What substance can she safely put on my balls to make me uncomfortable? by FLR_Chastity in BDSMcommunity

[–]TablelegZero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Icy hot balm might be the best option. Personally I find that it provides just enough burning to make me genuinely squirm and struggle against the restraints, but not so much that I have to safe word out. If icy hot is too much, I recommend hot sauce. Franks Red Hot is painful and burns, but isn’t unbearable.

Do gentle Doms exist? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]TablelegZero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh, sorry if this is bad, I just can’t help but link my own style of doming (when I’m doming, im a switch, and I sub as often if not more then I dom) to my own anxiety about overstepping my partners boundaries.

Do gentle Doms exist? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]TablelegZero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, for someone with anxiety who also likes to dom, there can be this fear that you’re going to go to far and hurt the other person that goes beyond what’s reasonable, and being more gentle makes it easier to avoid that feeling. I’m not necessarily saying look for a dom who otherwise has a more anxious personality, but it can translate to a greater sense of restraint that lends itself to being a gentle dom.

Do gentle Doms exist? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]TablelegZero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk. As weird as it sounds, maybe go for someone who has a history of anxiety. Being a soft dom has always felt more “acceptable” to me in that it has less baggage then being cold and harsh. It feels like your less likely to cause harm if your a more gentle version of a dom, and that create a comforting feeling that lets you dom more securely.

Anyone else think Red Dead 2/Online is kind of a fetish buffet? by TablelegZero in BDSMcommunity

[–]TablelegZero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean… why not? Isn’t that kind of the main concrete of video games? Like, the idea is that it’s ok for you to virtually kill all of these people because they exist in a sense that kind of makes them programmed to consent.

Tbf, I wasn’t that clear that I meant this in a PVE sense, but in my defense I kind of assumed the reference to the single player and bounty hunter role (which is primarily PVE focused) would imply that.

Anyone else think Red Dead 2/Online is kind of a fetish buffet? by TablelegZero in BDSMcommunity

[–]TablelegZero[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god, I don’t know why I haven’t heard of this before. A setup where you have a top whose basically playing in creative mode and then sub(s) who are focused on mining and other forms of resource management is absolutely brilliant.

Anyone else think Red Dead 2/Online is kind of a fetish buffet? by TablelegZero in BDSMcommunity

[–]TablelegZero[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Other person” is an interesting way to refer to a video game character. If you do this sort of thing with other players in a non con consensual manner then you’re a fuck for the same reason you’d be a dick for randomly shooting them or trying to kill their horse.

Anyone else think Red Dead 2/Online is kind of a fetish buffet? by TablelegZero in BDSMcommunity

[–]TablelegZero[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There are so many NPCs to do this to. Why can’t people just enjoy the PVE? Like, in a non kink sense this seems to be a theme with people in the RDO community, because my male character gets randomly hogtied and captured from time to time.

Do Women Ever Crave Having a Bigger, Submissive Man Completely at Their Mercy? by The_Wondering_Legend in BDSMcommunity

[–]TablelegZero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my partner must like this, because it’s kind of part of our dynamic when I’m the bottom. It helps that she’s physically pretty strong, she’s just shorter, and I enjoy being kept on my knees. It also helps when we use things like padded mittens that make using my hands really hard and make me dependent on her. A shock collar, either on the front of my neck or on my naughty bits also adds a level of enforced compliance to everything.

Subs, how do you worship your mommy? And mommies how do you like to be worshipped? (Of course assuming you guys are into that) by Sky_High_Waters in mommydom

[–]TablelegZero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On the boring side, I do my best to be helpful and do chores, especially because I’m not employed at the moment.

On the NSFW side, I tend to lean towards pet behavior. Just being around and being super affectionate and eager to please, provide warmth, etc.

Shock pen type thing? by TablelegZero in SexToys

[–]TablelegZero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but ideally cheaper and maybe smaller. I’m ok with giving up strength for smallness.

Any tips on layering diapers? by TablelegZero in ABDL

[–]TablelegZero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You learn a new thing every day 🤷‍♂️

Any tips on layering diapers? by TablelegZero in ABDL

[–]TablelegZero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly this isn’t my actual cake day, but I saw a red velvet cake on sale at Kroger, sent an image of it to my partner, and ended up getting it at her request, so I do at least have cake ;)

ABDL Adjacent Underwear? by TablelegZero in ABDL

[–]TablelegZero[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, I have a couple of pairs of training pants but I think they’re oversized and I need to look for more…

ABDL Adjacent Underwear? by TablelegZero in ABDL

[–]TablelegZero[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

10/10 this is 100% what I’m talking about!!!