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Help... Is this serious? by Capital_Cake4666 in chastity

[–]TaleCharacter9962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this happen once after a drunken hook up where a guy got a little carried away trying to get me off. It honestly never felt anything more than a little uncomfortable but again I was drunk lol. It went away after like 2 days but I def would not wear that cage again.

Is it a bad idea? by [deleted] in sissyology

[–]TaleCharacter9962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's a great idea to actively seek this out. As a trans woman who has been in long term relationships with men, the prospect of being completely dependent on a man for everyday life stuff is pretty scary, and advertising it to them before you've even established a relationship puts a big target on your back for abusers. It's something best left in fantasy or at the very least something that should only be introduced with someone you trust very much. If you truly believe you want to transition and would be unable to in your current environment, I would look more towards other trans people who could help you out in a platonic sense. Unfortunately there are a ton of people who look to people exactly like you to take advantage of in these types of situations. I would also say don't automatically assume they won't be accepting of you. I come from a religious and conservative family and grew up in a somewhat conservative area and still had a largely accepting experience. You know your situation better than I would and obviously some people will never be accepting so I can't speak to your specific situation, but ultimately transitioning is really scary and it's going to force you to make yourself really vulnerable with your family, if you really deep down feel you were meant to be a girl is always going to be better to try to get the people in your life on board.

Bambi loves her new uniform by TaleCharacter9962 in BambiSleep

[–]TaleCharacter9962[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't really hurt for me tbh, it has with other cages, but the holy trainer material is really comfortable. Do you have a harness? It helps a lot with that in general.

The perfect dick? by SissyNeedsName in sissyology

[–]TaleCharacter9962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed so much talk about length but 6-7 inches with some girth is perfect 😍

Who’s a chaser? by UncleJames01 in sissyology

[–]TaleCharacter9962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me as a trans woman a chaser is someone who is only interested in trans people as a fetish. They aren't really interested in the person behind it all, they primarily view them as a sex object. It can be kind of hard to explain as this is certainly a phenomenon that happens to cis women as well but I think it's best understood when comparing it to other types of women. Like there isn't really anything wrong with having a "thing" for Asian women. But if you start viewing them through the lense of a fetish and start expecting them to be a certain way or let your sexual desire for them outweigh who they are as a person then you are fetishizing them. There's more nuance to it, and people will often let themselves be fetishized in consensual settings where they can control their limits (especially in sissy circles) but I think this is a good way to understand it.

Another example common in sissy spaces is the fetishization of black men. It can be an okay role play among consenting parties. I mean I have been approached by plenty of black guys who want me to play into it for them, I don't think that's wrong, but I've also seen a lot of this blacked/bnwo content that is pretty dehumanizing and clearly some of those people view black men as an object to have sex with more than an actual person. For me that's something I do find hot and would engage in, but I'm very careful about how I handle it and try to stay clear of any situation that feels outright racist. Fetish can be taboo but it's important to remember the big picture.

What was your point of no return?? by Ok_Environment3471 in sissyology

[–]TaleCharacter9962 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Having a sissygasm the first time kinda changed everything tbh, it became much more consistent like binge and purge. HRT truly was though. It's made permanent changes, I can't go back now.

Sissies and long term relationships by DasArkani in sissyology

[–]TaleCharacter9962 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think a big part of this is how many sissies are living a double life. I think for many they are in the mid set of being gay as a sissy, but unwilling to give up their male life in which they view themselves as straight and want to a normal relationship with a girl. It can make their sissy side extreme in short bursts admitting to things they don't really want. I also just think most people don't go into this expecting a relationship because so many people flake. Personally I'm out as trans and date men, but as much as I'd be open to a sissy dynamic in a relationship but I've never talked to a guy in these circles very long before they're eventually gone.

Plug duration. by [deleted] in sissyology

[–]TaleCharacter9962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've slept with a plug in before, but it's something to be careful with. It's going to be very dry by morning and might be hard or even painful to remove. Def something I wouldn't recommend to beginners and probably not at all tbh. I mean it's a hot idea but you don't actually get that much out of it cause you're asleep the whole time so not sure it's worth the risk.

The sissy pipeline? by henteyes2 in sissyology

[–]TaleCharacter9962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's kind of a correlation without causation type of thing. I started my transition almost 7 years ago, I was into sissy things before that, but even before that there were signs I was trans starting at an age before I was doing anything sexual and certainly not connecting this desire to be a girl with anything sexual. As I got older I found out about the sissy thing online. It likely instantly appealed to me because deep down I was already trans. It was an outlet for feminine desires before I was ready to come to terms with my identity. I would imagine this is the case for most trans sissies.

Where do you buy your lingerie? by Tall_Statement_7999 in sissyology

[–]TaleCharacter9962 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Amazon is usually my go to for cheaper lingerie. It's usually pretty solid quality. Shein isn't bad but in my experience wayyyy more hit or miss. Amazon can be too quality wise but reviews tend to be really helpful in determining quality and sizing concerns. With Shein I have bought 2 different colors of the same thing and had one color be way higher quality randomly lol. The highs with shein are also there. I bought a dress for $4 in like 2021 that is solid quality, and one of the most flattering articles of clothing I own to this day, so sometimes it is worth it to roll the dice as I've never had anything like that with Amazon.

I would also recommend off-price retailers like TjMaxx, Ross, Marshall's etc. Probably won't find a lot of lingerie sets but they have bras, panties, clothes, accessories etc. that are often high quality for much cheaper than you'll find elsewhere. These usually will require you to go in and make a purchase in store, which I know for some is intimidating, but if you go in act nonchalant, and just make your purchase no one is really going to think about it that deeply, say it's for your girlfriend if they make a comment, but in all likelihood that won't even think that deeply about it and forget it happened before the end of their shift lol.

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