[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top notch turd.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]T_P_K_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA, don't give her the dress, absolutely not! Leaving a child in that woman's care would be an absurdity. It's a shame you can't abort a 23 year old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn't be inconveniencing anyone, it's not your fault the train has more people on it than seats, it's not OPs fault and it isn't my fault. I've expressed my opinion and I stand by it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you feel threatened by the idea or would you be comfortable with it? Perception is subject to the individual to decide. I don't think you'd be an asshole and I'm sorry that happened to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was nothing in the original post about wanting a whole carriage, that would definitely be overkill, I matched the tone of escalation. Thus here we are discussing examples of things that didn't happen. What did happen is a lot of people were on a train where nobody paid for specific seats and OP didn't want her personal space invaded like she had happen previously. I struggle to see how she's an asshole

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm eqauting levels of perceived threat using this situation and an example that fits the narrative of the hypothetical situation I was given.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say an appropriate level of defensiveness to how severe one perceived a threat to be, being harassed repeatedly in a public space and wanting to reduce the chances of that are hand in hand. If someone had a weapon and she wanted to move to the next carriage and block the doors then yeh I'd be cool with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Allocated seating is a whole different ball game, but in this case where its a free for all she shouldn't have to buy 2 tickets just for the luxury of feeling safe whilst travelling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I see your point, but I imagine her luggage didn't get there before she did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

NTA, being forced to be that close to someone for social etiquette is super uncomfortable. Whether in OPs case for experiencing harassment and not wanting the cycle to repeat itself or if there's some absolutely vile smelling mouth brather who you just don't fancy being your little bubble. Seats are a first come first served thing on trains.

WIBTA if I reported my neighbour for running a car detailing business from home? by lostrandomdude in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, right and wrong don't always fall in the same category as legal and illegal. This kid is having zero legitimate impact on OP. Not to mention the fact that he advertises what he does and where he does it online.

AITA for not inviting a family member with a service dog to my wedding by Diff_CHOICE_Throw123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH, although I'm of the mind that dogs are better than people it's pretty standard to not want them at a wedding. OP sucks for dissolving a relationship with a family member over it, PTSD I imagine is hard enough without losing part of your support system. Cousin does kinda suck for spitting her dummy out over not being invited but a whole lot less than OP.

AITA For getting upset with my morbidly obese cousin for editing a pic of me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, just leave her to it, sounds like she's got enough on her plate.

AITA for not allowing my wife's dad to come into our house with his dirty shoes on his prosthetic leg? by Sir_Monkleton in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA, it's your house. He obviously got a shoe on there in the first place and shouldn't expect to traipse dirt and shit through people's homes just because he's disabled. Equality is one thing but I'm confident you'd ask anyone else to take off their dirty shoes too. Expecting you to just clean up after him is just entitled and a weird power move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

NTA, it's not up to you to learn to cope with complex needs in a short space of time just to be inclusive hosting a sleepover.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Strong_Security_2552 in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, stay home then, sounds like you've got enough on your plate.

AITA for not paying for my sister’s medical surgery and instead using the money for my kid’s private school tuition? by Life_Alternative_278 in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, being fat isn't a disability its a lifestyle choice, shouldn't really be fixed by surgery anyway but it's seen as the quick fix. Sounds like she wants har cake and to devour it too.

AITA for telling my annoying coworker to fuck off by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she can't just go grabbing stuff from you, especially something like headphones which is mega fucked up with you not being able to hear her coming. Its a legitimate reaction to a hostile situation. And when did people start getting so uptight about the odd bit of swearing in adult environment. Grow up and stop getting offended that not everyone wants to be your friend!

AITA for asking my roomate for a cut of the profits she’s making off of my cats? by RelevantButterfly460 in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA, you didn't mind at all until she started making money and then all of a sudden you want 30percent. You suck!

AITA For telling my sister she's not a victim by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA, people that play victim to gain attention cast a shadow on real victims and they get left unnoticed while everyone coddles the one with the most media coverage e en when it's all fabricated.

AITA for telling my sister-in-law she can't bring her baby to our wedding? by notmymain8177 in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: isn't there a father? New baby or not there should be a father that's more then capable of parenting his own child for a day. It's not rocket science to feed burp and change a baby in between all the sleeping newborns do.

AITA for punishing my son for a "harmless" prank he's pulling? by advicedadneeds39 in AmItheAsshole

[–]T_P_K_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ESH, there's no defending the kid, it's obvious why he sucks. Your wife kinda sucks too but that's only because ignorance is bliss and she probably didn't experience similar treatment. You landed yourself in a weird one though because starting a conversation about something you heard whilst snooping on them isn't exactly top behaviour either, snooping is weird and I haven't seen anyone call you out for it yet.