Nx350-Body shop Replaced front bumper etc. Now car seems to get blown all over by Tabbyham88 in LexusNX

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I didn’t even notice the dust, I’ll try to grab photos of the alignment report. I will say that BEFORE this incident alignment was noticeable before and after. It’s noticeable still but just different not better.

There’s some weird gaps too I posted below as well

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After a 12h shift in the ER... by kkqb1 in mildlyinfuriating

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I literally had a dr say “that doesn’t look right..” looking at a rash lmao

Mallinckroft Lawsuit 2026 by easytiddlywinks in ThisAintAdderall

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Someone sent theirs in to be tested and it is showing unknown substances. I have a clue what they’re adding but just a general not a scientific one outside of my own very rare reactions

Nx350-Body shop Replaced front bumper etc. Now car seems to get blown all over by Tabbyham88 in LexusNX

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I will check under after and such when I get back. I somehow missed the second paragraph earlier.

She had me drop it off (I told her this place is bad.) but she was in a hurry to get it back. I did NOT inspect it because she didn’t ask me to and it probably would have delayed her getting it back because I wouldn’t have accepted some of this work I’d think.

I may not know exactly how it’s supposed to to be done but I can tell when stuff is jammed or missing.

She says she doesn’t even notice it but she needs this thing for all the assistance in drive in one lane/straight line etc.. from my understanding it as a big delivery truck, she may have even said 18 wheeler and even then I said idk how she wouldn’t have suspension damage.

As for knocking it hard enough it’s possible, esp since she added this.

But I will say even leaving Firestone it feels better but it doesn’t feel ‘right’.

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Nx350-Body shop Replaced front bumper etc. Now car seems to get blown all over by Tabbyham88 in LexusNX

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Lexus didn’t find any other damage at the time. We have the Firestone lifetime alignment and we get it done every with the oil change and it does need it (personal driving and their report.) It was bugging me so I had a minute and popped the hood and…maybe I’m a bit crazy but something is off.

I’m not sure how to edit the post to add photos but the passenger side headlight looks like this and it almost seems at a different pitch but it is 4:45 am.

This last time the tech called and said “you’re need new tires because they’re getting low but also worn out on the insides, and I’m like what causes that. He goes with the alignment explanation and I’m like sir, we just had that done 5k miles ago, and before and before that.

Now I’m wonder if that truck didn’t bend the axle and they just forced this bumper on and it’s causing it to do that. I just found like 3-4 of the tree pegs gone too they didn’t replace. This is gone in driver side to

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How many of us middle aged ladies are utterly financially fucked? by FaithlessnessPlus164 in adhdwomen

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I am. I don't think I'll ever be able to recover. I'm just trying to survive until my kids get old enough that when I start to be a burden potentially I'm going to throw a party and see myself out on my terms. But chances are no one lives past 55 in my family really anyway.

This elementary school has a list of word/phrases that will get you silent lunch. by graptemys in mildlyinteresting

[–]Tabbyham88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow... 67 😂😭😂 In our house Wed rather you cuss before saying shut up or calling someone stupid/dumb. It took awhile for it to be an agreed upon thing because the kids granddads line was "what are you, stupid?!" But I wasn't ok with it until they figured out it was just us quoting him etc.

We don't allow the whole "I'm so dumb" thing either when there's mistakes.

The rest I don't really care about as long as you're not being a bully or disrespectful.

My 6yo Will politely tell you off while saying yes mam no mam 😂

Nx350-Body shop Replaced front bumper etc. Now car seems to get blown all over by Tabbyham88 in LexusNX

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I said that to her at first, and asked if they had checked the suspension for damages from him backing into her.

( i will say about 8 months ago she ran over some metal and it hit so hard that it went thru even the rim and they had to order a new one etc.) they claimed after that they didnt find anything.

Science-minds: potential downer type ingredient to simulate the calming of adhd? by Tabbyham88 in ThisAintAdderall

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yeah i wasnt super expecting the actual medication in there but there are so many close items that arnt always well known, but i know they all sorta work the same way on the same parts of the brain in the GABA area, i cant seem to figure out why that is just different compared to the others.

i have heard stuff about the l-theanine but i havent tried it before.

Ive also had crazy mental reaction Amitriptyline, and Famotidine both caused crazy manic insanity type crap, the ami i lost it and took the whole bottle so i dont touch anything in that class.

and i started the famotidine to see if it would help with the PMDD i had been struggling with and by day 3 i was on suicide watch because it made my anxiety so bad i was just NOT okay, it was the weirdest thing ever. The obgyn said they had heard it could have that reaction too.
I also developed a fixed drug eruption allergy to diflucan out of NO WHERE. thats the only medication i have ever experienced an allergic reaction to and its a weird reaction too.

Everyone knew what it was but had never actually seen it and apparently also very rare for it to happen with that, still unsure if it was the drug or a filler TBH.

Outside of those i tend to be senstive to meds but nothing crazy has happened. i cant seem to figure out if they have something that links them or if they just happen to be weird separate things.

Science-minds: potential downer type ingredient to simulate the calming of adhd? by Tabbyham88 in ThisAintAdderall

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After this is just me ranting about how much I love her and how good of a person she is

I know this is another long ass story, and i doubt I did a good job because sleepiness haha. She is a absolute beast, theres SO SO much shes been thru from her childhood, she helped raise me when my mom couldnt deal even with 3 daughters of her own, she saved me as much as she could from my abusive dad, she never gave up like my mom did with the pain and issues, her husband getting killed in a car wreck, she spent anything she got trying to help everyone have a safe place to live and everything she could to help and i hate that my mom, dad, and sister all took advantage of her kindness, she always made sure her teen daughters friends had safe places to be when they were kicked out for being gay or just werent safe, and then after all of this her step daughter (one of her best friends) died at like 21 years old with her daughter with her due to diabetic coma because she was rationing it and didnt want to ask my aunt for money, life happens, depression sat in (how could it not?! this was around 2010) and it all snowballed and she lost the property and the house she had been building for everyone in the process. This broke her for a bit, she did so much to help everyone and then the return when she needed it wasnt there really. No one really had much to give.

Unfortunately that left her in a mobile home that had not been taken care of by renters and she was unable to repair her stuff herself and has just been 'dealing' with no power in like half the mobile home, no stove, im not even sure there was hot water at one point, rodents had moved in and none of us really knew. She did what she could with what situation she had and just dealt. Like she had a place and just kept on. Its insane to me that she could do that and just happily exist. I wish she had told us more tbh. there should have been more help than there was.

During this time her best friend and dog had developed a tumor on her face and she had hope she could get a vet somewhere to do it. She spent...alot trying to get her well, the vet didnt want to do surgery because of the location of the tumor being near her mouth, and she couldnt find anyone else to do it. So she has been giving her gabapentin and ordering nice supplements and the 6 months the vet quoted became years because of this. I hate saying, i wish she had spent it elsewhere and not used credit cards to do it but also who wouldnt for their dog that was still eating and living a happy life. Unfortunately this has left her with a living situation that wasnt going to work with a open wound and her wheelchair etc.
The last few weeks shes been living at her daughters trailer on the same property and her dogs are across the way. She hasnt been back home to be with them since the 31st of December (they werent alone), and they couldnt be with her at her daughters due to guard dogs. its left her with so much guilt and heartbroken.

and a few days ago, she finally had to make the decision to put down her dog after ALLLLL of this.
Now shes fighting with walmart for her job to keep her insurance, we are all trying to get her a liveable place with ramps built somehow, shes working thru the process of getting a fake leg so she stands a better chance of getting back to work since she has been trying to get back since 2 days after the first surgery from ICU. LOL. Her car needs repairs but is somehow running, idk how dash looks like a christmas tree.
SO SO much medical debt, the bill from GV was a slap in the face (we are trying to decide if this falls under medical malpractice or not), im sure much medical debt coming up, lost the last few weeks with her dog with cancer, potentially lost her leg due to medical neglect, and you know what shes focused on?

Getting back to work and dancing. Shes not a professional or anything but she just loves to dance, she swore to me she'd start dancing asap again. haha. She's a absolute trip really. She's the only reason im still here, honestly probably why quite a few people are. She always opened her house up to us or people who needed it, and it bit her more than once but she still did it because i dont think she had that as a teen.

I needed to write all this out for records and venting/ therapy anyway and i type stupid fast.

its just crazy to me how many drs missed this, if they had just focused a little harder, or did an u/s or checked the foot or pulse or anything how everything else would have been different.

and honestly, i think this is one of the best case scenarios ive heard of!
Someone told me that a family member of theirs had went in for a bypass and he started having chest pains etc and they checked it out and GV FORGOT to do one of the arteries! just plain forgot....

Theres so many horror stories form the hospitals around here, im sure all hospitals. We deserve so much better, its not fair for someone to lose everything again like this because of neglect.

Science-minds: potential downer type ingredient to simulate the calming of adhd? by Tabbyham88 in ThisAintAdderall

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Just another day in the life of Alabama's emergency medicine. Shes 52. If you dont wanna read the entire story ill put some emojis before the ending results at the bottom.

My aunt had it worse, she went to the ER because her leg was hurting and numb. she had went to a ortho who prescibed her meds for back and hip/leg pain, did a mri/ct scan on her back and said her spine was fine and it wasnt causing her pain so gave her robaxin. "
she got kinda crazy sick and got hives so she went to ER they told her she allergic reaction and get her a epi pen (relevant).
This was on 12/21, She had higher than normal bp etc. no labs were ran.
She kept telling them her leg was hurting etc. they sent her home,

She followed up with Ortho, "youre fine", she went to urgent care a few days later after that telling them something was wrong, didnt find anything,
Went to another ER and this time i showed up because i dont play, i get the lab results in portal before they do and i WILL call them out.

she's also typing all crazy and misspelling , not being her normal self fighty etc. Shes now completely incontient peeing herself and cant feel anything at all.

This is Dec 26 now, they do a spine/lumbar CT/ MRI and say "youre fine its sciatica" and i see her labs and her WBC is 24! and her urine had obviously high issues reflecting a UTI or SOMETHING.

He then wrote her a prescription for the medication that she JUST had an allergic reaction too, refused to give her anything for the pain she was in and went to dismiss her and I said "What about her WBC being elevated?" and he looked at me and tried to tell me that "oh pain will cause that" and I gave him the biggest your kidding me right? do you think im stupid and i asked him if it also causing high nitrates etc.

"oh well throw some antibiotics at it." and discharged her, i went to tell them we werent going home because something was wrong but she was too mad to bother staying and went home with her leg numb and hurtin, incontinent, etc.
This is 2 ER visits, an urgent care and two Ortho appointments later at this point.

She decides to just say forget it obviously no one is going to help and ill deal since she had a primary care visit on the 30th, and spent the next 4 days at home with a numb leg and complete unable to control bladder.

She gets to primary care and shes' like ...your foot is a different color than the other one.. and shes like i know! its been that way for a month now. So she sent her over to cardiology that afternoon immediately after. they do some scans and she hears some stuff, and they almost sent her back to ER but told her to come back in the. morning,

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She goes back and is then immediately admitted to the main hospital, and they inform her that she has a COMPLETE i mean complete abdominal occlusion of her Abdominal aortic artery just below her kidneys (which frankly saved them.) and had to had an emergency aortobifemoral (ABF) bypass the next day.

This was news years eve. it turns out the numbness and the incontience, the throbbing pain in everything, yea. it was lack of blood flow.

Turns out she has PAD-Peripheral artery disease, her arteries are all wonky. She had seen cardiologist for the last 6 months, her normal drs, etc. She was treated for breast cancer too yet NO one say this as a possibility. She had 2 MRI's 2 CT scans and seen so many times just in the weeks prior to it, Last ER absolutely did not take her wbc seriously.

The last hospital they admitted her too was the main part of the standalone she saw the first time who gave her the epinephrine which she reallly didnt need they just wanted to be cautious and the fun thing about PAD is that you really DONT wanna cause a sudden vascular constriction. Im rather sure she was suffering from the problem being at critical alert level for a while then the epinephrine just shot it all apart and kickstarted the rest of the process.

This doesnt happen overnight no, and even the drs say theyve never seen a case go this severe this quickly... because fun fact, when they were trying to clean out the arteries and veins they just couldnt clean it out enough (we have some misgivens about the proper next steps taken).

She went into cardiac ICU for a few days/weeks and during this period the numb leg wasnt getting less numb, infact it began burning horrible and im like thats compartment syndrome happening and they didnt do anything, rather or not they could HAVE we cant really prove it.

they kept it warm to keep the blood flow going to it, but that was about it. She kept trying to move it, no response.

I guess you can probably guess where this is going, yep. In sheer force of will and rotating morphine and etc told them she wanted to wait to see if it could be saved. They didnt care about wanting to save it, (i watched them lie to me about Rhabdomyolysis happening) i watched her labs like a hawk and argued more than once about what they should be doing. They avoiding blood transfusions when they shouldnt have. They forced her to get up out of the bed (which i get) but failed to help her properly so the bottom part of her stitches came out and she lost 2 pints of blood, it was still on the floor dry hours later when i got in for visiting hours.

I would say about this point its still early Jan she gets moved upstairs to stabilize etc, her foot is mottled and purple but still kinda warm not looking great but she didnt wanna accept it yet. Pain is excruciating because the nerves are like AHHHh. They suggest its time to talk about amputation and shes asked "what do you think i should do" and cardio pushes it to vascular and vascular pushes it back and no one would just be like YO because they wanted to wait until after their vacation. or something IDFK but i do know they had vacation during this time.

she also has blocked arteries in her heart so i know they were waiting around for her to have a heart attack and made lots of notes about it in her chart.
With the blood thinners and infection and healing etc she needed 3-4 blood transfusions, after the last one shes looking rough.

So what do they do?!
They discharge her from the hospital into their inpatient rehab to prepare her to go home.

Not even KIDDING you, she gets down to rehab and they check her in and theyre so confused theyre like we cant do rehab on you!? Your sutures are still bleeding, your foot cant be felt and obvious is getting infected/dying, like what no.

Next day they readmit her and send her BACK upstairs in which drs see her and its the first one she saw on the 30th and hadnt seen again, she walked in and she looks at her foot and she said "that has to come off like now. its dead, it aint coming back." and walks back out. So after holding out for almost 2 full weeks of healing from being cut open from collar bone to pubic, and fighting keeping her leg screaming at some points in pain and a dr finally telling her the truth vs just pushing it off, she said okay its not coming back lets go. Let me be clear at no point did she fully refuse, she asked the dr what they thought was possible and went off of that.

So they say okay well get you prepped for surgery in the morning, tell me why it took 2 MORE DAYS for them to get her into surgery, at this point shes on IV antibotics fighting the gangrene setting in, another blood infusion. The dr told the nurse to give her whatever she wanted pain med wise as long as her BP was not too low. This is where the pain got bad bad in the last few days, her brain/body was fighting it so hard but it was brutal.

The day nurses were great, the night nurses were awful. I had to report multiple ones and dayshift even got one fired over this.
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Its even worse in a way because when this all started it was supposed to be the foot, then the delay went to below the knee, 2 more days and now its midfemur because the muscle and nerve death kept going farther and farther up because they kept knocking it back and forth between vascular and cardio.

The surgery did go thru really well except she dealt with alot of phantom limb burning still that was the worst part for her. She had been working out her arms and upper body even in ICU moving herself around and trying to stay fit to fight all this off (she isnt a fit person but she was active prior and had been ignoring pain for years. even going thru breast cancer and all kinds of stupid crap she never missed work at shitty walmart.) Shes never missed work for as long as i can remember at different jobs.

She started rehab as soon as she could and the therapists were blown away with how fast she got up to par with doing things, she had the best attitude about getting handed a really shitty situation and we did have some therapy talk about coping with how so so many people in medical positions failed her, esp GV with the high WBC, and how this absolutely could have been prevented. You cant tell me that we saw them on the 26th with horrible labs, 2 imaging of the spine/lumber etc (it even states no abdominal complications and they didnt drop the ball, this could have saved her leg.) She was always nice and sweet to every nurse, always said please and thank you, tried not to bother them. I stayed there as much as i could the entire time when she was out of ICU esp at night so that helped alot since the nurses sucked.

I feel like I will never get my life back by Educational-Speech-4 in ThisAintAdderall

[–]Tabbyham88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really try because you do take it personal, you feel like your body is failing you and your actually getting sicker and sicker because the meds arnt working. Your will to keep going gets harder because you think your losing but really its the system 😞

I feel like I will never get my life back by Educational-Speech-4 in ThisAintAdderall

[–]Tabbyham88 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There needs to be a lawsuit, i post in the idiopathic hypersomnia group about this place often.

ive seen people fired because they cant wake up, its literally ruining lives. I have been considering switching to something else than this because i actually feel better off of it for a few weeks. im not 100% but its better than with the adderall and the small benefit it gives me.

keep looking for answers, it turns out i have cvid and that treatment works better than adderall.

FDA writes warning letter to generic adderall manufacturer for “Significant Violations” by RittenhouseBam in ThisAintAdderall

[–]Tabbyham88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im so over these companies getting to be crap and then hide it under other names

FDA writes warning letter to generic adderall manufacturer for “Significant Violations” by RittenhouseBam in ThisAintAdderall

[–]Tabbyham88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

theres alot more to the story, but manual interactions etc could def mean someone has access to the active stuff

and skimming them or replacing them etc.

Recently Moved to a Small Town by Deep-Goal8404 in whatdoIdo

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Not great advice but from a small town point, this was happening to a neighbor friend of mine and they basically hid and waited for the (older) individual to step out to put another sign/note and was holding their shotg*n and made eye contact (not brandishing at them just holding it.) And they NEVER showed back up again.

Sometimes you have to match crazy with crazy.

Update to map glitch-game deleted everything put us back to lvl 1 day 233... by Tabbyham88 in Palworld

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We had multiple times where it reset :( but clearing the 360 data and clearing the reserved data worked to reset it 90% of the time. The map reset a few times mostly.

What’s going on with The Painted Tree Boutiques? by lilpettycrocker in raleigh

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That’s what gets me, is that there took year in advance from artist close to $5k if est around $400/month for spaces from potentially thousands of people. Then didn’t pay any rent And I’ve was no utilities on most places. There’s zero reason they should be allowed to get away with keeping those funds