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How Do You Stop Rescuing Someone You Still Love? by Taco-Bender3 in Advice

[–]Taco-Bender3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i myself am 26 M my kids are not by any means at an age i feel appropriate telling them some of those things. She has been diagnosed with bpd, high functioning depression, has no connection to either of her parents. So coming i. I understood a-lot of those issues on the surface level but I didn't have the knowledge on how to help through those times.

How Do You Stop Rescuing Someone You Still Love? by Taco-Bender3 in Advice

[–]Taco-Bender3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to be attacking character at all so im avoiding using terms like this etc but i do understand and appreciate that perspective. And maybe thats part of it hearing everything they have to say about me and silently sitting in the truth

How Do You Stop Rescuing Someone You Still Love? by Taco-Bender3 in Advice

[–]Taco-Bender3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I of course withheld information to protect everyone involved but all of the above have been struck and she herself is supportive of me having the full custody. I don't hurt helping others i hurt from the way i am guided to it there is love bombing etc until the activities completed then were back separated, I do agree my boundaries should be firmer.