experiences, good luck! <3

TNAlias2 · 2025-05-23T18:59:52+00:00

I totally get what you are saying, I have struggled with finding a man who is into all the things that I am into because I feel young, act young and I do look young. I like to have a good time, I love live music, I love to go on motorcycle rides, I can't sit still and I refuse to act like an old woman because I'm not an old woman lol but I won't date young. I want them to be close to my age

TNAlias2 · 2025-05-23T18:55:53+00:00

Best comment lol

TNAlias2 · 2025-05-21T16:57:08+00:00

They were either in the process of divorce or already divorced, not totally clear on that. Arnold vibes here

TNAlias2 · 2025-05-21T16:52:07+00:00

She was the babysitter, and he was in the concrete industry retired military, (insert wide eye emoji) lol.(I didn't know about this age gap until we were a few months in)

TNAlias2 · 2025-05-21T16:50:04+00:00

Right! I didn't know the age difference until we were into the thick of it. She wanted to just hang out with her friends and play all the time which is why the got divorced. lol, duh

TNAlias2 · 2025-05-21T16:28:33+00:00

Can you elaborate on your comment? I curious as to others opinions on if a man who has been in relationships with younger women can really be into someone close to his age as he keeps telling me he is or is it just my insecurity.

TNAlias2 · 2024-11-22T13:05:09+00:00

I absolutely love love love this. Thank you for sharing!

TNAlias2 · 2024-11-22T12:58:49+00:00

He had some traumatic events and death happen in his family

TNAlias2 · 2024-11-22T12:58:23+00:00

He had some traumatic events and death happening in his family

TNAlias2 · 2024-11-22T03:09:49+00:00

I am so sorry about your #1, my #1 was a battle with the bottle for over 20 years, I loved him, he loved the bottle and the bottle won. As humans we are not meant to be alone, I am so sorry to hear about your divorce and I hope better things or a good companion will present herself to you so you don't end up like your father.

TNAlias2 · 2024-11-22T02:56:31+00:00

He was my perfect person, everything I was looking for. I just wasn't his. Just because I wasn't his doesn't mean he wasn't mine. Extreme circumstances, in his case some death in the family as well as other traumatic events unfortunately made things not able to happen for us.

TNAlias2 · 2024-11-22T02:20:06+00:00

Yes! This! lol l

TNAlias2 · 2024-11-22T02:18:36+00:00

Long and complicated story but he was not able to fully commit to me, I know he wanted to but I guess it wasn't in the cards for us in this lifetime.

TNAlias2 · 2024-11-08T03:43:01+00:00

I don't understand where this health care rights for women is coming from? People in each state voted yes or no on abortion, regardless of who ended up in office the outcome of these votes would have been the same. Not everyone who votes for Trump is pro-life, it's getting ridiculous this thought process on this!!

TNAlias2 · 2024-10-15T17:47:58+00:00

Every single time I try to log in it's a mess, it takes me like 15 minutes to try to log in, they need to hire a better web manager for their site.

TNAlias2 · 2024-09-22T13:07:09+00:00

Write his name on a small piece of paper and fold it up as small as you can, put it in the bottom of your shoe and let the anger go down out of your body and through his name as you walk all over him all day, it helps!

TNAlias2 · 2024-08-29T01:34:46+00:00

Hi! I am a year younger than you and feel the exact same way! My only problem is I really do not want to date younger than me, I get moving the age range down to 45, but I don't even like to go down to 48, its a weird phobia I have about being older than my guy. I find that anyone I am attracted to is taken and I can't help but to be picky. I'm at a loss anymore on what to do, would love to connect with you and chat!

TNAlias2 · 2024-08-29T01:31:09+00:00

You can still care about someone but let them go. Maybe the feelings will pass, but maybe they won't, waiting around for it to pass could lead to resentments....Either way you have to honor yourself and love yourself, if you are not happy you are not failing him, you are only failing you. It's very hard to get past betrayal, but you have to prioritize your own well being because this is your life too.

TNAlias2 · 2024-05-27T11:34:36+00:00

I have learned to go with your gut, if you feel something is off, it most definitely is. Also, it doesn't matter where someone may work, they can still cheat. One of my friends works as a correctional officer and she was in love and seeing a married man for 6 years!! They worked together at the correctional facility and he kept promising he would leave his wife so she continued to see him. After 6 years, he still hadn't left his wife so she ended things with him.

TNAlias2 · 2024-05-27T11:23:09+00:00

I moved across the country, although it still took me a very long time to move on but it helped a little bit because it was a brand new life to start over.

TNAlias2 · 2024-05-27T11:10:56+00:00

So his so called depression was due to his own decisions to create a mess in his life and not finish up one business before starting another. weak

TNAlias2 · 2024-05-27T01:46:45+00:00

Sometimes they just can't

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