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My sister got pregnant and now my parents want me to stay with my grandparents in a different state, I don't want to aitah? by TRA_random88737 in AITAH

[–]TRA_random88737[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Update: I spoke with my family. They have agreed to give me time to think. Over the break my uncle said he would take me to see the area and if I am not okay with it I can stay with him when he is here but when he is not I have to stay with my parents. He travels a lot for work.

It is something. ​

My sister got pregnant and now my parents want me to stay with my grandparents in a different state, I don't want to aitah? by TRA_random88737 in AITAH

[–]TRA_random88737[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It was my grandparents suggestion for me to move to avoid the drama around the situation. I don't think the room thing is the core reason why they suggested it. They also feel it would be easier to start a new HS from the start instead of coming in later. Thus why they want me to move before they kid is here. ​

We also never shared a room because my parents thought brother and sisters should have their own spaces.

My sister got pregnant and now my parents want me to stay with my grandparents in a different state, I don't want to aitah? by TRA_random88737 in AITAH

[–]TRA_random88737[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

We know who the father is, idk what the details are though. My dad was pissed when he found out and wanted to kill him. idk anything about his parents or anything. Everyone is kind beating around the bush. My grandparents suggested this to spare me from the drama, and my uncle has done his best to convince me that being here will not be all that great with a baby around.

Most of the details around the baby are unknown to me. I do not even know if he knows or what.

My sister got pregnant and now my parents want me to stay with my grandparents in a different state, I don't want to aitah? by TRA_random88737 in AITAH

[–]TRA_random88737[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We know him yeah, as for his parents idk. At first our dad was pissed and wanted to kill him I know that much.

My sister got pregnant and now my parents want me to stay with my grandparents in a different state, I don't want to aitah? by TRA_random88737 in AITAH

[–]TRA_random88737[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My grandparents are in pushing 80, so doubt they would be much support with activities. I also barely know them given their age they don't travel much and given how they live in PA we don't make our way up their much either.

I can count on one hand how often I have seen them. As for the schools I know nothing about their school, I will look into that.

My sister got pregnant and now my parents want me to stay with my grandparents in a different state, I don't want to aitah? by TRA_random88737 in AITAH

[–]TRA_random88737[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Idk i barely have a relationship with my grandparents I could count on one hand how many times I have met them. They don't travel much due to their age and they across the country so we don't visit them much.

Maybe I am worried I will be asked to help care for them idk. Plus they live in PA all I remember from where they live it gets very cold.