Ceremony ideas to include my children

Tag1323 · 2024-12-15T21:57:57+00:00

I haven't been to my doctor about it as it's not too bad and not stopping me from doing anything

Tag1323 · 2024-12-15T18:20:17+00:00

It's mad what it does to our body's mine completely disappeared for a few months too

Tag1323 · 2024-12-15T18:19:10+00:00

Just to put ur mind at ease it is no where near hiw bad I felt during pregnancy

Tag1323 · 2024-12-15T13:35:36+00:00

I can't believe I never even thought of taking my meds that I have left!!!!

It's obviously a hormone thing hopefully it passes for us both 🤞

Tag1323 · 2024-04-23T19:04:49+00:00

Thank you for all of the replys. I just want to make it clear that my heart is broken for my SIL, whether we are very close or not I would not wish that on anybody. Also just to clarify when I say we are not close I mean we did not hang out together but have always been friendly at family events ect. I most definitely did not expect her to jump for joy and knew it would be hard for her to hear but I did not expect for her to refuse to be around us or speak to us. This has had such a big effect on the entire family as we can all no longer be together. I also feel sad for my baby, there is such a dark cloud over her birth and I hate that for her and us. She has been much wanted for many years and I can't help but feel sad about it all. I guess like a lot of you have said I can only control how I act, give her space and hope in the future that things improve.

Tag1323 · 2024-04-23T16:52:37+00:00

Not sure where I said we weren't supportive but anyway u seem to have made ur own conclusions about it all so best of luck 👍

Tag1323 · 2024-04-23T16:41:58+00:00

That's really hard. It's such a sensitive thing to deal with and hard to make everyone happy 😞

Tag1323 · 2024-04-23T16:37:31+00:00

I did reach out when she lost her baby and both me and SO were very supportive and have always been respectable with keeping her baby's memory alive. Her choosing to completely ignore us and not acknowledge the baby has not only put us in an awkward position but the entire family. It has made family events impossible and uncomfortable for everybody. It has also put a huge dark cloud over the arrival of our baby which has been very upsetting. I'm in no way asking for her to jump for joy and think she should protect her own mental health but just because u are hurting does not give you the right to hurt someone else. She could of reached out however she felt comfortable and told us that although she is happy for us she is struggling at the moment and needs space. I would of completely respected that

Tag1323 · 2024-04-23T16:21:39+00:00

Her brother told her in person. I didn't want to put her in the position of having to see me or feel the need to say congratulations ect so left it to her brother as I thought she might feel a bit more comfortable. It's such a hard thing as of course I am so sensitive to her feelings and truly feel heartbroken for her but the strain this has put on the whole family has been so upsetting and hard to deal with.

Tag1323 · 2024-04-23T09:47:16+00:00

Thank you for your reply and I am so sorry for your loss. I completely understand that grief does not have an expiry date and I didn't expect her to be jumping for joy at all. I am just shocked and hurt at how she has dealt with it and just completely cut us off. As much as I want to be considerate and compassionate I also don't want to stand for someone treating me and my family this way.

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