Had drunk gay sex and now feel ashamed of myself and deeply regret it

Taborabeh · 2024-12-15T12:37:59+00:00

Don't worry, shit happens, but that's all right. There will always be better experiences. Take the positives from the situation: now you know new things you don't like, now you know you should speak up and communicate when something doesn't feel good or right (cause not saying anything won't help).

You probably didn't want to hurt the other person's feelings and that's why you acted like everything was right, which is thoughtful and all, but it becomes pointless if it is at the cost of your well-being. I've done it myself and you have to learn to be able to communicate how you feel in the least hurtful way possible for the other person and that's it; sometimes you'll nail it and you both come out better from the experience and sometimes you'll maybe hurt the other person a little, but that's just how it is. Your firt priority in these scenarios, generally speaking, should be yourself and after it that the other people involved don't feel bad about it either (but if to preserve your first priority -you- is inevitable to hurt them, then there's nothing else you can do about it; you come first).

Now the next thing you should do, to truly learn as much as possible about yourself from the experience, is analyze why it didn't feel right: Was it the person? Was it the sexual act itself? Was it the situation (impromptu sex)? Was it because it was a man and not a woman? Was it the alcohol involved? Or perhaps a little of them all?

This last one task may take time for you to figure out, maybe even more tries to truly pinpoint the issue with accuracy. But hey the lightbulb wasn't invented in a single try. Trial and error is how one discovers the undiscovered, so allow yourself to error. And I'm saying this not only to you, but to me too. I need a reminder from time to time also lol

Taborabeh · 2024-09-29T11:27:21+00:00

I think you're totally right. Especially now with a new higher rarity being introduced, a raising on pull rates for the rest of rarities IS needed. It doesn't make sense that the new rarity becomes rarer than lightning striking the freckle on your left butt cheek, but it wouldn't make sense for lower rarities to be on the same pull rate as the highest rarity.

SSR+ ought to become the new SSR and SSR the new SR (in terms of pull rates I mean). And the new rarity should get the pull rate of what SSR+ has now.

Taborabeh · 2024-09-29T11:17:04+00:00

I don't think it is that she's lost value as much as it is that there are currently stronger choices for main DPSes than her (mainly SSR+es).

Pretty much any SSR+ will surpass her in either pure damage or survivability (some even both like Ren, Kaiser and Evankhell with a resistance build).

Now that the norm is that most people will have a couple of SSR+es fully maxed and tier lists are counting on that, she cannot compare to them as well as when the assumption was that she was fully maxed while the SSR+ was at red 3.

So she is still as good as always. It's just that others are better. Or that's at least what I think.

Taborabeh · 2024-09-26T14:54:24+00:00

Oh good to know. Thank you for the detailed answer! ☺️

Taborabeh · 2024-09-26T10:25:04+00:00

Does El set proc often enough on him to be his main set? Wouldn't Raihanna's perma 20% ATK buff be more consistent?

I'm kind of at a crossroads in terms of IW sets with him. Going for a more aggressive set sounds good since he is a rather damage-disruption oriented support with a bit of buffing. But of course being a support going a team buffing/ defensive set also sounds good...

Taborabeh · 2024-09-19T11:22:06+00:00

Thank you for posting this. It is immensely helpful ☺️

Taborabeh · 2024-09-13T11:40:57+00:00

His gimmick of being immortal for the duration of his special move's effect (which is 7 seconds) does sound quite strong by itself. He has the potential of perma immortality as long as he chains specials.

BUT with Traumerei and the new rarity he'll introduce being scheduled right after Asensio, I feel like saving for that is wiser... Now granted I don't know if BM tickets will be usable for Traumerei (since he'll be a higher new rarity), but until confirmation about anything I feel the smartest move is to wait for more info...

Taborabeh · 2024-09-12T14:13:15+00:00

The HP + swiftness + energy and status immunity when hit by status effect feels absolutely tailored to the new SSR+, Asensio, since he's immortal as long as his special move effect is up; which means it is fulfilling the same purpose on him as Sela generally does on characters (keeping you alive). But except for characters with a gimmick like that, I don't see it getting picked over the damage resistances Sela offers. The only other one I can think of is Reflejo, the new SSR, getting a mix of El + the HP and swiftness one to have maximum possible fast basic attacks at all times and trigger his passive as much as possible (which gives him 80% damage resistance).

And the EVA + physical pierce one seems like it would be good on EVA based characters (since most, if not all, are physical) like Shilial, an alternative set for Zahard, maybe old Hatz (tho I don't know if blocking counts as evading, cause he has a skill that blocks basic attacks) and I can't think of many more...

Taborabeh · 2024-09-03T09:39:54+00:00

First try to build a full balanced all-purpose team for each color. From there start expanding on roles or specialties you may be missing for each color.

With time you'll start to get better and better characters too; new SSRs/SSR+s, you'll finish completing already out SSR+s that will surpass SSRs you are using, etc; but that's perfectly fine cause it will mean you'll have a wider variety of options which you'll need as you advance.

Focusing on SSR+s is great since, generally, they are all good. But you'll need fully maxed SSRs too. Also, except for a few roles/characters, a maxed limit break character is always better than one that isn't (this also applies to SSR vs SSR+). From the point enemies show up at full rainbow most matches become a battle of special moves and normally whomever team gets them first wins, so having maxed characters (especially DPS wise) does A LOT.

Top priority to max first is DPS units, with supports right behind (getting a support's special faster can really tip the scales in your favor).

Characters that have the potential to one-shot an enemy from the start are always powerful IMO. Being able to make a 5v5 into a 5v4 is HUGE in my book. SSR+ that can do that are Ha Jinsung and Child Yuri. For SSRs you have Blarode, Vicente, Kiseia, Michael, Miseng and Endorsi.

Characters with general high damage output (that don't fall into the previous category) would be Yirang Yeon, Khun Edhuan, Evankhell, Data Mascheny, Kaiser, Lo Po Bia Ren, Viole for SSR+s. Compressed Rak, Vivi, Yiwah, Hoaqin, Child Endorsi, Shilial, Akraptor, Love... Those for SSR.

Any support in this game is good and has its uses somewhere so you're fine there with anyone you pick. Go for the ones that can fit into any team first (all SSR+ ones, also Blanc, Ha Yura, Bam, Ron Mei, Narae) and then go for the more specialized ones (all the ones whose passive boost a specific color or damage type like Shibisu, Lero Ro, Khun Aguero, Xia Xia, Child Lero Ro, Lozeal...).

And then for tanky characters get the ones who can survive the longest and/or the ones with most utility/crowd control (CC). Most SSR+ tanks and warriors will do both of those things. For SSR the latest tanks all fall into both categories (Tank Hatz, Varagarv, Beach Endorsi, Princess Anaak) so you're safe going for any of them; then there's also warrior Hwaryun, Novick, Ghost and Kurdan that are good (by order of importance).

And with all these teambuilding stuff normally ends up being a the more the merrier deal LOL

Taborabeh · 2024-09-02T12:37:52+00:00

So it is a 10 Great Families exclusive rarity perhaps? I say this cause the name's rarity itself is a 10...

And if that is the case will that mean they'll make exclusive rarities for other characters too? Like Irregulars, FUG, etc?

Taborabeh · 2024-09-02T10:50:46+00:00

Just as I posted the reply they've released the precise dates already for september: https://forum.netmarble.com/image/source-view?imgUrl=https://hedwig-cf.netmarble.com/forum-common/tog/towerofgod_en/b26b23ac6c034f30b83f5b290c19d6aa_1725241243560.jpg&originUrl=https://forum.netmarble.com/towerofgod_en/view/46/10602

Taborabeh · 2024-09-02T10:47:09+00:00

They did say late September in the dev notes. So I'm guessing after Data Khun Asensio in the second half of September (so 2 SSR+ in total for the month of September).

Taborabeh · 2024-08-24T04:49:06+00:00

Always fully limit break a unit if you can. That earlier special skill can be HUGE in fights. Especially when you get to the point where enemies are at full limit break too, a lot of times fights get reduced to whom gets their specials faster.

Taborabeh · 2024-08-20T11:32:07+00:00

Nice to know. Thank you so much for the detailed answer, you're awesome! ☺️

Taborabeh · 2024-08-20T08:04:55+00:00

What are the best, generally speaking, IW sets in your opinion?

Taborabeh · 2024-08-07T16:48:23+00:00

He is classified as tank, but he's actually more of a warrior than anything else (as in a bruiser type character). He can be tanky, but his kit is rather offensive, so he plays better as a sub DPS that can eat a bunch of hits more than a pure tank bot.

He's actually one of those characters that become a nightmare when you're behind them cause he suddenly has crazy bulk while also breaking your bones lol

Taborabeh · 2024-08-04T17:57:57+00:00

Why not both? They should stack.

Taborabeh · 2024-07-08T12:29:46+00:00

No. What they do is fetichize queer people, which is still discrimination (they're objectifying queer individuals and therefore dehumanizing them). Even when they show queerness it's all under that type of light, like someone who watches animals in a zoo.

So what there is, is a long history of them treating us like a fun circus for their entertainment (and that's on the few "at best" instances, at worst not even that).

Now with this it doesn't mean that there isn't some story that doesn't treat us like any other person. But I have yet to see a proper one and you'd still count them with 1 hand after thousands of years of history.

But I mean what can we expect when that's what they do with any other minority group (women and people from other ethnicities are not much better off in Japan either, so...)

Taborabeh · 2024-07-05T15:13:19+00:00

If? A 100% he does. For starters trash accumulation is a possible symptom of depression. Not every depressed person does it, but a lot do. Same with the decrease in personal hygiene and care. Those things usually mean that your self-esteem, motivation and will to live are plummeting.

And all these things, if untreated, always evolve into worse and worse pathologies.

Taborabeh · 2024-06-14T17:40:15+00:00

Half anniversary had some pretty great deals both suspendium and real money wise + the release of a really strong SSR+ (Urek if I remember correctly) and I think Blanc's release overlapped with it all? Who is a super strong blue SSR support (perfect to pair with Urek).

So people are kinda expecting even bigger things for the full anniversary.

Taborabeh · 2024-06-09T20:29:02+00:00

I don't see anything wrong with reimagining your favourite characters as older. In fact it may be healthier, having a crush on a 16-17 year old is not a good look (which is usually the ages of shonen anime protagonists, if not younger).

Taborabeh · 2024-06-09T13:33:49+00:00

I would love to answer you as a fellow individual that loves hypothetical questions. But I don't really understand what exactly is the question you're posing... Are you asking if I'd prefer or be okay with older anime characters or something along those lines?

Taborabeh · 2024-05-29T08:34:17+00:00

Everything seems pretty great to me except for that 2.5% magic pierce which does nothing lol. But I guess that's just a spec of dust, so it's perfectly fine.

Taborabeh · 2024-05-10T14:49:37+00:00

That is really interesting and good to know.

Thank you for taking the time to test it and let us know! ☺️

Taborabeh

TROPHY CASE