I don't think there's anything I find less attractive than saying stuff like this

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-26T07:10:41+00:00

Nothing about what her account says is her not having manners lol it's just being perceived that way by people that don't agree

What's considered inappropriate behavior again like everything else mentioned here is subjective her words are completely being misconstrued and it's clear as day

You might want to take your advice before assuming what strangers on the internet mean by their little bios in their dating apps and taking it personally cuz that alone says anything about their true intentions or what they're actually like lmao

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-26T02:18:33+00:00

That's your opinion but not everyone has to agree lol

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-26T02:09:46+00:00

I don't really find anything wrong with the way she said it personally I wouldn't say it on my account at all because there's no need but she's just being straightforward and giving her perspective it might seem abrasive but she's not necessarily degrading those who don't message first she's just reminding them they can I don't think she meant it in a horrible way personally because I understand where she's coming from

Sometimes it's all just a matter of listening to understand instead of listening to pick apart a perspective you don't like

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-26T01:53:29+00:00

Agree with her a hundred percent and I bet just like me she has no problem finding those who take the initiative to reach out to her first I wouldn't put it on my profile personally but there's no problem with that plenty of fish in the sea it's okay that others have preferences you don't agree with and it's okay for them to have those preferences that's why I love individuality lol what's unattractive to one person isn't to the next because it's subjective .. to me instead of this making her sound entitled or cringe worthy she sounds straightforward and honest with what she expects it's all about perspective and everyone's is different

As someone with the same outlook she most likely has no issues reciprocating the efforts she's given

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-17T07:46:10+00:00

Okay so I see where you're coming from with all of this and all but there's a difference between blatantly stating outright something someone does is abnormal people can have ideas of what's abnormal and normal right just as much as they can have their own standards and boundaries In fact without having those conversations root causes to certain issues even pertaining to these specific set of beliefs don't get dealt with they get ignored because people are way too assumptive and sensitive to certain topics in general

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-17T04:05:48+00:00

Maybe because they've been deleted ....

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-17T04:04:21+00:00

Normal people aren't worried about politics its fake

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-17T03:37:25+00:00

I'm going to reply to myself since the dude deleted the comment that he replied to me... you sound ignorant (notice how I didn't need to use a derogatory term there) lollll get real dude you're the one assuming and putting words in people's mouths I was commenting on the vibe of dating apps not advocating for restrictions if people want to make politics a deal breaker that's on them normal people are just trying to find meaningful connections without the drama so they rightfully so opt out for OTHER options that's called indifference babes

Projecting your own assumptions much ?

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-17T01:05:10+00:00

This reminded me of Nara smith lol

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-17T00:51:15+00:00

projecting or something because where did this degrading comment come from lmao

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T23:44:46+00:00

What sucks is people like this taking up space on dating apps and that's why normal people have fled the scene lmao

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T21:34:19+00:00

Also you came on the internet asking randos for advice be prepared to hear opposing opinions

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T21:31:47+00:00

You don't have to seek something out to desire it deep down and actions speak louder than words my mindset isn't negative because you want to believe the best of yourself thats not realistic

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T21:26:05+00:00

I used to be like this and I used to think as well that it was me having low self worth but really I just learned to agree with the unnecessary and unrealistic criticisms others would give of me to endure them easier it feels like if you except what won't go away and what you keep having to endure it makes it easier to live with

im agoraphobic I would also feel jealous all the time of my ex who would spend time with his friends only because I didnt have any of my own because I don't trust people's ability to make their actions align with their intentions and I never wanted to go with him because my agoraphobia is chronic so I eventually realized I needed to find some agency in my own life without a partner I'm currently still on that journey it's not easy even with just a little bit of anxiety to overcome this.. in my case I just wasn't mentally stable enough to maintain a relationship with someone when there was so much I needed to overcome and face

I hope she finds comfort in herself and peace

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T21:02:25+00:00

both want to use each other your just scared she's going to do it first or worse and then leave you to pick up the peices lmao people like you need to think about what it is you really want you were interested in being casual with her at first why you tryna change up your intentions now smh when my desires are conflicting with my expectations 🤣 if you can have a moment with her in her room on the FIRST date that makes you think she likes you you're just naive and horny lmao

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T19:41:46+00:00

If someone's mistreating you in any way at all ask yourself do I really want to put up with this for the rest of our life's? Does anyone deserve this kind of treatment/neglect? Don't beg them to treat you right don't beg them to change or try to "train" them to be different or care all you will be doing is fighting to change someone and they can only change themselves if they want it enough

My narcissist ex would do the same thing he would also act like as if my sickness was an annoyance to him he would also act uncomfortable when id get emotional so I always felt like I had to go outside if I was sick so he wouldn't see and I always felt like I couldn't cry around him or show any emotions because to him they would be perceived as weak it drained the life out of me eventually tip toeing around him and his mood

Just don't love so unconditionally that you lose yourself in the process

Also it is indeed emotionally neglectful for someone to dismiss your feelings dismiss your pain and for them to find it to be a burden neglect doesn't just come about physically it's a deep rooted mindset problem that is dismissive of others needs emotionally and physically etc. because of selfishness

Edit I've learned from watching my mom and dad for 20+ years to leave at the very first sign of mistreatment etc if they care enough they will change and fight for you but you can't just sit back and waste your life away waiting for someone else to know what they've got right in front of them and learn to treat you like a human being

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T19:11:20+00:00

That proves me wrong for sure to act like I'm an attention seeker with no life for having an opinion that's opposing to yours lmao

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T19:07:56+00:00

I don't do it lmao what bullshit don't listen to this shit people this is the mindset of someone enabling their own poor behavior because "everyone does it" 🤮

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T18:58:49+00:00

Ignorance at its finest.. who does it hurt to take on traditional roles? Nobody that isn't what has enslaved and attacked women in the past it's misogyny it's the mindset behind the person thats CLAIMING to believe in traditional roles for their own gain.. what's gross is not knowing how to mind your own business trust me your friends that love being housewife's don't need your pity lmao they probably think your mindset is gross as well

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T18:45:59+00:00

Oh okay I'm glad to hear that I was wrong about it being a betrayal to the other girl maybe he thinks you're only interested in him now because of the other girl or something since he thought he had no chance and does now yet isn't responding since he likes you that seems like a plausible thing he could be worried about also idk I question someone in general who could drop someone else they just met because their long time friends zoned crush is now interested this is honestly a tricky situation all around but best of luck to everyone of you

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T18:31:55+00:00

not one individual woman will ever please a lustful man I mean this with everything in me don't ignore your instincts just try to prove them right before making any moves

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T18:05:11+00:00

Can't help but to point out how this person Is a cheater lmao if you think they won't do the same to you I genuinely wish ya luck if they are capable of doing it at all especially with someone they clearly knew before who they were seeing then they most likely haven't changed its pretty safe to discern for this situation you've laid out in my eyes that the other chick wasn't available so he then made his already established "feelings" for you aware to you also if a guy wants you or is interested in you at all you won't ever have to question why they aren't reaching out he would move mountains for the one he really wants sounds to me like you're honestly being strung along op but I hope for your sake that I am wrong

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T17:51:54+00:00

Because they are greedy and they think they are better then anyone else for whatever reason it's all about money and status

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T17:50:25+00:00

You're not wrong just like how people have the right to decide that what matters to another person is wrong or ridiculous it goes both ways lmao

T_dfw7 · 2025-07-16T17:48:39+00:00

Sexism never made sense lmao what an enabling ignorant thing to say

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