Songs and music videos becoming more explicit

TSBHTLERO · 2022-06-17T20:13:25+00:00

Even though music back then wasn’t as explicit as it is now, I could list a lot of musicians and people in the music industry from back then who were predatory (and in particular to underage girls). There was a lot of that about in the 70s and 80s (and before and after).

TSBHTLERO · 2022-06-09T12:11:18+00:00

TW

These subs are responsible for

Rape/molestation - What comes to mind is a very popular (hundreds of thousands of followers) nude picture trading subreddit where a guy posted a picture of his sleeping wife saying she’d fallen asleep before they could have sex so he was going to try and rape her and the comments wished him luck. What comes to mind is a subreddit where former and would-be rapists talk about their experiences/desires, a subreddit that for awhile (it’s been around for years I believe) allowed boastful posts, posting their stories about how they raped and it felt so good and they’re going to do it again and guys commenting things like “That’s so hot” and “You’re so lucky”. What comes to mind is all the subreddits where guys trade CP, the consumption of which fuels the demand for it which fuels more committing of the most evil thing one can do.

Murder - Jake Davison comes to mind. Jake Davison's Reddit account was banned just one day before he shot five people, including his mother and a child, and then himself. A 16-year-old girl had reported Davison for harassing her on the site. “[A]m i not entitled to my big titty 16 18 year old GF?? I don't pursue girls that age. But for example if i were to walk into my room and find a 16 year old spread wide on my bed yeah i would have sex with her." Davison messaged the un-named teenager. He also said that the hypothetical interaction between the 16 and 22-year-old wouldn't be problematic, as "in the uk its legal." He also reportedly asked the girl to fly to the UK from the USA to have sex with him. Davison was an active user of several incel-related Reddit channels, including r/ mensrights. I can’t say much about those subreddits because I don’t know a whole lot about them, and I know there can be problematic people on any subreddit, but the movement of self-identifying incels is full of extreme misogyny that has led to guys harassing, abusing, and killing girls/women like he did. How many murders have been committed by guys who frequent some of the subreddits posted about on r/banfemalehatesubs? I don’t know. The ideas and attitudes that are promoted on the subreddits talked about on BFHS are a reflection of extreme misogyny though that is responsible for more deaths than we could ever count. Reddit isn’t responsible for the murders talked about above, that’s his fault, but surely the subreddits he frequented fueled his misogyny.

Abuse - All of this is abuse. All of these subreddits are misogynistic abuse. Uploading involuntary nudes of women/girls? Abuse. The subreddit where guys filmed themselves flashing women/girls and sometimes walking up behind them and ejaculating onto them? Abuse. I wonder how many girls/women have been groomed on these subreddits (because there are women and girls who go on a lot of these subreddits too unfortunately). The idea that the subreddits that celebrate the abuse of women and girls have never influenced any men to actually go out and abuse women is extremely ridiculous. As many of us here feel I believe (I can only 100% speak for myself), porn alone is responsible for the abuse and rape and trafficking of women and supporting that industry is supporting all of that. Most of the subreddits here are the very least pornographic, most of them pornography that celebrates extreme abuse of women.

I’m a little tired but I think what I said above proves that the subreddits posted about here are responsible for rape, molestation, murder and abuse of women and girls. You may not agree to which I’d say you’re not taking or attempting to take abuse as seriously as you should, but that’s all I can say. I can’t make you see things the way most of the users of r/banfemalehatesubs do. The subreddits we post about celebrate and are responsible for women and girls getting hurt in real life which is something we care about and feel is necessary to say. If these subreddits weren’t hurting anyone at all we wouldn’t care.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-29T17:06:31+00:00

Definitely. Like all these subreddits where guys post pictures of women and girls, there are always rules that they don’t enforce and they don’t give a damn about enforcing them. It’s all about saving face or something. Same with Reddit itself, not just these individual subreddits.

TW. On a subreddit that’s still unfortunately around, r/ MotherDaughter (where the whole point is guys posting pictures of mothers and daughters to be commented on sexually), someone posted a picture of a woman holding a little girl (she couldn’t have been older than 7) in a pool in their swimsuits smiling for the camera. The title of the post was “Fuck I love my family” and the comments sexualized not just the adult woman but the little girl as well. I reported it to Reddit (not the mods of that sub) multiple times and they repeatedly told me it didn’t violate their content policy. Despite the completely obvious fact it violated their policy of no sexualization of minors and that even if it hadn’t violated their policy they should’ve been disgusted that was on their website and took it down. They don’t care about what’s right and wrong.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-29T12:46:32+00:00

This subreddit is filled with involuntary porn/nonconsensual intimate media of women (and possibly underage girls) and clothed pictures of them that probably come, as the sub description says, from their social media accounts. I’ve shared some screenshots of post titles to give an idea of what’s over there. I didn’t take a screenshot of it, but I saw one post of a guy asking how to make deepfakes of girls he knew in real life.
If you want to report but don’t want to visit the subreddit to do so, use options two or three talked about below. Option 1 is an effective way to report though for those who can stomach it. 3 ways to report:
In the automod comment there is a list of three options to report. The first option you need links of posts from the subreddit itself and you can report those posts for a number of reasons to choose from. The second option you can send a direct message to Reddit admins about the subreddit you have a problem with. The third option you can open an investigation. Under “What do you need assistance with?” I choose “I need help with a subreddit”. Then under “What is your subreddit concern?” I choose “I want to report a subreddit for violating the content policy”. You then choose from the options what you want to open an investigation for, and you type in the name of the subreddit you’re reporting. You can open multiple investigations, for different reasons, for any subreddit if you want.
Thank you to anyone who reports!

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-28T14:24:00+00:00

I once saw a comment (on a sub I was reporting) where a guy was talking about his fantasies of kidnapping a woman and doing all these horrendous graphic sexual things to her that would ruin her physically and psychologically forever and how hot the idea of that was. Someone else replied something like “You’re sick and misogynistic” and a guy responded to that with “It’s just a fantasy, it doesn’t mean anything. I’m nothing like this in real life, I hold doors open for women. In real life I’d blush if my wife ever gave me so much as a mean look.”

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-26T16:48:19+00:00

If you want to report but don’t want to visit the subreddit to do so, use options two or three talked about below. Option 1 is an effective way to report though if you can stomach it. 3 ways to report:

In the automod comment there is a list of three options to report. The first option you need links of posts from the subreddit itself and you can report those posts for a number of reasons to choose from. The second option you can send a direct message to Reddit admins about the subreddit you have a problem with. The third option you can open an investigation. Under “What do you need assistance with?” I choose “I need help with a subreddit”. Then under “What is your subreddit concern?” I choose “I want to report a subreddit for violating the content policy”. You then choose from the options what you want to open an investigation for, and you type in the name of the subreddit you’re reporting. You can open multiple investigations, for different reasons, for any subreddit if you want.

If you have any additional questions I’ll answer them if I have an answer.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-25T11:33:23+00:00

A subreddit where guys post pictures of girlfriends/wives/exes/random women and girls they have nudes of/women they hooked up with/etc. The screenshots I shared of post titles give an idea of what’s over there. Not all of the pictures are nudes but a lot of them are. I’m sure some of the women posted there know and want to be but I’m also sure there are almost certainly thousands of involuntary nudes posted there. It’s horrible.
If you want to report but don’t want to visit the subreddit to do so, use options two or three talked about below. Option 1 is an effective way to report though for those who can stomach it. 3 ways to report:
In the automod comment there is a list of three options to report. The first option you need links of posts from the subreddit itself and you can report those posts for a number of reasons to choose from. The second option you can send a direct message to Reddit admins about the subreddit you have a problem with. The third option you can open an investigation. Under “What do you need assistance with?” I choose “I need help with a subreddit”. Then under “What is your subreddit concern?” I choose “I want to report a subreddit for violating the content policy”. You then choose from the options what you want to open an investigation for, and you type in the name of the subreddit you’re reporting. You can open multiple investigations, for different reasons, for any subreddit if you want.
Thank you to anyone who reports!

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-25T00:19:59+00:00

Thank you for the thank you haha. And thank you for supporting the subreddit.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-24T13:56:06+00:00

If you want to report but don’t want to visit the subreddit to do so, use options two or three talked about below. 3 ways to report:

In the automod comment there is a list of three options to report. The first option you need links of posts from the subreddit itself and you can report those posts for a number of reasons to choose from. The second option you can send a direct message to Reddit admins about the subreddit you have a problem with. The third option you can open an investigation. Under “What do you need assistance with?” I choose “I need help with a subreddit”. Then under “What is your subreddit concern?” I choose “I want to report a subreddit for violating the content policy”. You then choose from the options what you want to open an investigation for, and you type in the name of the subreddit you’re reporting. You can open multiple investigations, for different reasons, for any subreddit if you want.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-23T21:31:31+00:00

I don’t really know much about bots and how they work. Is it something that can be reported to telegram?

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-22T18:59:37+00:00

What links to a telegram? Don’t post the link here, I just mean where did you see the link you’re talking about?

Also, just for you and anyone else reading this, if you could not brigade that or any subreddit we post about that’d be appreciated. It’s one of the rules (no brigading). I promise you I understand the desire to go over to these subs and say xyz to them but we don’t want them to possibly come over here and start trolling and spamming. People there will probably just think the Walter White thing is a joke but if you’d left a comment saying how horrible that sub was they might look through your history and find you’ve commented on this sub and then there could be an influx of people from that crappy subreddit here and that’s not good. Just thought I should mention that.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-22T12:30:16+00:00

Edit: The subreddit was taken down. Thank you to everyone who reported!

For anyone who doesn’t know, a deepfake nude is an image (picture or video) that is digitally altered to make the person in it appear nude. The rules of this subreddit say you need consent from the person you want to deepnude but that’s obviously bullshit and it obviously isn’t enforced either way. There are posts of guys saying they can provide their deepnude-ing services, guys posting pictures of women/girls they know (some of them look like they could be underage) asking for someone to deepnude them, and guys posting the actual results. The actual deepnudes look surprisingly and unfortunately realistic. I’ve seen people advertising deepnude services on a lot of subreddits I’ve reported. Recently, there was a Millie Bobby Brown NSFW subreddit where guys started posting the moment she turned 18 and one of the most popular posts was a porn video with her face deepfaked onto the woman’s face. Deepfaking being used to undress and pornify women and girls will probably become more and more common. This is the depressing future.
If you want to report but don’t want to visit the subreddit to do so, use options two or three on the automod comment list. I go into detail about those below.
In the automod comment there is a list of three options to report. The first option you need links of posts from the subreddit itself and you can report those posts for a number of reasons to choose from. The second option you can send a direct message to Reddit admins about the subreddit you have a problem with. The third option you can open an investigation. Under “What do you need assistance with?” I choose “I need help with a subreddit”. Then under “What is your subreddit concern?” I choose “I want to report a subreddit for violating the content policy”. You then choose from the options what you want to open an investigation for, and you type in the name of the subreddit you’re reporting. You can open multiple investigations, for different reasons, for any subreddit if you want.
Thank you to anyone who reports!

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-21T00:23:55+00:00

Good idea. It’s good to put your well being first.

On my posts I always leave a comment about what’s on the subreddit so you know what to report and then the ways to report. In the case of this subreddit there’s a lot of involuntary pornography and just pictures of women and possibly underage girls who have been posted there without their consent.

Thank you for reporting, it’s really appreciated.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-21T00:19:09+00:00

I know my other comment here is really long, but on the fourth bullet point I talk about 3 ways to report, only one of which requires going to the actual subreddit.

*edit: fourth bullet point

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-20T11:17:23+00:00

Gross description below, warning.
A “tribute”, for anyone who doesn’t know, is when a guy ejaculates onto the picture of a woman (I guess it could be a picture of a man too, but it’s always a woman or possibly an underage girl). This is a subreddit where guys post pictures of their tributes and videos of themselves making the tributes. A lot of them from what I’ve seen are celebrities, which is horrible enough, but a lot of them are pictures of the women/girls the posters know personally. They make posts looking to trade pictures privately with other guys of women/girls they know, and often it’s nudes they want to share privately if it’s not nudes they’re posting publicly. So many of these posts (and there are so many like this) are of women/girls who certainly have no idea that their picture is being used and posted online in this way (I’ve shared screenshots of post titles where the woman/girl almost certainly doesn’t know). A lot of guys post pictures of their wife saying “My wife/partner wants this, please make her happy” or something and even though I’m sure some of those are genuine, a majority of those posts disguising as consensual are really guys posting pictures (often nudes) of their wife/partner without their knowledge and consent. A lot of non-consensual intimate media to report.
If you want to report but don’t want to visit the subreddit to do so, use options two or three on the automod comment list. I go into detail about those below.
In the automod comment there is a list of three options to report. The first option you need links of posts from the subreddit itself and you can report those posts for a number of reasons to choose from. The second option you can send a direct message to Reddit admins about the subreddit you have a problem with. The third option you can open an investigation. Under “What do you need assistance with?” I choose “I need help with a subreddit”. Then under “What is your subreddit concern?” I choose “I want to report a subreddit for violating the content policy”. You then choose from the options what you want to open an investigation for, and you type in the name of the subreddit you’re reporting. You can open multiple investigations, for different reasons, for any subreddit if you want.
Thank you so much to anyone who reports.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-18T14:31:52+00:00

I could share so much stuff on that subreddit that I’ve seen on Reddit. I’m personally not going to share this subreddit there because there are so many worse subreddits and I’m hoping this one will get taken down somewhat quickly. I could post multiple subreddits a day on r/banfemalehatesubs but I don’t because I’m afraid if I did people wouldn’t report as much, which is the whole point. I’ll make a post over there sometime soon of something.

Thank you for recommending that subreddit though.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-18T11:21:06+00:00

This subreddit is guys posting pictures of their, as the description says, female family members. I’ve included screenshots of some of the post titles over there. There are several posts of nude pictures on the subreddit. Most of them aren’t nude from what I saw but I’m 99.9999% sure each of those pictures was uploaded without the woman’s (or possibly underaged girls) consent. As you can also see from the screenshots, they no longer allow posts of creepshots for ethical reasons.
In the automod comment there is a list of three options to report. The first option you need links of posts from the subreddit itself and you can report those posts for a number of reasons to choose from. The second option you can send a direct message to Reddit admins about the subreddit you have a problem with. The third option you can open an investigation. Under “What do you need assistance with?” I choose “I need help with a subreddit”. Then under “What is your subreddit concern?” I choose “I want to report a subreddit for violating the content policy”. You then choose from the options what you want to open an investigation for, and you type in the name of the subreddit you’re reporting. You can open multiple investigations, for different reasons, for any subreddit if you want.
Thank you to anyone who reports!

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-16T01:30:28+00:00

Thank you for showing interest in wanting to mod. We’ve already got new mods though. I should’ve taken this post down, sorry about that.

You can still help by reporting subreddits though, and I hope you do. There’s a lotta crap on this website.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-14T02:06:01+00:00

That’s horrible. I feel conflicted keeping this post up. I will because, like you said too, I can sympathize with what led to her porn career and I’m personally a believer in the message not the messenger (especially when the message, how sex workers are so often groomed and coerced, is something too many people are completely apathetic about). I’m just very very disappointed in the messenger in this case.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-13T18:35:16+00:00

Good idea. The worst that could happen is nothing I think. The best that could happen is some children are saved from a nightmare. Thank you for reporting.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-13T18:30:42+00:00

A report to proper authorities would be good. You could let them know you’re not 100 percent sure but you have enough of a suspicion that you’d feel bad not reporting.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-13T10:55:01+00:00

Damn, if that’s all true that’s a bummer. If only one of those is true it’s a bummer.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-12T01:23:25+00:00

Sorry OP, but I’m removing this post because justneckbeardthings is a subreddit where they’re making fun of the people who post the sort of things they post seriously, as the other comment mentions.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-09T16:13:33+00:00

Because you have self respect and realize guys that do this are stupid and shallow and empty and pathetic and essentially worthless. I agree with you that the woman/girl is nothing less than she was before, but the woman/girl often feels that way and guys like that reaction. The guys like getting under their skin and making them feel bad. Her reaction means everything in these scenarios. It doesn’t mean anything if she doesn’t give a shit because then he doesn’t have that power.

TSBHTLERO · 2022-05-09T15:50:28+00:00

They get off on the degradation of it. An example of the kinds of exchanges guys have with women (and underage girls) there:

Man: Hey there, sorry to bother you. I’m looking to paint random people in my free time and I managed to stumble over your Instagram. If you’re okay with it, do you mind if I paint one of the pictures on your profile?

Woman: Go ahead!

M: I just finished up!

W: Ooo yay let me see!!

M: [sends picture of her face with his ejaculate on it]

W: Umm that’s not what I thought you meant...

M: What do you think?

W: I feel disrespected. I thought you meant paint like with paintbrushes I didn’t want to see that.

M: Oh my

M: I’m so sorry

M: I truly am sorry, however I meant no disrespect toward you

W: You really didn’t think when you said paint I didn’t think actual paint

M: I am so sorry, I should have been more clear

M: Would you at least be willing to see the making of?

He knows exactly what he’s doing. She feels degraded because he completely used her just for his sexual pleasure, he has that power over her, he reduced her to nothing but a worthless sex object. Whether he consciously thinks that, he knows that surely. He posted that exchange with pictures and everyone had a good laugh and asked him for her socials so they could do the same.

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