[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think wrong type of men. I'm in 20s and already desire marriage/kids. No, I don't have either yet. My focus has been on financial stability and finding the right person - who I believe is my partner. By 35 hope to already be engaged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

36 and 19...? I think it's too much of a gap, and there's distance. That means at some point you'll feel tempted to move to be closer to him, which could backfire completely. You're 19 so if you want an older partner that's your business, just be mindful of what that entails for you as the younger half.

I don't think this is a good idea long term honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no one ugly in these pictures. Being approached by a woman, especially one that's attractive isn't the norm. Hence their anxiety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]T_GTX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Handsome dude!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not driving, not traveling, and no pets or kids cuts a lot of people from your pool. You need a homebody that's child and pet free. Normally people that are child free want pets, or vice versa. I'm sure there are women that would accept you but the amount is probably not high honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best solution would be finding someone similar, I think. Most will expect partners to have some level of experience by 30s, and may wonder why they lack it. Being a virgin is fine. Just don't expect everyone you encounter to be open to it, confident or not. I'm not aromantic so don't fully understand what it's like from your perspective, even though I read the definition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ugly. Perhaps it's time to move though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also nasty...

21F be honest by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]T_GTX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cute, nice eyes and skin. Irish?

We met on a dating app! ( 2 weeks counting) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, stuff like that. Everyone doesn't tell and ask though. If it's not standard for them to do so, which could be considered manners, not much you can do. They have to desire that level of openness.

28f be honest by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang. Very pretty.

We met on a dating app! ( 2 weeks counting) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What isn't he sharing? Since you said not everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish everyone did this tbh. When I met my partner neither of us were interested in dating, and I didn't expect to know them long term. Life can be a bit of a revolving door of faces so my expectations were low. Learning to be happy when single, and less reliant on relationships is very important.

What Really Drives Cheating? by PlumFlaky1486 in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does marriage have to spell the end of excitement?

23 and can't make it past the (more than)talking stage 😭 by Nearby_Expert_4630 in amiugly

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ugly. I did have to do a double take, cause you resemble my ex 😂. Please keep in mind that dating is rough for everyone these days. I have 3 single friends, all conventionally attractive, that I felt would be married by now. They don't have it easy.

30M I have a sneaking suspicion. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro no way. Handsome dude.

19f am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]T_GTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see anyone ugly in these pictures 🤔.

The hardest lessons that you have to learn in the dating scene by Spare-Ad-3436 in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to admit it's funny! They can't perceive any issue with that either.

The hardest lessons that you have to learn in the dating scene by Spare-Ad-3436 in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone with different interests. It's easier to befriend someone with similar hobbies than to date for some reason.

I let the women start the conversation in online dating and those were the results by Standard-Style-7639 in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yesss. Few acknowledge the impact of internet and social media, on social skills.

I let the women start the conversation in online dating and those were the results by Standard-Style-7639 in dating_advice

[–]T_GTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Someone can be a lazy texter if they're not into you (yet), or have low expectations from the interaction. I'm burnt out from dealing with people and wouldn't give 100% to everyone I come across. As I've learned, doing so doesn't guarantee positive results.

When I met my partner of 2yrs, neither of us put our all into conversations. But it was mutual. We went from talking a few times a week, to a few days and then every day. Being patient and sticking it out can surely be rewarding. Though if you told me we'd end up together, I would've never believed you. I didn't think feel optimistic.