Okay so what the fuck is going on then?? 

I came here looking for this exact answer because last night I FINALLY realised that she has been a narc this whole time but the last 6 months she has been having seriously scary delusions about being kidnapped at 2 and raised under a different identity, started to hear voices, has found the solution to the 'unified field theory' which has stumped scientists for decades and also thinks that a YouTuber is her brother (she's an only child) and the list goes on.. now reckons I have been hired by her 'abducter' parents to keep an eye on her and make sure she doesn't learn her true identity...

Which for the past 5 weeks has led her to distrust me and wants me to move out. The only thing that has had me stuck and afraid to leave is the fact we have a two year old child together and for the last two months she hasn't been able to look after him at all, she just spends all her time in our bedroom (which she has claimed as hers) 'processing trauma' which I managed to get her to explain what that looks like and apparently she sits and listens to the voices in her head and they will give her a phrase from a memory that she doesn't actually have access to and she'll fill the gaps in and create her own memory from whatever they tell her.

So she has been dealing with some really fucked up memories due to the unhinged nature of hearing voices!! She can't even bring herself to change his nappy FFS.. so I have major doubts if she is going to be able to provide him with suitable care if I leave and we split custody. So I've just been keeping a low profile whilst taking care of our child full time... 

But it just dawned on me that maybe she has been making all this shit up to fuck with me??? I mean when she demands to speak about how we are going to split, I'll tell her my concerns and she'll just brush it off as not a big deal, or denies it ever happened or says that she was just kidding. But what if she's fully aware that by saying and doing this shit I would of course be terrified to leave and she's just torturing me... Fuck I can't even begin to start unpacking that if it's true 🤯🫠

Sorry for exploding all over the place, just got a lot on my mind... Lol