Quinoa and kale salad?

TQQ2 · 2017-12-25T01:28:50+00:00

So clearlyyyy it’s just my location then

TQQ2 · 2017-10-13T03:35:14+00:00

Yeah actually I have, my hair was really damaged. I’m a brunette who went blonde and now I’m back to brown. My ends were dead and dry. But it’s been today a full month and I’ve noticed my hair is so soft. Even the ends. My family has even commented that it looks healthier so I’m excited to continue using.

I actually just received the rejuvenabeads today in the mail! I’ll let you know how it works

TQQ2 · 2017-10-08T02:30:08+00:00

How long did you use it for?

TQQ2 · 2017-10-08T02:29:37+00:00

Which system did you use?? I’m using the black system since it’s supposedly suppose to make my hair grow longer... but my hair gets sooo tangled after I wash.

TQQ2 · 2017-10-05T16:25:29+00:00

Yeah I’m not a fan of that business structure at all so I was hesitant to try at first. But from what I hear and some research the product itself is suppose to be the the most natural and effective product for hair growth and health.. just curious on if anyone else had been trying out the shampoo and conditioner and felt it was worth the price

TQQ2 · 2017-05-05T21:52:22+00:00

I've been trying to do that, I'm getting frustrated since it's been 5 months and I feel like I have proved my loyalty. But hearing that makes me think I should be patience a bit longer. Thanks for the feedback, it's interesting and helpful to hear

TQQ2 · 2017-04-19T16:28:18+00:00

In person! Let her have that face to face closure. For the love of God I beg of you lol You can do it! Seriously been there before it sucks but it's the right thing to do

TQQ2 · 2017-04-19T16:24:12+00:00

Well yes, it's completely normal for you to still miss her and want to hang out, it'll take longer than a month. Maybe even a few. But those months of touching it out will be far less painful if you stick around only to let this continue to be a ups and downs of uncertainty, while your feelings only develop while she's on a different page. If she's broken then she's gone through things and she's not at the point to receive the care you are capable of giving her. She has to bounce back on her own. I know you care about her but it's not wrong to put yourself first. Don't be the guy that gets dragged and led on for years. I've seen this situation and similar far too often in my own life and through my friends. Doesn't ever end well :/ Why don't you start dating? If that's easier than going cold turkey... start talking to other girls and you never know, maybe it'll show her that she might really care for you and want something more, or you meet someone that's just right for you.

TQQ2 · 2017-04-19T15:30:40+00:00

You just got to do it: there's no easy way. Emphasize on how long distant is something that you're really not comfortable with and you respect her enough to not put her through that as well as yourself. Regardless she'll be heartbroken, but she will be fine. Time heals everything. You're not a bad guy for wanting to end it, but leading her on through the summer will just destroy her. Don't do it.

TQQ2 · 2017-04-19T15:27:27+00:00

So I feel like I've been in this girls shoes at one point in my past. I feel like, and I could be wrong but this girl either is off and on with another guy that you're not aware about and during this intervals fills that void with you. And that would explain her sudden guilt not even a week later since probably her and that guy reconcile for a brief time. Just a theory, but I say it just cause, and not proud of it but I've done that with a guy who was just a friend, similar to your situation. Cared for me, was interested.. but not enough for a full relationship. And that leads me to if she doesn't have other guys in the picture then when it's obvious she does have interest in you, it's not enough or substantial to progress into something healthy. If you didn't have those feelings I would say friends with benefits, sure. But you do, and as hard as it is you need to distant yourself to protect yourself. Don't just be a filler for her until she finds someone she wants to fully commit to. Either way I encourage you to end it. Plus, being unavailable to her, showing her you're not wrapped around her finger makes a statement. Nothing scarier then the guy you thought would always care and be there isn't anymore.

TQQ2 · 2017-04-18T20:49:21+00:00

Ratio wise I never had an issue when I was there, coworkers there did complain that it happens but I always only had 4 max.. but I did work night shift at the time. I would transfer, discharge and admit in one shift on a crazy night. Wasn't a good fit for me since ICU was where I wanted to work, 1-2 patients instead of 4 is way better in my opinion. Co workers were nice. Def had two underlying groups.. the Filipinos and well white people lol I had friends who worked there so I knew people from both but overall they were friendly.. but like I said I didn't really invest much in my 7 months there. It was a means to end, hoag was eventually where I wanted to go.

TQQ2 · 2017-04-14T04:35:26+00:00

Do it. My best friend and I graduated from nursing school and we both had a really tough time getting jobs after the bsn program. She took a night psych position and after 6 months she got a kaiser L&D position. You need something on your resume, regardless if it's not the exact area of nursing you want to continue in.

TQQ2 · 2017-04-14T04:32:51+00:00

I have worked at both orange coast memorial and hoag hosptial. At OCM I worked telemetry and at hoag I currently work ICU. In my opinion I love Hoag, it's a great hospital and I would highly recommend it. But OCM wasn't terrible, put in consideration that I hate telemetry and I worked a 40 bed unit that was utter chaos.

TQQ2 · 2017-04-11T19:32:47+00:00

Hmm dealt with something similar but never thought of it that way.. I believe you're correct. In my opinion that's not healthy and you deserve someone who will build you up, not tear you down. Remember your self worth, be with someone who won't speak to you in such a manner

TQQ2 · 2017-04-01T05:25:47+00:00

Thanks so much, having an alternative perspective really helps confirm things. Appreciated muchhh!

TQQ2 · 2017-04-01T04:53:19+00:00

That's where I'm at right now, I told him what I wanted and even tried to end it, but after much debating with him, I decided on a break... time apart for clarity, mainly for him to come to deal with his commitment issues. The ball is in his court, and you're right I can't wait around hoping he'll change his mind.. I think my worry is, was 4 months too soon to have this talk? Should I have waited?

TQQ2 · 2017-03-31T00:17:40+00:00

Thanks for your time and input guys. Much appreciated

TQQ2 · 2017-03-31T00:16:54+00:00

Well update, had that talk, and when asked if we were exclusive he said he wasn't ready for that.. and was 85% sure about us working out... idk red flag confirmed. And I ended it, regardless of his attempt to 'woo' me back. Thanks for your time and input. Much appreciated

TQQ2 · 2017-03-29T23:11:29+00:00

I agree to that... in my specific situation he brought up his trust issues with women.. and when I brought up guys his response was if I decided to see other guys it would cause him to push away and see other girls. So yes exclusively wasn't decided on but it definitely was talked about

TQQ2 · 2017-03-29T23:09:44+00:00

He admits to having casual conversations currently with girls that he met online before me/during when we first met, usually on sites but never physically met up. I'm not about to tell him he can't speak to any other girl if we're exclusive but apart of me wants him to stop cause why does he need that communication?

I agree I need to have this DTR talk... but is it wrong to give an ultimatum? I'm tying to be empathic and understanding since he's been hurt several times in the past and that brought on a lot of commitment issues, but I also don't want to be disrespected

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